Irresponsible father

As I've said I am going to write different kinds of love topic for this month since its february a feb-ibig month,so this topic is a story of a father who did'nt give love to his family ,who escape his responsibilty as a father .

But before anything else ,I wanted to share how happy I am ,blessed I am that someone was supporting me ,a very generous user here giving his support to me .He was my first sponsor for this month ,thank you so much @francis105d1

Okay,lets proceed to my topic now.

Wayback june 2014,our family learned that our younger sister was pregnant at her very young age ,she was 17 years old that time ,she was working in a factory canteen in Cebu City .She got sick and went to a doctor and found out she was pregnant .We all get shocked and the same time felt worried and sad coz she was too young ,how can she handle this,is she was'nt thinking her future?Our eldest sister ,was really get mad coz even she was'nt had plan for it coz we wanted to help our family because of it ,ate texted her and "you are not thinking your future ,you are still young ,you did'nt even think that your elder siblings was not planning yet to enter that marriage life "then she replied "don't worry te ,I will never ask you help" and that message makes our ate getting annoyed and texted her a not so good words.Anyways she overtake us her 4 elder siblings.

One of her co workers was my classmate ,so I texted my classmate and ask upadate on her ,and she said they were going home with her boyfriend ,so we waited them but they did'nt came home ,we never think that she will not go home and nag layas siya .She never answered our called and replied our messages until the day that we can't contact her.

Our eldest sister wedding was happend last september 2014 and she ,was the only siblings who did'nt attend our ate's wedding .I always prayed that she will be fine wherever she was that she was in a good hands .It was December 30 when we recieved a message from her ,she finally contacted us and saying she was fine then she decided to go home after 6 months na paglalayas .We celebrated new year with a complete family .We ,her siblings talked that we will forget all what happened and tried to understand her ,even will not asking why she did'nt go home for about a half of a year.

The day came that she go home alone ,her boyfriend did'nt accompanied her I can't stop my tears seing her for the very first time with a huge tummy ,she was 7months pregnant that time.I felt so pity looking at her.When we asked about her boyfriend if when we can meet him ,she said it was busy from his work .

March 2014 when she gave birth to little boy ,our ate wanted that her son will used the surname of his father coz we are thinking that maybe oneday he would ask about his surname and it is his right to use the surname of his father.So my sister's boyfriend came to the hospital since they are not yet married ,he need his signature at birthcertificate of their son .After two days,my sister's boyfriend washed their laundry in our home after he visited them at the hospital and when he finished ,he said he will be going to his sister to get some money coz his sister wanted to help him for the hospital bill and until now he did'nt come again ,he was lost ,he escape his responsibility.

I can't imagine how hard it is for my sister that after giving birth ,she was still in hospital and he a an irresponsible one leave them ,are he serious?he leave his girlfriend with their son without telling them .Sigh!I don't know how could I call him ,I think irresponsible man is not enough to call him.

My nephew now is already 6years old but hes not longing anymore for a fathers love .My father and brother give him the love he needs .And one time at the school when still have a face to face classes,their teacher asked them about their father .The question was "who is your father or papa" then my nephew answered "papa canor" anayway papa canor was our grandfather we called him papa.

And when they are in home ,my sister explained him about his father and you know whaty nephew said?he said "I don't need him ma ,I had tatay and tito here".Poor little child ,he accepted that his father may forgot them already .

Now that my sister is already moved on ,she had a new boyfriend already ,we asked her when we a had time for a chitchat if her exboyfriend contact them but she said " no" even in social media ,he is not updated .

My say

Being a young parent I think is not a valid reason for him to escape his responsibilty ,many young parent now do their job as a parent to their kids at their young age .Its your responsibility since your the who did it .A lesson to anyone ,if your not yet ready for it ,wag mong pasukin and try to think if who ever gets suffer after all you've done .

And thats all for day ,nang gigil na si ako eh hahha.

Thank you for spending your time my beautiful read cash fam .

Stay safe and God bless

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