My Jong🐈 I🙋♀️ and my mother🙇♀️
*From the beginning in my animal world, I love cats more. There are very few people in the world who do not love cats. Those who do not love, I think, are very weak. Like my mother doesn't like cats very much. The cat is an innocent animal.*
*As a pet in my home, I shelter a cat. From the age of one month, my father brought him from the road to my house. Which was 1 month old. He is now five months old.*
`My cat's identity`
`My name is Jong.`
`My age = 5 months.`
`Food = cooked meat, fish and cat food and water.`
`Skin color = white ash brown.`
`Gender = female.`
`I like everything, but I don't like bathing at all.`
`I do mischief all day hahaha`.
My mother and JONG.🙆♀️V😽
`My mother does not like cats. She thinks cats are unclean animals. The idea of a mother who makes the house dirty.If cat's fur gets in the food, people will get sick if they eat that food. This idea reminds mom. Because of my mother, I have never dared to raise a cat before. I am very scared of my mother. One day I dared to tell my father to bring me a cat.`
`My fother brought me a one-month-old kitten from the street a day later. Seeing that, my mother fired 100 degrees. The mother will not keep the kitten in the house. Even so, my father and I forcefully let the kitten into the house. My mother can't stand it. So he screamed all day. But in the words of the last good, all good. One day, two days to see, the third day my mother really accepted my love.`
`My mother named my love Jong. I call him Jong all day. Jong just wants to sit on my mother's lap. One day, the mother, whom he had neglected so much, loved him more than Jong. But at first my mother did not dare to catch Jong.`
`My mother now takes care of Jong with a lot of affection and love. My mother cooks regular meals every day, for jong. According to the rules, after two-three days, take a bath and clean Jung K. #My love wins. I am very happy to have Jung by my side. My father is also an animal lover like me. I love Jong veey much.Jong really won my mother's love.`
**Which animal do i prefer?**
`All animals like more or less. But I like cats the most. Especially kittens like it very much.`
`Raising cats in a small room in a high-rise building in the city is quite a hassle. Yet I gave my favorite Jong , a place in my little room, to live like him.`
How can a cat walk through a narrow space
Hahaha, my Jong is a very playful animal. I smile when I see its body parts. she can break his body so much. There seems to be no bone in his body. Jong body is much more elastic and flexible.
Due to which Jong can bend and twist his body at will.
Because of this feature of the body, all cats on earth can easily move through narrow space.
That's why cat bones are not as fragile as ours.
Due to the physical constitution of the cat, the cat does not die easily by beating.
That is why there is a saying called "cat's bone".
The cat can be kept in a round cot. It can be kept in a flat box. It can be kept in a long pipe.
In short, the cat is shaped by the container in which it is placed.
So it is jokingly said that a cat is an animal that is close to a liquid.
So, it is understood that the cat did not become the aunt of the tiger!
**Cats smell power and follow**
*Cats have a lot of olfactory power. They recognize the path by smelling dry. Then they come back along that path. I saw my Jong go out of the house many times. Came back again.*
*So this is how some people tie cats in sacks and throw them away. In many cases, even cats find their way back.*
*The main help in this return is the sense sense of the cat.The sense of smell of a domestic cat is fourteen times stronger than that of a human. Cats have twice as many receptors as human receptors in the olfactory epithelium. While there are about 200 million olfactory sensory cells in cats, the number of human cells is only 5 million. In other words, the sense of smell of a cat is much better than the sense of smell of a human being. Cats also have an olfactory organ called the vomeronasal.*
*This means that even if you grab a cat from the house and throw it away, it can return home with the help of its olfactory power. And that's why some people put naphthalene in sacks and then fill the cats. As if the cat's sense of smell faded for a while.*
*But I hope no one will do that. As I have seen, my heart breaks with difficulty, I am fortunate that kindness is enough for my parents, they did not do that.*
*I have kept many such cats, from the door of the house or from the forest.*
*Cats and dogs have a much higher sense of smell, and they keep track of movement, so they can return when they are far away. But as he described, if you leave them like this, you can't always come back. Lost, or attacked by another animal.*
*Cats are beautiful animals that can only be loved, such injustice is not acceptable to them.*
**What are the diseases caused by cats?**
*It does not infect humans at all, but when it does, it can cause death. Symptoms include blood poisoning, shock, respiratory distress and meningitis. To be safe from this germ, clean the area thoroughly with antiseptic after light scratching or bite of dog and cat.*
*My cat has given me many bites in last 3 months. But I did not have any problem. And I think every time a cat is vaccinated, it's 100% less likely to spread the disease than to a cat.*
Why should cats be raised as pets at home?
*The monotonous life brings a little excitement, which every cat owner knows. My Jong makes me and my family happy from home all day. I have fun with Jong all day.*
1. No one knows better than a cat how long to stay.
2. When a cat recognizes someone, no one can show love like that! Jong loves me more.
3. Comfort thing is to learn from cats! Jong sleeps comfortably in my bed and on my lap all day.
4. Bad food does not keep the cat in the stomach! I feed my Jong nutritious food every day.
5. Cats can be your hat! Jong sits up in my head.
6. Running after a cat can save you money on exercise! I run around with Jong all day. It breaks it. That's why I have to stay with him.
7. There is no comparison of cats in the distribution of fur! Distributes her body hair all day on my bed and on my clothes.
8. Cats are always brave! My Jong is very brave. Any kit can kill insects.
9. Teaches how to go against the rules!
10. Cats know, luck is on the side of the brave!
11. Cats can be good pillows! At night I fell asleep. After 1 hour he saw me lying asleep. I am also hugging and sleeping.
12. Trying to give you pleasure! Jong entertains me all day long.
13. Bird lover! All day long I have been looking for love birds and trying to catch them. When I saw a bird outside, I went to catch it.
14. Excellent alarm clock! He explains to me in every work starting from Fajr Azan that I have to do this work now.
15 .. How to love yourself, you can learn from cats! Jong took my family very easily.
*The cat is really like a friend, if your life is friendless, if you think of yourself as lonely and lonely, then the cat will change your attitude, he will say again and again, "No, you are not alone, I am by your side."*
I know a healthy cat lives 10 to 12 years. But I want my Jong to live on until I die, to be with me.❤
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Bangladesh Divorce Women's Position. And the difference between women in foreign countries.
I had a party with my school friends last month. After many years, everyone's life has changed a lot. A change of friend between them is that he is now enjoying single status from marriage.
*I said enjoying? What do you think of engagement again when divorced ??*
..*But it is true that he is much better today than before happily at peace. She says she's been through a lot of difficult times in her life and she's feeling much better today, and she's not stressed. The first time I saw him, I noticed that there was a strange look on his face. Who says divorce! And what if? He has found peace alone in his life, who cares?*
*But do you know the reason why these things happen, even after getting divorced? My friend works, pays for himself does not live at the mercy of anyone. So he is neither neglected nor hated by the society. Because he has not survived the burden of anyone.*
*Being divorced is still a negative thing for the society. One cannot make a family, so he is guilty or his "failure". The society is sitting to give character certificate to everyone, in case of girls the certificate will be more strict. The boys are the gold ring, so there is no harm in being bankrupt, but the happiness of the family is due to the woman! What is the quality of the world that could not? In which direction is she lady ?? Even if these questions are not asked directly, the neighbors often explain them using the right attitude.*
When it comes to being "disgusting" and "neglected", it can be said that a woman is forever someone's daughter, someone's wife and someone's mother. So when he can't make a family, the dignity of being his wife and the roof over his head are taken away from him. Where will he go? She took refuge in that father's house, even after getting married at such a high cost. So not everyone agrees with him.
… Because parents will not live forever, brothers / grandfathers separate family, who will feed him? He is then understood by everyone!
So he became neglected and hated by the society. No one wants to take on his responsibilities, but he does get away with it.
So in order to face this situation, women have to be qualified and financially independent. Whenever someone becomes a bride of mercy, his value and dignity also diminishes. So educating women, becoming financially self-sufficient is very important today. No one knows when to look for a day, so women need to understand that one day they don't have to touch anyone, they have to think about their career. Society will not show a disgusting attitude or neglect towards a self-reliant, employed divorced woman as much as it will show towards an unemployed woman. So all women should keep this in mind, because at the end of the day but their self-respect is in their hands.
All the women of the world, go ahead, be self-reliant. Explain that you are not helpless, you are not a bride of mercy. Society can never be hard on those who know how to win, so learn to win and teach the rest!
The reason is very complicated. There is no simple answer to this. Here are some important points in the form of points -
Our society is very patriarchal. Here the head of the family is male and the ownership of the property is in male hands in all respects. As a result, a woman does not get as much social power as a man gains at birth. As a result evaluation is never equal.
It is important to understand the condition of married women in this society, especially the condition of married women. It is also important to understand what kind of situation a married woman has to go through. An attempt is also being made by law to resolve all these issues; That too must be mentioned.
In most of these societies, women are mainly seen as a means of procreation and rearing. There are exceptions. But that is not too much.
A Dervous girl is considered by this society - she does not fall into any of the above mentioned categories or she cannot be included in any of them. It is assumed that he is not worldly or patient at all. As a result, he is basically useless; Or she may be more intelligent than her husband. And in this society influenced by colonial law, the culture of victim blame, which has existed for a long time, continues to make a significant contribution in this regard.
What is the difference between a Bangladeshi woman and a foreign woman?
*Bangladeshi women subordinate Foreign women are independent.*
*Bangladeshi women grow up dreaming of a good husband. Which after a while turned into a nightmare. The foreign woman grows up handling the reality. So the ground under the feet of the foreign woman is hard, she stands on her own feet. She can eat with ease. He understands his own good and bad. He is enlightened*
*Bangladeshi women are not self-reliant because of masculinity. Man's survival depends on his will. Due to the religious veil, he can't do a business if he wants to Since in a patriarchal society all men work outside So even though a few enthusiastic girls want to work among so many men, they do not feel comfortable.*
Therefore, if a bad husband joins the fate of many girls or if the husband dies, then that woman has to die. And our religion is fully responsible for this situation.
How to live a happy and peaceful life alone?
Due to my personal work, I have not been able to write an article for a few days. I hope to write articles again regularly.
***At first this seemed to me to be the case. But as I got older, I realized that my ideas were wrong. I think it's very important for everyone to have a good friend in their life. Because if you want to be alone, you will not be able to calculate your correctness. Life needs someone to support you.***
Every human being in the world has a desire to live in happiness and peace. Every human being wants to see himself as happy. But sadly, happiness and peace are beyond the reach of most people today.
But what is the reason? Let's try to know a little bit. In fact, we are looking for happiness and peace outside. As a result, the bag of failure is full. Then life seems to be in vain. Then people feel lack of happiness and peace.
First of all, you are not alone. We are more or less all alone. We are surrounded by a lot of people all day long, but if we take a closer look, we can see that among thousands of people, but me or you alone:
We are very fond of our loved ones so it seems, everyone is mine, I am everyone. But if you have a small thorn in your side, you will understand that you are the only one who is suffering. You have to make the final decision in your life. If something bad happens in your life, you have to bear the responsibility. You have to bear all the hundreds of obstacles yourself. Yeah Al that sounds pretty crap to me, Looks like BT aint for me either. Looks like BT aint for me either. If you think a little deeper, you will understand that no one can share the pain and sorrow of someone. On the other hand, if someone is in peace and happiness, then he can enjoy that happiness and peace too. Everyone is very happy, but no one else will be as happy as he is. Others just share his joy.
But we misunderstand, we think we can always share our happiness and sorrow with everyone. But no, that is not possible. And to give a real example, let's say your father is currently suffering from financial problems, you all know that. , And comforting him again and again. Everyone in the house is talking about adapting. But no one will be able to share the storm in the father's mind. But he will be helpless to himself.
So there is no happiness, no peace for the outsider, unless he is happy himself. That is why we have to look at the heart. There is all happiness, peace. If we make the mind pure, free, uncovered, then happiness can be found. There is nothing outside, everything is in the heart. Until we can penetrate deep into our soul, we will not find the source of true car joy, true car energy. And to find these shots is to be simple, straightforward, child-like. As children play in their own joy, in their own mind, they have no fear of criticism, no sorrow, no remorse so they are always happy.
Take advantage of being alone, do something creative. And just like five people can be happy with everyone, you can get more happiness from them. Because there will be no one to grieve you. If you devote yourself to creative work, you will always find happiness, joy, happiness, peace, everything. Open yourself up, love yourself. A lot can be done alone, if there is will power in the mind, only if there is faith in oneself.
A. P. J. Abdul Kalam Sir had left himself alone all his life. People all over the world are enjoying its good results today.
Ratan Tata Sir's life was cut short. The world is fascinated by his creation.
But you don't even think about where the great person is, and where I am. We are all one. Our difference with great people is just thinking. They have a positive attitude towards everything, so they have succeeded.
So, whether you are alone or with ten people, it doesn't matter much. You keep yourself busy, and stand by the side of helpless, poor people, then you will be very good. Can't, not aware of their inner strength, their life is in vain.
So you live as you are. But live as you live.
Life can never be spent in happiness and peace alone, because a kind of emptiness always surrounds him.
We each come from a family. Parents live there, siblings live there, relatives live there. We are happy with our family until someone special comes to life. But when someone special comes into life, starts to love someone special, or learns to enjoy getting love from someone special, then life without that special person seems empty. Only parents, relatives can no longer fulfill life. Life needs someone special to fulfill it.
Moreover, the more we become attached to ourselves, the more life becomes black and white. But human beings should become colorful in this momentary life. And that is never possible alone.
However, if you have no choice but to be alone:
1. Exercise, exercise, beautify.
2. Read books, write, learn another language.
3. Do research, acquire knowledge.
Etc. etc. Last but not least, try to stay together and find friends. Learn to love your family and find the people you love, you will see that there will be no lack of happiness and peace in life.
How to recognize an introvert.
*How many people do you talk to on the go or in the workplace? At first glance, not all people can be recognized. But there are many people who see their own interest as big. Such people can be the cause of your loss. Sometimes the color of life can fade because of such people. There are some ways to recognize them. If you know all that, you can avoid selfish people and work with them by keeping your position right.*
Selfish people magnify their own side. The interests of others are insignificant to him. These are identified as selfish in the society. As can be seen, he is taking all the topics of discussion towards himself. Proud to express his greatness. This is what he wants, let alone ten others in the society. It is always difficult to recognize selfishness again. Because many times their characteristics are not clearly expressed.
W. Kenneth Campbell, head of the Department of Psychology at the University of Georgia and a researcher on altruism, said there is an ongoing tendency among those who have selfish traits. But most selfish middle class as a level of selfishness. Although some are involved in extreme selfishness.
1. Selfish will be preferred at the first meeting: This kind of selfish person presents himself in a big way in the first expression. Expresses an attractive personality. At first glance, they may look like someone. But after a long time, many negative features come out of them.
2. Shy and quiet nature selfish: They do not come forward to show off and do not talk much. But when someone comes to talk to them and they say only a few words in between. There is no shortage of trying to exaggerate through those words.
3. Pretend to be leaders: Even if they are not successful, they always strive to be leaders.
4. Does not tolerate his own criticism: does not accept his criticism in any way. Campbell said he could not stand anyone criticizing him. In no way does he admit to anything negative about his own criticism.
5. Avoid failure: There will be many failures in life but he will avoid failure. Even when he hears that his close friend or classmate is in danger or in a bad situation, he avoids them.
6. Deceptive Attitudes: They may seem attractive at first glance, but they tend to be deceptive.
7. Never think of yourself as selfish: Never think of yourself as selfish. He never even wants or tries to understand himself as selfish.
As such, I am talking about my own characteristics; You can recognize them by looking at them. The answer was written a few days ago but I gave it today thinking whether to give it or not.
1 Introverts have an imaginary world of their own and they arrange that world just like them.
2. They say 'What are you doing ?, How are you ?, What have you eaten?' Not interested in discussing such common topics or questions. They are usually interested in complex issues.
3. Although they can easily understand many complex issues, it is more difficult to understand simple issues.
4. Introverted people do not have as much interest in other people's personal words as they do in disliking their personal words.
5. It's not that introverted people talk less all the time, they talk a lot to themselves.
6. Introverts need only one or two people to speak for themselves.
7. They often wrap themselves up while talking.
8. They talk a lot with a small smile or a look. Although not everyone understands this language.
9. Introverted people are often absent from any event, even if they go for some reason, they conveniently go and sit in one of the corners.
10. They like to walk and usually look down while walking.
11. Stay away from strangers on the road, don't even notice acquaintances. He tries his best to hide even if he notices.
12. They prefer to write than to say. Maybe that's why they are so reluctant to talk on the phone.
13. When talking to someone, look at something other than looking at him. However, this does not mean that they are inattentive.
14. They say what they want to say without their role. They don't like to talk in a twisted way.
15. Trying to analyze an event in as many ways as possible.
16. Usually likes to do their own work.
16. They often do not understand their own emotions and feelings and do not understand others.
16. They are very sensitive about some things so it is better not to focus on these things.
19. They prefer to spend time with pets than humans.
20. They have the strange ability to spend hours in the same place.
21. They are not so keen to change anything in their lives.
22. If one looks at an introverted person, he feels both discomfort and annoyance.
23. They have nothing to say on special days, they are the same every day.
24. Introverts also feel lonely among many.
25. If one of them likes it, they can't believe it themselves.
26. When an introvert falls in love, he often treats the people he likes like outsiders.
26. I don't know about anyone else, but I would run away when I saw the people I love.
26. They can easily understand the suffering of others and try to empathize and help accordingly.
29. They are more self-critical than criticizing others, so they know more about themselves.
30. They do any work very carefully and try to give their best in it.
31. Introverts are really alone. There are not many people who understand them, most of them misunderstand as much as they understand.
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What do I think of myself and why?
*Was thrown into heavy shame. What do I think of myself? I don't think anything. I was never a meritorious student, I could not be first, second or third in the class. Didn't achieve anything to say. I have not yet reached the place to give your tips. So tell me what to say?*
*But I have two things to say on this occasion - learn what you have to learn and spread the positive impact.*
*I always feel like I'm unemployed now, I have plenty of time on my hands, I'll be busy again someday, I won't have time to do anything but work. So now you have to learn what you want. I really enjoy this educational journey. Learning means learning something that will come in handy outside of your test book. I wanted to be self-sufficient in small daily activities, so I learned different things.*
Mother handed over the Bangla book so that it would not be difficult to read and write in Bengali. Since then, reading books has become a habit. You all know that reading books develops thinking, because all of you who are reading this answer here read a little bit of the book.
My bad laziness to go to the beauty parlor. Once I didn't know how to tie my hair at one of my grandfather's weddings. The rest of my sisters and granddaughters will go to the parlor and decorate. I watched YouTube to avoid the parlor. I didn't have to go to the parlor, many people came to me and tied their hair. I have learned to cut my own hair, I can do two or three different shapes.
I used to take the needle thread in my hand to put buttons on my clothes and tighten my loose clothes, it is now my daily companion.
As I write here, I have not chosen a subject from which I can learn anything myself. There is a lot to learn by doing a Google search, watching a video or reading a book.
You can have a penchant for anything. It can be singing, playing music, reading books, learning math, cooking, programming, language learning and many more. Is there an end to the work? Keep learning when you want. If you can't sing but love to listen to music, then you will know a lot even if you listen to songs of many kinds, many languages. And if you want tips, I will say that if you try to do your own work, you will see that there is a lot to learn in this gap. One of my sirs said, now learn to learn anything through internet, "It's just a click away". I remembered that very well.
Another thing is that I never do or say anything that breaks the hopes of the people who are tied to any hope or increases the sadness of the depressed people. I do not want to have a negative impact on anyone. However, it is only human beings who make mistakes, I may sometimes say such things unknowingly, but it is not intentional (I am hesitant so I am thinking of asking some friends).
Emotional contagion is a term that means that your positive or negative actions and words affect the people around you. Don't look, I just learned the word and wrote it here, in the previous point I said that I always learn. I try to avoid saying bad things in someone's name, arguing, thinking too much about who said what. There are no tips for this, just be yourself.
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The emptiness, the feeling of one-sided love in my real life💔
`Love comes in life. No one gets it, no one gets it. Again, no one gets it and loses it.`
*One-sided love is like intoxication, more terrible than intoxication, more painful than separation. He does not love you, but you love him with all your heart. Yes, that's what one-sided love is all about. ... In this absence there remains one-sided love of one heart for another, there remains love waiting in the mind.*
*The fruit of one-sided love is always zero. Because you like whomever you like. For whom you are serving day and night but he is not looking back at you. . He's not someone else but you. And you think how good it would be if he came to me once and said he loves me. Maybe these thoughts of yours have not reached him yet. Nor does he have any weakness towards you. Then your love will remain one-sided. In a perfect love, both of them need to have interest and feeling. Otherwise, love will never be complete.*
* Talking about the feelings in my mind.
**I really wanted to involve you in my life, but I did not understand that the things I wanted so much in life .. !! Talking day after day and night after night, I couldn't do it in such a small place in your mind. Nothing comes to your mind except your friend to tell me a thousand times. But I will say that you did not put me in the place of your friend. If I were your friend, you would not be able to stop all communication with me and leave ... !! All you have to do is give me a place to go.**
**All my life I realized one thing very well, no one was waiting for me ... !! I can be anything without anyone’s need. No matter how good you are, no matter how much you sacrifice yourself for others, no matter how much you suffer, you will never be good to some people .. !!**
* My experience.
*This has happened many times in my life - while in college Honestly, I have so much experience in this matter that I seem to have acquired the ability to give a little advice on one-sided love! In comparison, my experience of being in a love affair is negligible.*
*But one of the benefits of this one-sided love affair is that I have learned not to take rejection personally. I have learned not to let anyone's 'no' cause my self-confidence to go down And the most important thing is that once someone returns, we stop being behind them When I was young, a lot of times people would talk about having friends after being rejected, and I would agree, thinking, 'If I keep friends, I might get one later.' I often had to play the role of the girl's 'emotional outlet' in the profit and then I thought that maybe by doing this I am taking place in her mind little by little. It took me a long time to realize that I was lagging behind*
*When I realized that nothing like this could happen, I wasted no time in 'friendship'. I decided I would never go from love to friendship again; I will only be friends with whomever I want as a friend And if no one does it in love, that's it I have been abiding by this condition since then*
*Yeah Al that sounds pretty crap to me, Looks like BT aint for me either. It may sound rude to hear, but since I know from my own experience the consequences of not doing it, I have to be ruthless; Not just to others, but to yourself In fact, when a person falls in love, he is not in a normal state, then he understands himself the least In this case, he is less likely to work Then the only thing that can help him is his commitment to the conditions set in his head*
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`Everyone can love after gaining love. But how many can maintain one-sided love even after losing. Love means not only gaining but also giving up. It is a kind of love. I love you even if I don't love you. One sided love.`
There are many who love one-sided, many may want to hear the story, it is impossible to express the feeling of one-sided love through any story. But yes, love stories can be heard. What is the benefit of this?
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All of us suffer from more or less internal illness.
#Hello read.cash .... I had a *wifi line problem for two days. So there was no network connection.*
*Suppose someone around you suddenly started talking a lot one day, started being veritably happy, increased the quantum of charges!*
*Everything about it sounded redundant to you! Did you know that these can be symptoms of a bipolar mood complaint?*
*Like the complaint of the body, there's also a complaint of the mind and if it's a complaint, it also needs treatment. Mental illness has been neglected for periods because the mind can not be seen. But the mind is like the wind, and indeed if it can not be seen, the actuality of any soul can not be imagined without its presence. Without the mind, the body is just like insensible matter. Thus, it's necessary to pay attention to the mind and give proper medical services with the significance of internal illness.*
Going to the croaker for any complaint works a shiftlessness in us. And if there's any matter of the mind, there's no question; What's the complaint of the mind again? But there may be some common negative studies and passions in one's mind, similar as being worried, tense, spooked, restless, angry and stubborn, feeling lonely, wanting to die, not talking to anyone, alone Wanting to stay etc. The idea of utmost ordinary people saying,"It's not each right, it'll be each right"is no longer important.
Mental illness is still neglected
There's nothing wrong with that, it'll actually be right; If we work on working these problems duly, we will be suitable to do just that. In numerous cases these studies and passions of the mind last for a long time and come manifest which can vitiate the diurnal conditioning of the person. People around a person may not be completely apprehensive of the issues, but with a little careful observation, a change in a person's geste can be seen and a change in the normal state of life can be understood.
Duly diagnosing the causes of these symptoms in a person for one reason or another and assaying them will show how serious the matter is and if he cooperates consequently, the problem of the person may be answered in a short time.
Some of the common aphorisms of the cause of internal problems are-cursing, or pretending, wind, phylacteries, bad sight, asr, hot head, demon possession, insanity, etc. And in order to break these problems, their imaginary doctrine is that it'll be fixed after two days, it'll be fixed when they grow up, it'll be fixed only if they rule, let's see for a while, it'll be fixed only if they get wedded, only plutocrat is wasted in the name of treatment.
It's important to seek applicable treatment in discussion with internal health professionals as soon as problems or symptoms appear without neglect and waiting. By saying these effects, the problem of the mind is ignored and the opinion is avoided. When the problem becomes apparent, numerous people try to get relieve of the complaint or break the problem through the process of blowing phylacteries, water, mantras, etc. Again, some have resorted to medical services in hospitals as a last resort.
By also, the complaint may have come so severe that treatment may come complicated and long- term treatment may be needed. Thus, it's important to seek applicable treatment in discussion with internal health professionals as soon as problems or symptoms appear without neglect and waiting. This makes it fairly easy to give the necessary medical services through quick opinion.
**Mental illness Anxiety.**
It isn't only a complaint, but also the cause of numerous conditions. But we don't give important significance to the complaint. As a result, it has a serious effect on the body. Take a look at the causes, symptoms and dangerous aspects of anxiety
**Reason**
We face numerous problems in our diurnal life. These problems automatically make us anxious. Inordinate thinking about these issues is one of the reasons for anxiety. Similar anxiety can also be heritable; But also the chances of getting this complaint increase. Stress or bitter events in diurnal life or inordinate work stress increase anxiety.
**Symptoms**
Insecurity Anxiety works all the time in a person suffering from anxiety. Can noway be normal. Can not stay in one place
Inattention Anxious people are always anxious. Can not concentrate on any specific subject or diurnal work.
**Fear**
Numerous people are startled by a little noise. Fear if someone speaks loudly. Keep pulsing. He jounced when he heard the auto cornucopia. Any bad thing that happens outdoors will be to you too Ñ this brings fear into yourself.
**Insomnia**
Another major problem for anxious people is wakefulness. I stay in bed side by side for numerous nights. At one time he fell asleep but constantly woke up. Numerous have agonies.
**Change in allowing**
All the time colorful studies revolve in my head. Negative studies eat down. Concernedneo-hippies and their global warming, i will tell ya. Utmost of the time I suppose about the negative side of the incident.
**Redundant caution**
Numerous people spend their time allowing about what they need to do. They don't have to worry about small effects. Keep thinking, if it goes wrong! What will be also?
**Inordinate wrathfulness**
Anxiety increases wrathfulness. People find it unsupportable. Numerous get a little angry. Indeed if someone wants to say good effects, they get irked.
**Physical Illness**
Some face a variety of physical problems. Similar as nausea, weakness, headache, pulsations, memory loss, numerous don't have a fever again; But the fever seems to be feverish. Similar people take the advice of a croaker, take drug but don't recover.
**Conditions that may do**
Incapability to repel complaint Suffering from anxiety for a long time reduces the body's impunity. There can be colorful conditions in the muscles. Problems can do in different joints of the body.
**Ulcers**
Ulcers are one of the many stomach problems caused by anxiety. Anxiety can beget stomach ulcers. This puts a lot of pressure on the mind. As a result, a hormone called pepsin is buried in the stomach and ulcers increase.
**High blood pressure and heart complaint**
Anxiety causes high blood pressure. Colorful conditions nestle in the heart. Anxiety is one of the leading causes of brain stroke and heart attack.
**Headache**
One of the causes of headaches is anxiety.
**Asthma**
Anxiety or solicitude increases the chances of getting asthma.
**Biological problems**
Anxiety causes a variety of sexual problems. Thus, mortal natural requirements can be reduced.
**Dermatitis**
Anxiety is frequently the cause of colorful skin conditions. Different types of itching or inordinate sweating can also be frequently due to anxiety or solicitude.
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Brawl anger trouble brain damage. I try to control my anger.
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*The only person in the world to quarrel or get angry is my mother. Today, who and I had an angry quarrel with my mother.*
*Love the world more but mom. Life without my mother is useless. However, my words and deeds do not match with my mother. I also get angry and quarrel over small issues. It is difficult to control yourself.*
*Finally I apologized to my mother and she fell asleep with her head on her lap. When I am angry, I try to control.*
*Those of us who are naturally angry or grumpy again think of ourselves as very white hearted. I say, "Actually, when I get angry, I say what comes to my mind directly, but there is not much patch in my mind. And x, y, z may not be angry, but sits with everything in my mind."*
*We are very confident with white hearts, and I think God is watching. But we don't think that the words I have spoken may have brought tears to a person's eyes all night long. Probably a factor as to why they're doing so poorly. Maybe the man's chest still gets heavier when he remembers that memory ...*
Anyway, we should actually think. Like intention, our words are very important to God.
*Anger is a normal emotion. But excessive anger destroys our beautiful relationships. Negative impact in all areas of life including career. It is not possible to solve a problem with anger but it makes the problem worse. So controlling anger is an essential issue*
*The following strategies or methods play an important role in controlling anger.*
#Read the following methods carefully to control anger and try to remember.
* Take time before speaking:
If you get angry, take a few moments before saying anything. If you have to talk, say it thoughtfully. Because this can cause new and big problems.
* Distract:
Do not suddenly say or do anything in anger. Move away from him by showing general politeness or divert your mind.
* Take a short walk:
If you can't control your anger at all, walk for a while. This will not create an opportunity to be angry and your mind will have a chance to calm down a little.
* Think positive:
Think about how there is a good side to every event. Whatever happens, look for the positive side so that you don't get angry.
* Learn to forgive:
It is normal for people to make mistakes. So it is not wise to get angry for someone's mistake. Forgive him without being angry. It will make you feel good about yourself later.
* Develop the habit of accepting:
Not all problems are solved, some questions are not answered. So increase the ability to accept. Accepting does not mean losing. There are many achievements in life as well as non-achievements, pay attention to that.
* Express anger when the head is cold:
Only then do you express anger, when you can think about it. No matter how angry you are, it is not your job to insult others.
* Try to relax:
It is easy to control anger through relaxation. During this time take a deep breath. Listen to music, read books, do whatever you love to do.
* Be mentally stable:
Emotional instability is a cause of excess anger. In emotional turmoil everything seems wrong. As a result, we get a little angry. So stay mentally stable.
* Try to find a solution:
Nothing happens on earth without a cause. If there is a problem, there will be a solution. Similarly, if you have a reason to be angry, you must find a solution and avoid excessive anger.
* Promise not to get angry:
I will not be angry with anything - make this promise to yourself. When a situation of anger arises, keep advising yourself in your mind that I will not be angry. This will make it easier to control anger.
* Increase humor:
Don't be serious all the time, have fun sometimes, joke, lighten the environment. If you understand the situation of being angry, try to do something funny to normalize it.
* Count the numbers in reverse:
If you get angry or angry for any reason, follow the “90 second rule” method (counting numbers from 90 to the opposite).
* Seek the help of psychologists:
If you can't control your anger by trying the above methods, you can seek the help of a psychologist. Anger is not only detrimental to mental health, it also diverts people from the path of knowledge, conscience and religion. Anger can have a detrimental effect on a person's behavior and thinking. So there is no alternative to restraining oneself from getting angry in any situation.
#Note
**Anger_is_man's_best____enemy.**
`Anger takes everything away from people, does not give anything back. Always remember that anger causes delusion, delusion causes fear in the mind, when fear arises in the mind, then the intellect is destroyed and the right and wrong knowledge disappears and only then does man fall.`
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Is there a love or friendship between a boy and a girl?
Small is a word friend. But its depth and breadth are limitless.
Which some short-minded people do not understand or do not want to understand.
The word friend literally means friend, ally, friend, relative, loved one, lover or benevolent person. And the word friendship literally means friendship, friendship, camaraderie and friendship. The word Suhrid means good heart in the dictionary of Bangla Academy. Mitra means ‘friend’ and the word friend means ‘companion’. The word romance means ‘love pot’ or ‘man worthy of love’. In a word, boyfriend.
With a little thought, the word friend comes very close to two things. One is friendship and the other is love. Friendship is a different heart between two different people. Although it sounds like a light word. Even after this, its meaning is extraordinary and sacred. Friendship helps to build the holiest relationship between two people. And there is no chance to separate it from human life. Friendship has become an integral part of every human life from ancient times to the present day.
Some people need overall support to survive beautifully. Those people are above many big interests. One helps the other to survive. Sociologists say that life is incomplete without friends. No man can walk alone. Although many experiences with friends are not pleasant. The one from whom the deception is obtained is not a friend.
Boy-girl friendship creates respect and cooperation towards women or girlfriends.
Because the condition of friendship is respect, good manners, giving due dignity, help and cooperation. If I don't make friends, how can I show respect to him? How can I cooperate with him? God is pleased with what you do. And, do you know why eveteasing is? Because they can't mix with girls. They then treat the girls in a contradictory manner. But when they have friends, they will understand, "I am treating him so badly. If I treat my friend badly, I will feel bad." Remember, the friend who helps, gives the right status, is the real friend. What does that mean? If a boy helps his girlfriend, then that boy is the real friend of that girl. Now if it is said that it is haraam to befriend the opposite sex, it means it is haraam to give him dignity and help. But in fact, if you help women, if you give them dignity, God will be happy. Rather, God is displeased with eve-teasing. So the thing that cuts off eveteasing, where there is help-cooperation, how can it be haram?
And, many have said that if friendship lasts a long time, it becomes love. Reactions occur between the opposite sex. In fact, this tension does not always turn into love. Many times it is seen that intimacy is increasing due to the surge. But since there is no responsibility in each other, it cannot become true love. Many people think that boys and girls fall in love when they make friends. In fact, that is not true. If you fix your mind a little bit, you will see that you and another girl are each other's best friends, but not each other's lovers. With a little effort, you can build a relationship with a girl who is not a best friend but a lover. Hey Dad, if you can make a difficult subject like physics, chemistry easy to read, then why shouldn't it be easy to omit love.
So in the end I can say that friendship between love and friendship is good and permissible. I can't say anything about love because I don't know much yet.
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Additional thinking background
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Let's talk about thought today. What role does thought play in our lives? Everyone is requested to read. Completely by the thoughts of my mind.
#writing by @Meherun
*Excessive thinking actually increases the risk. Tension increases. Discomfort works inside you. The same thought comes to mind all the time.*
*If you want to get rid of extra thoughts, you have to avoid extra thoughts most of the time. If it happens that all things are being over-thought. Then a little danger. In fact, everything is a matter of the mind. There are many benefits to being able to control the mind.*
*Excessive thinking can occur when a business seems unusual or unwilling to admit it. In this situation we should take everything in a normal way. Satisfaction without expecting too much. I have to think that this will not be more than normal.*
You need to keep your head fresh with adequate sleep. When you have more thoughts about something, you have to focus on other things.
If we think in a strange way again, then we can say.
Thoughtfulness is one of the gifts of human beings. But we all know that nothing extra is good for our normal life. Excessive thinking is no exception to this rule. When we think extra, everything in front of us seems cloudy, we can't make the right decision. Various negative thoughts take place in the mind. This interferes with normal work. So you have to try to keep yourself free from extra thoughts. To keep yourself free from extra thoughts you can follow the following methods.
1. Before dealing with over-thinking, you need to know at the outset when you are over-thinking. Then ask yourself why are you thinking, what are you thinking about? Exactly how important that thought is or does it matter at all! Awareness at that very moment will serve as the seed of your change.
2. Fear is one of the most common causes of anxiety. It is from this fear that you get stuck just thinking about what could be worse. Get into more and more thoughts. But no more, stop now. Now think of all the good things that can be done, get rid of all the bad things. If you want, you can turn everything into good thoughts, no matter what happens. Because everything is a part of life. Just think, you are constantly learning, gaining experience. It is just as good as it is bad. And without these, the fulfillment of your life will never come.
3. A lot of the time being able to feel good about yourself, doing the things you like is very useful. Do something that you have been trying to do for a long time but for some reason have not been done. Meditating, dancing, learning any musical instrument, learning music, sewing, drawing can be a very good reason to get rid of extra worries. Enjoy the times, love life, see everything start to feel better on its own.
4. There is no easier task than turning a very small thing into a very large object and thinking of the good without thinking of the bad of any subject. When you think about it, think about whether the next five years will really have any value in your life or until next month. So why are you thinking so much, this time constraint will save you from wasting time thinking extra.
5. Stop waiting for everything to be perfect, it is very important. Those who are still waiting for everything to be perfect can give up that hope. Having ambition is not something to blame, but at the same time it is unrealistic to expect everything to be perfect. You're wasting time waiting for that. Everything in life is never perfect. Rather, the success of life lies in moving forward with all obstacles. So it can never be an intelligent decision.
6. No one can talk about the future. When you are thinking about what will happen in the future in your present moments, it means that you are wasting the time allotted for yourself. Again, it is never a fertile thought that the result of any mistake of the past will always be the same, but make the present a cause of your joy and enjoyment.
7 . "I'm not good enough, I'm not hardworking, I'm not efficient, I'm not fit" - these are the words that instill fear in me. When you give your best, acknowledge that success depends on something you do not have complete control over. Again many times the lack of the right people and environment makes the best the worst and the worst the best. But keep in mind that you have tried your best.
8. No one can be both happy and unhappy at the same time. So first of all one should be grateful for the time. Wake up every morning and make a list of what you are grateful for and to whom. Then express gratitude. Now make another list of what you did well or were associated with. Romanthan good times make the mind better. In this way, if you feel better at the beginning of the day, you will see that the whole day will end well.
Finally, look at your watch, take five (5) minutes. Close your eyes and think with all your attention. Now open your eyes and start writing on a piece of paper exactly what makes you think, worries. Now fold the paper nicely and throw it away. In fact life is too short to think too much. So just enjoy the next time.
Aren't we wasting our lives in any way
Remember, today is Thursday. The whole work / study of this week has been very stressful. Back home in the evening, I feel like going to bed right now. You plan to sleep all day tomorrow. **But suddenly a friend's phone rang, and they all planned to go to the movies together and eat together.**
One, friends may mind you; Two, if not, maybe you will miss the fun and later when you see your friends' Facebook posts, and hear the story tonight - you will feel bad.
Fear of losing your self-image and fun to friends - these are the two things you went through when you were terribly tired.
**As a result,**
you could not recharge for the next week because you did not get the rest you needed, and your performance at work / study deteriorated.
When people see it, they get hundreds of likes and comments on the picture of a friend going for a walk - then he also wants to get that. He may not like to go around - but he goes around looking for likes and picks up a bunch of pictures.
You will see again, some people are sitting on the sofa with the phone in their hands and spending the whole holiday on social media. Many people spend their days thinking about how to make themselves 'presentable' and how to gain popularity. As a result, relationships between people are ruined and people are constantly trying to be like others. Constantly thinking of oneself as small, and increasing the level of envy of others.
As much as this social media is wasting people's time - nothing in the history of the world seems to be wasting so much people's time.
Ways to escape the trap of wasting life:
# 1. It is not possible for human beings to do and get everything, and neither should they - accept this fact.
When you realize the fact that a person doesn't taste most of the food, experience, clothing, knowledge of the world in his life - and that is not possible even if he lives for a thousand years - you will find it much easier.
# 2. Have a clear idea of what you want and need, and say no to everything else.
**We need to have a clear roadmap for what we want out of life, what we want today, what we need to do, what we really need to buy, what we need to know** - and whatever comes out, whatever the tempting offer. - Don't tell them.
**If you have an emergency meeting tomorrow morning, no matter how much your friends offer to watch movies or go for a walk for free - don't give them away.** Because, for the morning meeting, it is more important for you to take a good rest at night or look at the file.
# 3. Practice making rational decisions instead of emotions.
Rational thinking means trying to understand the consequences in real terms before doing anything. Now if you watch another episode, how much damage will be done to tomorrow’s meeting or exam or class preparation?
Ask yourself:
What good would it do me to see 42 pictures of ‘Nilambri Andrila’ or ‘Crazy Boy Emperor’ touring Bandarban on Facebook? Don't I have to get up in the morning? I do not have work in the morning?
Appendix:
Just as you have the ingredients to ruin your own life, you also have the medicine to destroy those ingredients. All you need to do is identify them separately.
writing by @Meherun
Inspiration of hard times
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`It says a lot about the inspiration of life. I also wrote something for you from the inspiration of my life. Everyone is requested to read.`
Inspiration is something that can give a person the courage to come back from the brink of death. No matter how bad the situation in our life, if we have the motivation to move forward, it is possible for everyone to get out of that situation.
Our life is a combination of good and difficult situations. You can never break down when faced with a difficult situation. You have to create inspiration in yourself through various good deeds. Here are some helpful tips to overcome frustration and move forward -----
Increase confidence:
Confidence is something that is needed in every moment of life. If there is a problem in our way of life, we must solve it ourselves. And that's why keep a cool head in difficult times and think about the problems well. Plan for problem solving. Act accordingly. Make hard work easier without losing self-confidence.
Read success stories:
Success does not come easily in the lives of successful people. Overcoming the extreme frustration of their lives, they had to cross a difficult path and come to the front row. When you look at the world's best successful people like Jack Ma, Elon Musk, Thomas Alva Edison or Steve Jobs, you can see how much success can be achieved through bad times in life. And that's why read the biographies of successful people. You will see that inspiration is being created in yourself.
Learn to be patient:
Every thing has a beginning and an end. Nothing on earth is permanent. Bad times and failures are no exception. The bad moments are cut off at one point. Try to remember the hard times, how you have overcome the bad times before. That's why be patient, believe that the times ahead will be better.
Mental modeling:
Imagine for a second you were transposed into the karmic driven world of Earl. As you imagine things, you will find in yourself the feeling of realizing that idea. This method is called mental modeling.
Find topics of interest to you:
There are many people who do not understand what is in their interest. It is customary to keep pace with others and do things that may not be one's own. Find a place of your interest and focus there. You will see that the bad moments will go away in an instant.
Love of work:
Love the work. Learn to love whatever you do. Concentration and dedication to work removes bad mood very easily. Working with concentration gives rise to inspiration and interest. And that's why you can easily find the inspiration to forget your difficult times and move forward.
Any bad situation or failure in life is actually a part of our life. There are two sides to all the problems in the world. One, the cause of the problem; Two, problem solving. So when problems arise, try to find a solution. Try to find inspiration for the good in difficult times without thinking about the bad. Then you can be successful and happy in life.
Learn to respect yourself
Friends, we have been taught since childhood to be good in front of everyone and to treat all people in such a way that they like you. Right now in this age, a beautiful man who always keeps everyone happy, is good in the eyes of people, he does everything so that everyone around him is happy with him, but still such a man is worth less. That is, they take them lightly.
*That’s why David Da in his book The Way of Superior Man taught us how to go from a beautiful man like us to a better man. Superior Man is a person whom everyone values, he and his words matter. A Superior Man is a person who has a high value and because he develops his character which represents a very strong personality.*
1. Live as if your father were dead
Yes, you heard right, the author said that you should live in such a way that your father is no more in this world. Now you don't like to hear this line because everyone loves his father, then it is very uncomfortable to think he is dead. When we grow up we should take our own responsibility. This does not mean that your parents made the wrong decision for you or that you can make better decisions as you get older.
Rather, it tells you to be self-reliant and independent where you are responsible for your own advantages and disadvantages. I mean, learn to live in such a way that there is no one to support you, now you have to do what you want to do.
Now no one will tell you what will be right or wrong for you. You have to make all the big and small decisions in your life whether it is your career or relationship or whatever, now no one in your life can control you. Your father loves you very much and will never make the wrong decision for you. He will always think well of you. He did what he could, but now you are 100% responsible for your own life.
2. Don’t change your mind just to satisfy the woman
The belief system of any man shows how emotionally attractive he is. We should listen to the girls when we talk to them. If he tries to change your mind, it does not mean that you will change my decision by listening to him. Wants to know how much you believe in your decision.
If you agree with a girl but your mentality is different then you are a weak person whose decision can be easily changed by anyone who does not believe in himself and does not respect himself.
A best man believes in his own judgment and believes in himself.
Your work must come before your relationship
It is very important to know where your strengths are and where your weaknesses are. Do I have any work that you can do from your mind. You can do many things in this world using your strengths.
3. Lead beyond your edges
*Life begins as soon as you step out of your comfort zone. If someone wants to be successful, they should get out of their comfort zone and go the hard way. They should do what you need to do. In many circles, it is always thought that who will give them success. This is a sign of a weak person. To do.*
5. Enjoy criticism from your friends
*Men grow up with challenges when women appreciate them. Every girl naturally wants to be praised so that everyone appreciates them. Boys grow up with challenges. Boys grow up with challenges. A boy is never afraid of challenges. And every boy should have his own close friend. About knowing about and about the weakness of his problem*.
5. Forgive yourself.
*If you want to respect yourself, you have to forgive past actions. Acknowledge your mistake and apologize if necessary, but move on. If you are too strict with yourself because of bad decisions in the past, you will not be able to move forward. Everyone makes mistakes and this is our way of learning new things, so accept yourself and forgive*.
6. Accept yourself.
Be content with yourself, learn to love and accept who you are. This does not mean that you feel perfect, but that you have to learn to love yourself. Have fun with things you like and be satisfied with the parts that aren’t perfect, especially the things you can’t change.
If you can lose 10kg and start loving someone right now, you just stop calling yourself love.
7. Stop trying to follow others.
*One of the reasons you don’t respect yourself is when you are unmarried and when your friends are busy you feel dissatisfied or you feel deprived because you don’t make as much money as others. Maintain your own values and work to achieve your desired goals. Don’t waste your time doing nasty things that will impress your Facebook friends or give you something to show off. If successful on the field it will be much more impressive to chase friends rather than chase the likes of others.*
8. Trust your choice.
If you want to be respected, you have to believe in your own decisions. You have to believe in yourself and work hard to understand yourself and look for something that makes you happy. Reward yourself for making an informed decision.
You can ask for advice from others, which can help you be more purposeful, but don't spend too much time doubting yourself, thinking about past mistakes, and wishing you could do it differently.
9. Learn how to deal with criticism.
*In order to respect yourself, you need to understand who you really are. If someone has helpful and constructive comments, appreciate it. You should rely on that advice to improve yourself. However, constructive criticism can help you achieve your goals by correcting and improving yourself.*
Advice
`Develop a unique and unique way of expressing your opinion while being a good listener.`
`Self-esteem is equal to self-esteem, but self-esteem also tends to be sensitive in action. Don't be afraid to be yourself.`
witing by @Meherun
All the people of the world want to be established in their respective fields
Speaking of a little real style, no one will take it negatively.
There is a difference between established air and established air in one's own case. Renowned Indian cricketer Mahendra Singh Dhoni was once a ticket collector, but he was established that day, but he could not establish himself in that field.
If we draw a circle around ourselves, I am the center of that circle. And you will see different people standing in the circle. Some are asking you to work in the bank, some are railway, some are police, some are teachers and some are officers. But we all grow up with aspirations or special qualities. We want to make that desire come true. But if that desire is subject to time, it will be hindered. Be it family constraints or financial.
I want to be a research chemist. And of course it's time dependent. One day I met a person on the street and I was talking to him. He told me that you are definitely a good student, the future plan is also good. Whether or not that is the case, by the time I reach my desired destination, maybe some of the worst students from me will be in the job of fat miners. So if it ever occurred to me that I was lagging behind since they were established, that was the end of my career.
So in the end I want to say that it is relatively easy to be established but it is not easy to be established in one's own case. I want patience and restraint. The day you realize for yourself what you want and you can move your mind to a higher position by moving away from the rest of the people around you, you will be one step closer to your goal.
There is a saying "If you want to shine like a sun, first burn like a sun". So in order to reach the peak of your career, you have to shine like the sun first. Otherwise, where will the taste of success come from?
*The day when the news of the fulfillment of your dream suddenly turns into a drop of water instead of a smile on your face, realize that once you have established yourself in your field, your goal has been achieved. There is a saying in psychology… .Self Actualization… .The earlier a person realizes this, the more success and satisfaction is possible in his life.*
There is a saying in psychology… .Self Actualization… .The sooner a person realizes this, the more success and satisfaction is possible in his life.
Writing by @Meherun
Make money for yourself, make money online
Hello read.cash ...
`I have decorated the article today for the youth. Because they lose their existence at this age, wasting time. There is no movement in life. So I will give some advice based on my own experience. As if they find the right way to earn the right time`.
Income from online is a very popular topic nowadays which is one of the means of earning income from home and creating one's own employment.
All you need to make an income online is a digital device, internet connection and skills in any one subject.
There are currently numerous ways to earn money online. Here are some of the ways in which you can make money online.
1 / Freelancing:
Freelancing is the most popular way to earn money online. When it comes to freelancing, you have to be proficient in any one subject. For example: graphics design, web development, web design, digital marketing, data entry, there are many other types of work with which you can earn money by freelancing.
2 / Affiliate Marketing:
Another popular way to earn money online is affiliate marketing. Affiliate marketing is selling someone else's product through your own website, social profile, or video. In this case the main company they pay a commission. For example: Amazon affiliate.
3 / Blogging:
Blogging is a very old but very Make money for yourself, make money online method of online income. A website can earn money by writing about a specific event, a recent topic.
4 / YouTube:
You can open a channel on YouTube and upload videos on various topics and earn money. For example: cooking channel, children's play channel etc.
5 / Teaching online:
At present, students can be taught at home and earn a lot of money. Its popularity is increasing day by day. For example, Ten Minute School is going through this service.
6 / Sells pictures:
You can take pictures of various interesting things with your mobile phone or camera, edit them a little, upload them on different websites, sell them and earn money. Besides, there are various ways to make money online now.
I read a lot of books but I don't remember him. So what is the benefit of reading so many books?
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I have also read many books. Everyone should have the habit of reading books.
**I haven’t read a lot of books. However, I have read all of them very carefully. I don't remember anything well. Reading a book is not a matter of memorizing. Our brain is made in such a way that old memories are buried behind new memories in neuron cells. Then over time, they fade away. Trying to remember which author's answer you first wore in Korat and what was that ???**
**But when we read a book, we get tired of getting acquainted with new experiences. They affect our subconscious mind in various ways. We gain a lot of knowledge without our knowledge. So wear a book not to memorize but to understand to know. Maybe one day you will be able to rediscover yourself**
**Books are things to enjoy. Things to enjoy in the fall. When you read a story in a book, it comes out in front of your eyes. When you read in the book "The little kid is smiling." Then the smile of a real child will appear in front of the eyes of your heart. When you find a central character in a book, you see yourself inside it. Whatever the character is doing, you are doing the same. Such a feeling will come. The thing that you will never get by watching the video.**
Why read books?
For entertainment? To make yourself look fashionable? No, it's not. There are many more easy ways to do this. Not only for information, but also for information. How many people remember what was read after reading it?
Now the question may arise in your mind then why did I start reading this book? Not to make yourself look smart, not to pass the time on the plane, not to listen to what you want to hear - there are many easier ways to do this than to read a book.
I have picked up this book because reading it is a way to learn how to live. Because I want to be more free, have less fear, and achieve peace, which can be made possible by reading books.
Education is to read the wisdom of the great sages and to think about them. It's not just done. It has a purpose.
Some days you may find it better to watch TV or have a snack than to read philosophy or read a book, remember this advice on those days,
**Knowledge - especially knowing oneself is freedom.**
**The purpose of reading books**
Purpose is useful in any work. Every work depends on its purpose.
It is also useful to get the purpose right when reading books. Purpose will guide which way you go and which way you don’t. You can't get anywhere without purpose.
Tyrion Lannister is a character in the Game of Thrones series. One of the words that came out of his mouth was why he was reading a book.
According to him, “Just as a sword has to be sharpened with a sharp stone to keep it sharp, so the brain has to be sharpened with a book. That's why I read books. "
Knowing the different things that sharpen the brain, acquiring the ability to think in that proportion. Good books don’t just give information, and don’t answer questions. Gives questions, teaches or inspires thinking. If a book can't do that, then it's a bad book.
In the words of American author Patrick Rothfass, “The questions we don't get answers teach us more. They teach us how to think. If you answer a man, he gets a little bit of fact. But if you ask him a question, he will find the answers for himself. ”
There is another misconception among many about the book, what is mentioned in the book is true. It never is. Naturally a lot of what we know can be wrong and maybe wrong.
In the words of author Robert Jordan, “You will never know everything and a part of what you know will always be wrong. Part of the wisdom is to understand this limitation and part of the courage is to continue in spite of it. "
What is the relationship between reading books and the brain?
The relationship of experience. Things like this You may have heard someone say that a book has changed his life. Why is this? This is because while reading that book, various new connections have been made to his neurons. More and more connections have been made. And these are so numerous that he has seen a new world of thought. His outlook on life has changed.
His brain changes with human experience. Experience can change the brain by creating new neurons or neurons or making new connections. Research has shown that the brain can change even in a day's time.
Identical twins, who have identical genes, also have different brains because they have different experiences. The upbringing of two people, society, social status, education, physical constitution, food, etc. are not the same. These create differences in their behavior, ideology and character.
Usually when it comes to ideology, people think which ideology he has chosen because that is the best. But he does not care about the role of his upbringing, society, education, etc. behind this choice.
Experience builds us. We all become different because of the differences in our experiences.
Reading books is a way to gain this experience and make the brain more thoughtful.
Suppose you and your identical twin brother invest in the stock market.
Your brother is not interested in reading books. He believes in work. He is also making a lot of profit by investing in the market.
And you slowly made a small profit and studied investing. You know how all the big investors in the world are investing by reading their autobiographies and books. New connections are made in your brain. All new doors of thought are ready.
One day you saw fear spreading in the stock market, everyone in the market was scared and selling their stocks. Your brother also joined this procession. Because the wind is scary now. He also got scared and sold his stock in Los Angeles. But with the knowledge gained from the experience of the world's largest investors, you will know in your own brain what to do in such a situation, how to get the highest profit out of it, or how to handle the situation well. As a result, fear will not work in you.
That's the kind of book a person reads, the connections to the brain. In that proportion his ability to understand developed. Only those who read popular fiction, so they can not read other good books.
Do not read books while lying down
Hasan Azizul Haque, the eminent storyteller of Bengali literature, said, “What I have seen is experience, what I have heard with my ears is also experience, what I have read in books is also experience, all in all experience is what we can take in our human life by the five senses. -E. No one can write outside of this if they want to. ”
One thing, many things can move our heart while traveling somewhere. The experience of reading a book, like the experience in this body, can move us to the details of an event, character traits or conversations. But if they are not written down to be remembered at the present time, then anyone can forget it if they do not have a very good memory. Even if you have a very good memory, it cannot be said that you will remember everything. Therefore, it is very important to draw books and keep notes while reading.
Don't read books while lying down, this is the advice given by the master of masters, Japanese director Akira Kurosawa. In his autobiography Something Like an Autobiography, he writes about the importance of keeping notes while reading a book, “I forgot who said it was creating memories. My own experiences and the different things I read remain in my memory and form the basis of my new creation. I can't do it from scratch. For this reason, I always keep a notebook with me whenever I read a book from a young age. I write down my responses and the things that move me. I have a pile of books after such a pile. These are the books I read when I go to write a new script. They help me with new thinking content all the time. I have even taken sources from these books up to the one line dialogue. So what I want to say is, don't read books in bed. "
Even if you think about these benefits, you should read books even if you don't remember. Because there is no harm in it. If you want to remember like this, even if you don't remember, you will remember at work. It's a matter of the brain. The brain reminds us of what is needed.
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This will help you understand how much you are aware of others and what you can do in 1/10 minute.
After talking to someone, you can ask yourself these questions, how much you are aware of the other person's feelings. The more questions the answer is definitely "yes", the higher your level of awareness.
In the case where the answer is "no", it is possible to gradually increase one's skills in this field by being more careful later.
What am I -
Listening, listening to the other person with interest?
I looked directly at the other person and heard?
Without thinking the answer in my mind, I heard what he was saying before?
Who has considered his views, views with respect and importance?
Have you noticed the ups and downs of his face, gestures, voice?
Can I explain to him that I am listening to him attentively?
His feelings, need to understand?
Asked questions to better understand his condition or to be sure of the need?
Tried not to hurt him in any of my words or deeds?
*The time of life that was supposed to be spent on the reading table ... If you don't understand the value of that time .... No one knows where life will throw you.*
*Perhaps it would have been better to print essays titled "Time's Revenge" instead of "Time's Value" in a childhood textbook. Sometimes it seems that even if you don't have any intoxication in this life, you should have an intoxication !! Because there is no other wrong in the world like getting addicted to reading ..... maybe not really !!!*
Lots of time to read, 2 minutes of it can be done if you want. Let's find out.
**Love yourself: All the time I am trying to get the love of others, even though I don't know if I will get it, I keep running silently after destination after destination. But he left himself in extreme misery, what do you care? And keep it or why many respectable people have heard that we love others or love ourselves. Of course, I could not prove this because I have not had such an opportunity so far. Jakge, love yourself, then you will see despair, misery, all these will follow through the windows and doors.**
**Don't think of yourself as small: the day has come, we keep ourselves under close observation in the hole and chat with others in space. Hey brother, Allah has created all the people of the world. So why do you think you are small? A few days ago, I asked one of them, do you ever feel small or do you swim in the sea of despair to compare yourself with others? You says, I never think of that, I am the best. I also have the quality. If my efforts continue, then the person I want to compare with does not have to be so fast to touch. So don't think of yourself as small**.
**Ish passed in 90 seconds! So remember these two things. All right?**
Humility and shame are two words. These will be the path of your future. Because, there is a proverb: Knowledge gives humility to people. So, humility is your knowledge.
And shyness or shyness is your extra quality. Shyness makes you feel polite, which shameless people do not have. Opinion, personal.
I give a good advice, please don't make anyone angry. Everyone knows about good work or work. But these cannot always keep the mind well. These are less useful when you are upset. Due to a lot of stress, people's lives are becoming like bay leaves nowadays.
To avoid this, you can dance for 10 minutes every day. Don't laugh, please. If necessary, close the door and dance as you wish. If not, jump for a while. If you leave the song and do all this, your mind will be a little better. Half the bad feeling will be reduced. Everything will seem easy. Those who can sing will sing. Believe me you will be much better.
I think for 10 minutes every day, but before I go to sleep, I think about what I did well, what I did badly. For example, how many lies I have told today, how many truths I have told. In some cases today, I have wasted my time by not using it. How many times have the prayers been read, etc. What to do every day, even if for 10 minutes to think.
This will allow you to identify your own mistakes on a daily basis. By doing this, you will not be able to do the same wrong thing tomorrow. And today, these 10 minutes of thinking will make your walk more beautiful and perfect tomorrow. This way you can identify all kinds of mistakes from small to big and prepare yourself to avoid them
Ten minutes of work habits will not change you overnight. However, if you can make a good ten minutes work habits will gradually change your life.
Do a good job. Your mind will be purified. Peace will work.
★ If you want to be physically healthy, exercise regularly for ten minutes. Later you can gradually increase the time.
★ Ten minutes you can think of something different. What you have done in life and what should have been done and it should not take ten minutes to decide not to make mistakes in the future. Think! And change your life.
★ Suppose you are in a car and the person next to you seems smart and friendly, you can talk to him for ten minutes if you want. Maybe you can learn something new.
★ Notice your surroundings for ten minutes. The suffering of the poor and the waste of the rich will be visible. Maybe there will be a strong desire to do something good for the helpless. And this can give you a strong motivation to become something big.
**If you are righteous, you can spend ten minutes for the Creator. Remove all sinful thoughts from your mind. Purify your life. Life will change.**
There are many things that can be written. Life cannot be changed with just ten minutes. But why ten minutes is five minutes short but a good deed is enough to start a revolutionary change. Why don't you do it? Try that in the end. Maybe your life will change.
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Alleviation of hard times
Alleviation is commodity that can give a person the courage to come back from the point of death. No matter how bad the situation in life, if we've the provocation to move forward, it's possible for everyone to get out of that situation.
Our life is a combination of good and delicate situations. You can noway break down when faced with a delicate situation. You have to produce alleviation in yourself through colorful good deeds. Then are some helpful tips to overcome frustration and move forward-----
Increase confidence
Confidence is commodity that's demanded in every moment oflife.However, we must break it ourselves, If there's a problem in our way of life. And that is why keep a cool head during delicate times and suppose about the problems well. Plan for problem working. Act consequently. Make hard work lightly without losing tone- confidence.
Read success stories
Success doesn't come fluently in the lives of successful people. Prostrating the extreme frustration of their lives, they had to cross a delicate path and come to the frontal row. When you look at the world's stylish successful people like Jack Ma, Elon Musk, Thomas Alva Edison or Steve Jobs, you can see how important success can be achieved through bad times in life. And that is why read the lives of successful people. You'll see that alleviation is being created in yourself.
Learn to be patient
Every thing has a morning and an end. Nothing on earth is endless. Bad times and failures are no exception. The bad moments are cut off at one point. Try to remember the hard times, how you have overcome the bad times ahead. That is why be patient, believe that the times ahead will be better.
Mental modeling
Imagine for a alternate you were transposed into the karmic driven world of Earl. As you imagine effects, you'll find in yourself the feeling of realizing that idea. This system is called internal modeling.
Find motifs of interest to you
There are numerous people who don't understand what's in their interest. It's customary for you to keep up with others and do effects that may not be your own. Rather, divert your thinking to good effects in life, and work from the bottom of the list barring issues that are not worth the fight. You'll see that the bad moments will go down in an moment.
Love of work
Love the work. Learn to love whatever you do. Attention and fidelity to work removes bad mood veritably fluently. Working with attention gives rise to alleviation and interest. And that is why you can fluently find the alleviation to forget your delicate times and move forward.
Note
Any bad situation or failure in life is actually a part of our life. There are two sides to all the problems in the world. One, the cause of the problem; Two, problem working. So when problems arise, try to find a result. Try to find alleviation for the good side without allowing about the bad side of delicate times. Also you can be successful and happy in life.
I will talk about a pedagogical teaching.
There is a lot of education, but I will say that it is more focused.
*Incident 2 years ago. College Three of us girlfriends used to travel regularly by bus. One side of the buses is reserved for the entire ladies. Even if a man sits down, he has to leave the place when the ladies come. I thought the rule was one-sided. It's not right. Men don't suffer.*
In some cases, the myth was broken.
Fact-1
*I got on the bus after finishing my college work. The crowd lives. No seating. Boys and girls are all standing side by side. Because there is no place to do anything. Suddenly someone hugged my friend's stomach. In the blink of an eye he removed his hand again How can I blame someone without knowing? So there was nothing to do. That day I thought if I could get a ladies seat.*
Incident-2
I'm going to study on College Street. I'm sitting in the ladies seat. There is a gentleman sitting in the general seat next to me. Slowly the general seats were all filled. A man then got up. There is no general seat for sitting. I saw the gentleman get up and let the man sit. The conductor of the bus said to the gentleman and brother lady's seat is empty now, sit here for now. He came and sat next to the woman who was sitting next to me. It is very common to have a little touch between the two as the seat is small. The woman also shrunk as much as possible. The man took the phone out of his pocket and inserted the phone, while the man's elbow touched the woman in the seat next to me. I do not understand whether intentionally or by mistake. So I did not say anything. Slowly it seemed as if he was approaching. Needless to say, at one point the man moved his hand towards the abdomen through the gap between the woman's hands. Then the man pushed the woman.
I gave an example of these two incidents.Imagine for a alternate you were transposed into the karmic driven world of Earl.I am a modern woman. My thought was why girls get extra opportunities? But in some cases it is necessary to protect yourself.
*I agree I can protest. But if a girl keeps getting unintentional touch from a man on the street, do you understand her condition? Everyone sees his protest but does not see the bleeding inside the mind.*
#Note= So this year I have shattered the myth that equal rights are not demanded in everything. The first and foremost priority is to protect oneself rather than equal rights.
A woman is not safe everywhere .They are constantly harassed in one way or another
I will talk about sexual harassment of women in my country Bangladesh. I myself have been sexually harassed every time. At home, at work, at the hands of teachers, on the streets, in the market. Women are being stripped naked. This barbarism is beyond endurance. When it comes to human chain rather than justice, there are obstacles of law enforcement. In this way, the situation may become more dire when the people, tired of seeking justice, take the responsibility of judging into their own hands
talents of women
In order to underestimate the merits or talents of women or out of violence, indecent remarks are often made for the sake of women. Sexual harassment is also part of sexually explicit material aimed at women in the workplace. But consciously or subconsciously many people do this without protest - without dispute. The time has come. Prevent all forms of sexual harassment against women in the workplace. Raise your voice, break the silence.
Sexual harassment in vehicles
About 94% of women in Bangladesh are being sexually harassed on buses. Those who object to such numerical theory will stand at any busy bus stand in Bangladesh during office holidays and look at the men around them. If you claim to be a human being, you will get the result hand in hand. What a bad vision of an individual, an excuse to touch someone's body! There is no difference between the biological changes of women in ancient Greece and modern Greece.
Then the woman's uterus was, still is, then her chromosome was XX, still is XX, still the woman was able to produce breast milk, still is. But in cultural change, the whole of ancient Greece and modern Greece has changed. Then there was no right to vote, now there is. Couldn't decide marriage then, can now. You could not be a judge then, now you can. But in places like Europe, women are now much more independent, much more advanced. But our women here are still not completely independent.
Still can't go out like I want to. Still can't move like an independent. It is still heard that she did not wear a veil, so she was raped. If there are people, protest these. Learn to kick them. Explain to those who want to deprive women of education and freedom for the sake of religion.
Are you silent when you are sexually harassed on public transport? Don't be silent, raise your voice, report. Several government agencies in London have jointly launched this awareness campaign. Even in developed places like London, sexual harassment of women on public transport is an important issue. Many women there also expressed reluctance to report. There is no shortage of it in our country. Many working women still suffer from sexual harassment on public transport. We have to protest to prevent this. Let's protest against injustice by not being silent anymore.
**Market**
*In the market, women are being harassed by the employees of the shops. Basically talking about bargain - bad comments due to quarrels, shopkeepers are harassing. Sometimes indecency also happens.*
Sexual harassment at the hands of the teacher
*We are sexually harassed by the teachers we keep at home. Whether they teach or not, who will protect themselves from the greedy hands. Can't protest for fear.*
#Note=You have to save yourself. We have to explain to the male society, we are also human beings. God has created us of the opposite sex to you, to keep you happy and to make you happy. But to you, not to sell yourself.
Women's self-esteem is the expectation of life
What could be a greater insult or greater misfortune than a thorn in the side of a person's life? I think the greatest asset of a girl's life is her self-esteem. Success, money, money is there today and may not be there tomorrow. You can give a lot.
That's why you have to sell your self-esteem? Believe it or not, I'm a girl. What I understood so far from a deep understanding of the outside world because of the workplace. Despite being there, it became the most difficult for him to reach the peak of success.
If you want, a woman can loot all the benefits of being a woman.
Again, being the same woman, a woman has to do more difficult than climbing Everest for the rest of her life.
So I would say to the special women, except for this country, there is no chance for all the women of the world to get a shotcart or success in a short time. Except for luck or exceptions.
So a woman has to choose in her life whether she will sell herself or cause radiation. Whoever has greed for self-respect will not sell but will radiate.
I want every girl to become self-reliant. Whether it is sitting at home or going out.
Now you tell me how to sit at home. This time let's see how to earn money sitting at home. We all have some or the other qualities. Everyone has some or the other creativity. Education, with intellect, you can take yourself forward.
If the goal, purpose and intention is right and if it is accompanied by indomitable courage and patience. Any dream or success will be caught. Keep your honest intention right and go ahead relying on Allah. No obstacle can stop you. You have to have confidence, I can say that if you keep this in mind, you will surely succeed in fulfilling your purpose.
When you run out of patience for anything,
If it doesn't end, it starts anew.
Start small, but keep the goal in front of you. Find the opportunity, the opportunity will not find you. You have to find it. Have the courage to learn to take the challenge, you will see that you have reached your goal.
Reaching the goal does not mean conquering everything. Being ready for something new with new enthusiasm. Life is a moving train. The destination of this train ends with death. You have to understand the ups and downs in the middle stations. If you get off at the wrong station, get on the back train again if necessary. But don't stop.
Stopping means getting out of life.
Money resources are real life, livelihood wars
Life means war. And that is why it is called the war of life.
*This war comes in different forms in everyone's life. Basically, there is a constant struggle for survival at every stage of human life.*
*This struggle is sometimes to win love, sometimes to win wealth, sometimes to win respect in society, sometimes to establish oneself in the workplace or politics, and sometimes to get back healthy and long life by fighting illness.*
*Some of these battles are won, while others give up and accept defeat. From the day man first came to this world, the battle of his life began.*
`Today I will talk about the battle for livelihood of such a financial wealth.`
*We grew up in my uncle's house from a young age. The financial situation was not very good. Dad didn't do anything, he didn't have money. So I used to live in my uncle's house at one time in our family. Uncle's meaning was transparent bright. Nothing in life has left him and his family imperfect. He would help anyone who came. With money, food or space.*
As time goes on, the financial crisis is unfolding in Mama's life. Business is changing, everything is lost and lost. The family is slowly growing and it is not possible to meet the needs of everyone in the family. At one time 3 boys stopped studying. Because of their livelihood, they also go for job opportunities. But there is no value in life without education, in any case.
`It is very difficult to get a job. uncle is sick, can't do anything. Even if there was rice, there was no good food at home. According to some, he used to eat rice and pulses. Can't eat nutritious food. Couldn't wear good clothes. Became a lowly family in the eyes of society. People do not look well. No one would mix with this family. Relatives sometimes helped. The delegates used to live by fighting.`
**In the end, it would be possible to send uncle's eldest son to Saudi Arabia, if they had the money. It will cost 4,21,000 rupees to go to Saudi expatriates. But uncle was not earning income. How will his son go abroad. How many people have heard that help. No one helped, everyone drove away. The man who once helped everyone. No one is helping him today. This is life. People are changeable at the moment. If there is money, people appear in real form.**
*There is a proverb. Even if no one wants to, there is one above. He sits on top and helps everyone to be honest. At that time news came from a Saudi company, now it will not cost any money. They will now bear all the costs, who will take my cousin to Saudi. Later Saudi Arabia will pay all the dues. Maybe God gave him that opportunity. Today my cousin sang in Saudi Arabia for 5 days.*
**But life in exile is a big difficult life. No ordinary life. Maybe he will be able to gift a beautiful family life. But in return, he will have to struggle to become an expatriate for the rest of his life. Life does not end in war. Only time changes.**
*Honestly, even if you cross the line of suffering at some point, you have to explain it to everyone with a smile on your face. You have to kill yourself every moment for not being able to tell some feelings to someone.*
#Note: -Human life is such that if I have the power to help you today, then tomorrow I may have to reach out to you for my own needs. The matter is very normal, there is nothing to be ashamed or insulted about. I could have a four- or five-story house, I could have a big business, but I could lose everything at any moment. We see such a situation every day during the Corona disaster, right?
**The problem is, the middle class. They grew up in a society where asking for help from others in their own danger cannot be said openly. Because people in our society and "unfortunately" relatives. Less will help, but more will listen. If you don't listen today, you will be reminded of this bitter experience one day or the other. This is why the middle class will die in need, but it will not open its mouth. Very sad.**
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I was sexually abused for 7 long years as a child.
I am a Bangladeshi girl. Bangladesh culture and the culture of other countries are not one. I don't know if Read Cash will accept me. As much as I can, I will write articles about my real life.
**To be honest, today I will tell you in detail about my own sexual victim or harassment.**
1. Since I was 3 years old, I have been sexually abused or raped. I was raped by my uncle. He used to come to our house and take me on his lap and satisfy his sexual satisfaction. I was raped by 3 year old unctle.
2. My own cousin. He also used to take me to sleep with him at night and hit my genitals. I was raped by their father and son.
3. My cousin. He used to come to our house and if I was asleep he would torch my genitals. I could never say anything to anyone.
4. There was an uncle living next to us. He used to have sex with me in the name of caressing me. I couldn't say anything.
I was afraid to say anything to anyone even after being sexually abused or raped so many times. Because no one believes me. That's why they used to scare me.
I was a kind of helpless child. I was sexually abused until I was 7 years old.
Child sexual abuse is a form of child abuse where a child is sexually abused by an adult or older child.
This type of sexual abuse includes forcing or forcing a child to have sex, showing or forcing a child to show genitals, showing a child porn, treating a child as a real sexual partner, touching or viewing a child's genitals or making child porn .
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I was sexually abused. In my experience some general information which includes:
Most of the time I was sexually abused by an acquaintance.
Sexual abuse often begins at a very young age.
This torture was not usually an isolated incident and has occurred for many months or years.
#Sexual_rule: Don't be silent on child protection
There are several misconceptions about child sexual abuse. Many feel that children are abused by strangers and that only girls are sexually abused. Some people think that children from poor families are more at risk of being abused. But the experience of many countries in the world, including Bangladesh, shows that both boys and girls are victims of sexual harassment. The child's acquaintances and strangers and even relatives can be abusive. In most cases, the child is abused by someone they know. Not only men, but also women sexually abuse children. Sometimes relatively older children (boys or girls) can bully younger children. Children of any age and any social position in the village or city can be victims of oppression. However, some children, including children with disabilities, working children and children living on the streets, are at higher risk due to their condition. Sexual abuse of a child can occur in many ways, from unwanted touch to rape.
In some cases, the child does not want to express fear or embarrassment. But parents and family members can understand this by looking at some of the symptoms in the baby. Such as inconsistencies or changes in sexual behavior, talking about head or abdominal pain, facing various problems in school and poor results. The child's normal behavior may also change. For example, a child may lose interest in sports and have difficulty communicating with peers or adults. If there is such a change in the child's behavior, the parent should find out more about it, try to find out if there has been any abuse.
#Parents
The child must listen carefully. You need to trust them and control your emotions.
The child needs to be reassured that he or she is not responsible for the incident but that the abuser is to blame and that the behavior is unacceptable.
The child should be informed that necessary measures will be taken for his protection. The child should be given medical, counseling and legal assistance as needed.
Other family members need to be made aware of the abuser, so that they can be wary of their own children.
Children should not be made to understand that adults are very worried about this.
Doing something that makes the child uncomfortable, showing fear or annoyance, belittling the incident or taking the side of the abuser should not be done at all. Such behavior can be very negative for the child.
The child's relationship with the parents is very important in preventing sexual abuse of the child and taking necessary measures in this regard. Children express themselves only to their own parents.
In many cases the parents do not take any action against the abuser (if they are a family member) for fear of so-called family honor. This adversely affects the child's mind and damages their relationship with the parents. Surely a relationship with a relative cannot be more important than a child's well-being?
Now is the time to break our silence on child sexual abuse.
Let us all unite to protest against this torture. Everyone should take to the field with this slogan that death penalty should be the maximum punishment for the perpetrators.
@Meherun
