Be Mindful Of Your Speech.

Happy Sunday to every beautiful person on this platform. Don't worry, you are the one I am talking to and you are beautiful in your way. I know we have different religions but I think the most popular ones are the Christians and Islamic practitioners. To the Christians, did you go to church? To the Muslims, did you go to the mosque? Also, to the traditional worshippers, did you go to the shrine? I live very close to a shrine here and they worship on Fridays. I think it differs. I think they choose their worship day due to their leisure period. And to my lovely people who practice Judaism, Hinduism, Buddhism, Paganism, Catholicism, and a lot more, how's your worship service? I hope you enjoy it. Please if you practice any of these, feel free to tell me what day and time you worship. I'll appreciate it.

I have very noisy neighbors. My housemates are very calm and not noisy but my neighbors are always making noise and it is very annoying. I don't need to set an alarm to wake up early in the morning because their noise will surely wake me up. Have you ever experienced some noises that when you hear them, you won't be able to sleep again? No matter how sleepy you are, if these people start their noise, you won't be able to sleep well again. Apart from the fact that they fight almost all the time, they lack some manners which I think everybody should learn. My compound is fenced but the house is very very close to our fence so we hear almost everything they do inside their compound. I think people need to learn how to do things quietly without disturbing others. I learned this from my dad and it has helped me so much. I remember when I was at the university if my roommate wants to open the door, she was going to bang the door so loud. This is very annoying because there are times that I may be sleeping but the noise would not let me sleep again. Whatever we do in life we should learn to have courtesy.

My neighbors started, as usual, this morning. They had a fight session this morning and they shouted for over two hours. The fight was between two women but the other housemates intervened so that it won't go beyond what it is. They began to curse each other and say negative words to each other which is uncalled for. Presently, they already settled the fight and all they could say to each other is 'sorry'. What about the curses? Have they forgotten about it? This made me think of couples who curse each other whenever they are not on good terms. I think this is common among women. I know people who do it. Some people are so fast in saying negative words to their partner whenever they are having an issue that can be resolved at any time. I noticed that at end of the day, all they will say to their partner is sorry after they have said so many negative words to the person.

Some people even forget that they will still have sex with their partner. Apart from the pleasure, we get from sex, we share a lot of things. Sex is a pleasure and spiritual at the same time. At the end of the day if those curses begin to manifest, these same people who still be the ones to blame their partners for not doing well in life. Why? Why should you say negative words to your partner during an argument? It's not nice!!! It's painful. I went somewhere a few months ago and the man and woman quarreled. The wife had to start telling her husband that he is useless. He doesn't have a good job. I have never seen the man cry. He broke down in tears. He has been doing the job for over eighteen years, trained three children to University level, they are done with university now, has his last child in a secondary school, built his house, and has a car but his wife said he's useless. How would you feel if you were the one? I'll feel bad😪.

It may not be our partners, it may be a random person. Let's be mindful of what we say whenever we're quarreling with people.