Siblings and their positive personalities in order of birth

The curiosity of man in wanting to know why people behave the way they do has led him to quite a number of theories regarding why we do the things we do: popular beliefs like the zodiac signs, to more science-based ones like genetics, to psychology. However today I am going tp discuss how people behave in relation to the order in which they are born. So here we go!

FIRST BORNS

Smartness:

First borns are a unique set of individuals so if you're the first child of your parent reading this, just know that you're amazing.

Research has shown that first children are usually the smartest out of the later children, one of the reason being that first borns gets more mental stimulation from their parents at a very young age. First borns are the most showered with attention from their parents when they are kids because of the excitement that usually comes from having a baby for the first time. The parents would want to give it all they got. Even when other children are born on later dates, the effects still remains, not ignoring the fact that first children often attend the best schools in the neighbourhood.

Successful:

First borns grow up to be very successful people in their chosen career, especially when they have other siblings. This is because the expectations on first children is very high both from their parents and siblings and perhaps even society. Society shames first borns who grow up to achieve nothing and even see them as useless especially when their younger siblings are doing better than them in their career. Their siblings and parents may lose respect if this happens and the thought of the shame serves as a motivation for them to succeed, fuelling their passion to succeed, after all they are first borns with a lot of expectations on their heads.

Responsible and caring:

I don't know if it's me but most first borns I know are responsible and loving people. They are nice, warm and friendly people. I think their sense of responsibility comes from the fact that they are often expected to take up the roles of their parents at some point in time. They are expected to become second parents and help their parents out. They want to hear about your day or how you're doing. They have this selfless love in them. First borns can displease themselves just to please you, they're candles who burn themselves to give others light.

Second borns:

Determination:

These are the most determined of them all. They have a strong resolve when it comes to doing something that needs to be done probably because of the subtle or pronounced competition they have with first borns, they hate comparisons, they love being first in all they do, like some sort of shadowing or mirroring what they've missed. Anyway this characteristic help them later in life to achieve their goals.

Friendly with good social skills:

Second children have good social skills and are better at maintaining relationships. Some people say that this is because they are often deprived of attention by their parents who focuses more on the first and last child making them seek solace in the hands of friends, While this might be true one can't deny the fact that second children while growing up have a friend by birthright already which is the first child.

Fast learners and good negotiators:

Because of their easy-going nature and good social skills, they mingle more with outsiders, they learn things easily either streetwise or bookwise. They are smart and get the hang of things real quick. They are good at negotiation which starts with their parents. The second child eho knows that his parents listen to the first child than they do him will try his best tp convince them into agreeing with him.

Third borns:

Adventurous :

Now these guys can be really crazy (no offence to third borns. Fun fact: I am one!). Crazy in the sense that they are always in need for some adventure in their lives. This includes risk-taking whether reasonable or unreasonable ones. They have a free and high spirits making them real charmers. This is because by the time they're born, the parents are more relaxed and aren't all excited, the parents somehow don't put much restrictions on them as they do the first born.

Creative:

They are creative because of their everlasting willingness to explore. They like trying out new things and most times they're allowed to since they are mostly under the care of their older siblings than their parents.

Last borns:

And here we have the ones whom all eyes are on. The most hated yet the most loved of all the others, Last borns :).

Confident :

There's this confidence that oozes out of last borns. They are fearless because they were taught that as kids, "do whatever you want, mom's got your back!." They aren't afraid to go after what they want as long as they're sure that's truly what they want. This trait helps them alot in life including developing highly social skills. They are fun to be with.

Creative:

Last borns can also boast of creativity because of the unlimited freedom they have, they can try anything they like even if the parents wouldn't normally allow it (anything for my baby!). This boosts their creativity from a very young age.

Simple:

They have got themselves adapted to getting things they want when they ask for it so if a last born wants something from you, he straight up tells you without making the situation complicated. You either do it or you don't. They keep it simple. No if's no buts. They also have a forgiving spirit if you do them wrong and try to make amends when they do you wrong.

And ofcourse, we all know that some lastborns could be very cheeky. You just can't take that away from them. Lol

The article above is just but my personal observations, and in no way a general view.

So that's all for today, I hope you enjoyed reading my little piece.

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