How's my Monday?

Its another day again ,I am so thankful that God gives us another day again in our lives.Another day to live ,and another chance to change whatever we need to change for us to be a better persons.

Anyway ,since I can't think a good topic now ,I will just share you guys on how my monday went on.

My son's first day of limited f2f class

My eldest son was very excited coz finally he can meet his teachers and classmates ,most parents were happy including me that finally face to face classes is back ,but the difference now is it is a limited and we need to follow the health protocols.

In the entrance of the school ,there are some barangay health workers to check the temperature of the students and list down their names for contact tracing incase if there will be a problem ,then the students are assisted to washed and cleaned their hands.

I told my son that I will go home coz his younger brother might looking at me and we will wait him at the gate and fetch him after they finished their class.Since they are not allowed to go out from their rooms ,I put 1alaska yogurt and 2biscuits with water in his bag .I told him that he will not eat his snacks not until their teacher will allow them to have a snacks.But when their teacher told them to have their snacks ,he was'nt able to find his snack in his bag ,his bag was have a 4 pouches ,but his teacher rescued him and gave him biscuits.

When we fetch him I was with my husband and his younger brother ,he was mad at me ,he told me that I did'nt put snacks in his bag hahah ,I don't know how will I react on this lol!,he was mad at me and feel ashamed coz he is the only one who had no snacks .So I open his bag and I saw the food I put there but he was'nt able to see it hahaha ,poor little boy.

We went to the school at 10am even if they will out at 11 coz my baby keeps looking his kuya and felt bored ,he said that his kuya was hiding haha,so we went to school early and waited our son for an hour.

When we got home ,I and my husband asked him ,about his first day of school and good thing he was doing fine and he said one of his classmates don't have crayon and he let his classmate borrow his crayons .I asked him if he did'nt cry and he did'nt naman and he understand already that I will have to leave him at the room.When he was study at pre-kinder ,he will never let me out of their room ,I was sitting beside him until the school year was end.He will cry all the time so his teacher allow me to sit beside him and I was like a student also haha.

She already knew it and she was upset

My sister in law,chatted me about her daughter ,and I told her that I already knew it and I did'nt tell ate cres(my sister inlaw)coz I wanted her daughter with her boyfriend will tell it to her.She was crying and upset of what happening to her daughter ,she even was'nt able to sleep when she learned it ,her daughter's boyfriend chatted ate about it and ate was became speechless when she read the message ,she was crying and felt upset.She was not asking any payment from her daughter ,all she want is to have her a good life and seeing her in her success.But what she did was made ate cres felt bad,sad and upset .She chatted me about it and she did'nt even tell it to her sister who in Hongkong also ,she tell it to me first and I know how she felt for it but she can't do anything for this but to accept it.I told her that I am only the one who knows it in our family ,I did'nt even tell it to my husband coz I know what would be his reaction for this.My husband will surely blame ate cres of what happened to her daughter,she spoiled her daughter so much and did't teach her to be independent.Her daughter wanted to go back to manila to find work but ate did'nt let it happened ,she will sustain her daughter needs and wants ,thats how she showed love to her daughter and forgot to teach her to be independent.When she was studying in college ,ate gave her a big allowance ,she studied without having a finacial problem ,kahit na magka utang utang si ate mabigyan lang ang anak ,she even did't washed her laundry on her own,instead she will spent money for her laundry at a laundry shop.She grew up without a financial problem ,ate gives anything she wanted ,she was having a big celebration for her debut and graduation.When she was working ,she was'nt able to save coz she keeps spending her money going anywhere ,and ate cres shoulder the rent for her room even if she was already working.Thats is why my husband surely get mad when he will know about it ,coz she was not thinking her mother hardship in life.

I told ate cres that she will have to accept it ,and this happen to her will teach her how hard the life is.Ate said she was thankful that I was there ,kahit papano nabawasan ang sama ng loob niya and she asking me to guide her daughter in her pregnancy journey .And for now she will focus her son who is studying college and need big amount for tution fee.I know it is hard for her to accept but she can't do anything but to accept whatever happened to her daughter.

Closing thought

As a parent we should teach our kids to be independent and stand on their own feet coz we don't know what will happen in the near future,we don't know how long our life to stay with them.We need to teach them to brave to face whatever obstacles that came to our lives.Coz if we don't teach them ,for sure they will find hard times to face whatever happens to them.We should not spoiled our kids just to show how much we love them ,there are many ways how we can show our love to them.It really hard to spoiled them coz we don't know what would be happened in the future,we should have to think the "what if"what if we can't able to give what they wants but they grew up that we spoiled them in their wants,what would be happen what if one day we can't do anything for their want?

And that's it for today ,thank you for spending your time ,have a nice ahead.