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A Happy Spouse, A Happy House **They always say,** **"A happy wife, A happy life".** **Though it's true, we also do not forget that Happiness is not all about us wives.** Good relationships no matter what stage you are on consist of two happy people. Behind every happy wife is a husband who keeps putting a smile on that face. But is the husband getting the same attention? Is he happy as much as his wife is happy? The thing about marriage is you have to keep it going not just love, sex, or money it's everything and in all aspects of life. It's hard work. You bet! But that's the way it is. Equality If we insist on equality then remember that the husband and wife have the same rights and responsibilities. Marriage is 100/100 and not just 50/50, lovely people. It is not giving and taking, it's always giving while continuing to fill all the needs and both of you are celebrating such a relationship. Both of you should be happy and understood. It takes two to tango never gets old A single mother or father is amazing for doing everything to raise their family when it's supposed to be with a helping hand from their spouse. Salute to all single parents! Now in marriage, you expect the couple to be teamwork. One is making the money by putting a roof and food for the family then the other makes use of that money efficiently. Meaning, if the husband works, the wife cooks food and cleans the house. If both of them are working, both of them help whatever and whenever they are needed. It's never just a plain housewife. It never is. A man should appreciate a woman who can stay at home and keep a house for their family. And a woman should appreciate their man for working hard to provide for them. Everyone has a role. And everyone should be acknowledged. I'm a happy wife and I take it as my job to keep my man happy. Because I know how to do that. Are you aware of each other's love language? Make use of that! I'm a happy wife because I have a happy husband. I got treated like a queen and so I'm gonna treat him like a king. It is so important to be appreciated. Let me stress that. Remember both should be happy! Not just you or him. BOTH! Now if you're not happy there's something to talk about between the two of you. Not with the whole clan or social media. Guessing what's wrong and hoping for someone to get that hint sometimes don't work. A heart-to-heart talk does. Be clear. Say what you want and hear each other side. Listening is as important as Talking. Communication is the key. ****Not going to Tulfo. 🤣**** **Thank you for reading.**
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Bongga, momma! This is so true dpat both happy para everybody happy, hahaha. Pero natawa ako sa tulfo sa dulo, jusko yung iba konting problema atat magpatulfo eh, ako ayoko maranasan yan. 🤣
Bhe yung iba naman ay naiintindihan ko bakit nagpapatulfo e pero talaga kung magkaproblema man ako sa asawa ko e hindi ko na rin ipapahiya sarili ko sa madlang pipol. Bawat may mangyari na lang, papatulfo kita! Di ganon 🤣
Awwwww well said! It is do nice to read about a happy relationship rather than rants all the time. Truly a relationship is built on consideration of each other's happiness and love language.
Thank you for appreciating it, Sis! ❤ How are you getting on with work? Everything okay?
I finally got my visa sis. Will start work Thursday next week. :)
Hahaha natawa ako sa last part yung Not going to Tulfo. 🤣
Lagi na lang kasing kay Sir Tulfo gustong humingi ng tulong e
I ealwa
Tama..dapat both equal.kc kapag hndi, ma out of balance yan haha
Mapupunta sa kapitbahay 🤣
We all have v
well said dear sis, both should always be helpful and ready to solve matters of their lives
That's right its always teamwork, dear.
Awiehhhh, coming from experiences ano madams. Sana I am not immature para maging peaceful lang lagi kaso hahahaha nvm.
Haha naku Ruffa, ako naman ay may pagkaimmature pa rin carry lang yan basta natotolerate ng the lucky one 🤣
Di man ako totally as a wife pero I am a happy hard working mom. Even if ako yung bread winner okay Lang for me. For now peace kami ni hubby kasi di na ngpa pasaway. Sana eh tuloy2x na talaga pagbabago niya my peace of mind na ako. Anyway I am for you sis to be treated like a queen. Your husband was raise by a queen too I guess
Salute sayo sis! Nagsimula rin kami ng ganyan at ako ang may work at napkapasaway din dumating na rin sa point na di ko na kayang patawarin pero nalagpasan lahat at yun siguro pag pinagsama sama, yun ang nakakapagpatibay sa relasyon.
You are correct sis: in a merriage, both partners should be happy. If a husband is earning bread, then the wife should take responsibility for taking care of house and children. Similarly, if both partners are working, both partner's should help each other in every matter. That is how merriage works, and if you are having problems with your spouse, then a gentle conversation can solve your problems.
People nowadays resort to social media when they have problems. How can other people solve your marital issues? Others would only gossip and embarrass the family. That's not good. Communication is the key.
Worth reading. As I'm an unmarried guy, this will help me in my recent future when I'll get married. ❤️ the way you see things great, I hope every couples be like that. Btw, your are invited to read my articles 🥶
Oh my goodness your name sounds like a girl to me 🤣 Glad you say you're a man!
Thank you for the greeting. I share the idea that dirty laundry is washed at home, no social networks to solve a family problem. I congratulate you on your happy home.
Thank you Gertu! 😊
You are very right about this. The two people in marriage should be happy with themselves. Communication is key!! Lack of communication kills marriage
Agreed madam! Both should work for the betterment of the relationship, and both should acknowledge each other. Kaso nowadays, madalang na ang may magandang relasyon dahil trending na ang Tulfo.
'Yung hanggang dito naka-abot si Tulfo, hahaha. Pero mas natawa ako sa part na "Mapupunta sa kapitbahay", Ate ah. 😹 Pero sa true din naman kasi. It will not just revolve around love, financial & sexual aspects. Dapat kasama din palagi 'yung pagpa-practice on how to maintain it & get it more stronger ~ coz if not? Damay 'yung buong family sa effects. I know coz ramdam ko 'yan whenever our parents are quarreling or having a misunderstanding.
Ang serious at ganda ng explanations then last part natawa ako🤣 Haha, tulfo is lifr lately madam,
Totoo maam dapat same both. Dapat kung masaya siya masaya ka din. Dapat kayong dalawa magkahawak kamay sa buhay.
yes having a good life partner is a great blessing in our life. I'm glad that you have that already. I wish you more happiness!
I 100% agree! Tulfo is not the answer. Bet na bet ko talaga yung title nito eh hahaga
Both should have the equality, a balance relationship is a harmonious life, a marriage life.
amen to this sis! it's important that we work hard to make our spouses happy and we must get the same in return... else, we should talk about what's wrong and then adjust!
The happiness of both parties is greatly required for the marriage to keep going, at least a stable mental state. It's all about communication and understanding really, not that difficult if boh parties are open minded enough. May our marriages be peaceful.
I always believe that It takes two to tango :)
Natawa ako sa not going Tulfo bhe 🤣 ang dami kasi ngayon sa social media dinadaan ..kung pag usapan na lang nila diba? Wala pang mga marites na nakabantay hahahaha. Indeed.. responsible din natin mga wife pasayahin mga asawa natin di lang tayo aba 🤣
Kasi naman bhe makikiusyoso lang naman yung iba pagpipiyestahan ang buhay mo. Pupunta kay tulfo para maayos? E lalo lang magkakagulo diba? Yung ibang case oo pero yung sa mga magasawa e akoy naloka 🤣
God bless you Momma...your type is rare. Thank you so much. Yes, marriage is not 50-50...it's giving 100%... We need to love and understand each other in the language that partner understands. It helps and make things easier. Thank you for your kindness today, Momma... When I receive the items I would definitely let you know. I'm composing a poem for you already 😂🤣😂🤣
My dear friend knows better! 😁 And lol, no you don't have to but I love your poems so I thank you in advance! 😁
Npakabless mo sis sa hubby mo, sa family at sa lhat lahat. Sana tuloy tuloy lng ang pg unlad
We started with nothing Sis ang hirap din namin non pero pag marunong magtrabaho, uunlad din ang buhay. Salamat sis
Ahmm....this can also be a good advice for us (singles)Lolll No doubt the happiness of both matters in this relationship.
Haha, dear. I laugh! I pray that you will find a good man and he will find you. 🥰
I appreciate all that you wrote especially we are equal 100/100. Yes it is. But many fail to understand particularly in our place. My husband is cooperative to a certain extent.
It's everywhere. Have to have a heart and a good understanding to understand. God bless your happy family. ❤
Thanks dear
Louder. We're just embarassing ourselves if we go to Tulfo as all people will know and has really something to say about it. Biblically, wives must submit to their husbands as husbands must love his wife between life and death just how Christ loved and died for the Church.
That's right it's really embarrassing and how can they face their family after I do not know. In the end, it didn't love the problem. It adds more.
Nakakahiya yung simpleng bagay na pinag awayan ng mag-asawa, ipapatulfo kaagad, eh pwede lang naman pag-usapan privately. wahaha.
Sino rin naman ang mapapahiya diba? Parang di ko kayang mapatulfo at magpatulfo 🤣
Haha I read your title and was thinking of the more common saying that you mentioned right away. Your points layout to a perfect life. It just seems here in the states a lot of focus is on the wife. Not always but sometimes. Maybe that's why the divorce rates are so high here. I like the catchy happy spouse happy house cause it applies to both.
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