We all want to find the perfect person for us. We spend our time in dates, social media and other things looking for that special someone.
The question "What is the right one for you?" can be answered in many different ways. The answer to this question will depend on your lifestyle, where you live, what your profession is and so much more. The answer to this question really depends on what your idea of a “perfect” person is. If you are not sure, I can help with some questions:
Do they make you happy?
Are they caring and understanding?
Do they make your family happy too?
If so, then there may be something in common there! The bottom line is that everyone has different expectations when it comes to relationships. And while sometimes people do fall out of love because their partner doesn't match up with their ideals, most times people just grow apart or change priorities over their differences .
The wrong ones are always around :
"No matter what you do, there will always be the wrong ones. The ones that just won't go away and no matter how many times you tell them to stop calling or texting, they're back again. Sometimes it feels like these people are everywhere: at home, work and even when we least expect it."
You don't have to be a detective to notice that the wrong ones are always around. The type of person who makes you wonder if they are really there for you or just looking at your worth as an investment. When I was younger, it took me awhile to figure out what I wanted because all the right people were too busy elsewhere. Now, with age comes wisdom and my mind is clearer on how this should go down. True love will find its way into your life again but it won't be until after you cut your losses and stop wasting time with these types of people who never really cared about you in the first place!
"This article is about some of the worst offenders I've encountered in my life so far and their impact on me." "Some of these stories may not have a happy ending but there is hope!
Hopefully this article can help others who might be going through similar situations."
You don't have to keep these people in your life forever, but you do need to find a way to say goodbye first before anything else happens. Here’s how: 1) Find out why they were with you in the first place 2) Figure out what made them stick around 3) And figure out what will happen in the end.
Be your own person :
We all want to be our own person. But how many of us actually are? We all want to be unique and different, but we also want to fit in and belong somewhere too. Is it possible for us to maintain both these traits at the same time? I think so!
Ever feel like you're in a situation where your parents want one thing for you and all of your friends are telling you to do something else? You know that feeling when someone says, "You should really do this?" And then the other person replies with "No, I don't think so." Well if that's ever happened to you, it's time to be your own person.
Being your own person is not about what you do or say; it's about who you are inside. It's about being your best self and standing up for what you believe in. So next time someone tells you that they don't like the way you dress or something like that, know that they're just trying to control who YOU are on the inside because they can't control who YOU really ARE on the outside. The most important thing is that you are entitled to your own identity.
Know what you want in life :
We live in an era where, for the first time ever, we have the opportunity to consciously design our own lives.
One day you woke up and realized that the life you are living is not what you envisioned for yourself. You want more out of your career, your relationships, and your personal growth. You know in order to get there, there needs to be a change in who YOU are and how YOU do things. The question is: What does "being the best version of yourself" look like?
Who do you want to be?
How much money will you need to support your lifestyle?
And how can we achieve it?
You might find that when you're not sure what your goals are, there's a good chance that they'll be less attainable than if they were specific. This can lead to feelings of frustration or disappointment because we feel like we should have achieved more by now. So take this time to reflect on whether or not your current goals align with who you really are and where you would like to go in life. If not, make some changes!
Listen to your heart and not others : Be confident about yourself
"We all have a voice in our heads, and you grow up, the voice will tell you what to do. Sometimes this is good advice--sometimes not so much.
A lot of the time, we get caught up in what other people think. We worry about what they'll say if our ideas are different than theirs or how they'll react to the things that we want to do with our lives. You can't let others dictate your life or who you are, but sometimes it's hard to break free from their influence. We all have moments where we feel like we can't go on but then, there is always a light at the end of the tunnel.
The only way is by listening to your heart and not others- so stop worrying about what everyone else thinks of you and just be yourself!
decisions and follow your heart?
But how can we know if it's really us listening to ourselves? It's time for a reality check."
Everyone has their insecurities, but that doesn't mean we have to let them rule our lives. Here are some ways to find your inner confidence and start believing in yourself.
1) Remind yourself of the good things you do: We all have qualities that make us unique and special. Focus on those instead of what you perceive as "flaws." There is no such thing as perfection! Remembering how awesome we are will build up our self esteem so we can feel better about ourselves.
2) Find a role model: It's important not only to believe in ourselves, but also others who share similar struggles with body image or insecurity issues as well. Look for someone who inspires you and try to emulate them;
Never give up on love because it will always be there for you when things get tough!
The right one will never leave you for someone else because they can't imagine themselves without you. If this is the person who completes your puzzle, don’t give up on them too soon - all it takes to win their heart back is patience and understanding. Sometimes people just need time before they feel ready again. So when in doubt, wait it out!
Author's Message
I think the best piece of advice I've ever received is to not let anyone discourage you from being who you are. "We're all different. We have different strengths and weaknesses, but we are also capable of more than one thing at a time. I'm not the best runner in the world, but I am also very good at math.
You can't always be great at everything you try to do, but that's okay because you'll find what you enjoy most." -Avery Niles"
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"Be your own person" 👍🏻 What a golden piece of advice!