Feeling lonely & miss my friend!
Hello Readers! How are you all? Greeting to all. I have been physically ill for several days, as I mentioned in my previous article. Physical illness is just what we usually see everywhere now. Colds, coughs, fevers, tonsillitis, all of which make me physically very restless. Now people feel very hesitant to say cold cough in COVID situation. However, I am taking medicine because physical fitness is the most important thing.
But did you know that sometimes our mind gets sick and we need medicine to fix that mind. However, the medicine is not prescribed by any doctor or can be purchased from any medicine shop. This medicine can be someone's time and company!
Some people call this disease loneliness and some people call it depression. It can be a feeling of emptiness, sadness, or being bored. It can also be a sense of being disconnected from others or from oneself.
The word “loneliness” is one of the most misused words in our vocabulary. The word, loneliness, can be used to describe a person who lives alone and has no friends, but it can also be used to describe a person who lives with others and yet feels completely isolated from them.
Loneliness doesn’t necessarily mean that you are alone. It means that you feel disconnected from others and society in general. Loneliness is not just an individual problem; it is a societal problem too. When we are lonely, it is usually because we have lost something important to us - our friends, our relationships, our sense of purpose in life.
Many of us may think that those who are in the family or with family members can never feel lonely. This is completely wrong because each of us human beings has our own identity and we may have some things that we would like to share with a special person. That person can be our friend or our parents or relatives.
I also feel lonely when I can't talk to anyone about my own feelings when I can't share my sad memories with anyone when I can't share my happy moments with anyone. Especially when I can't talk to my best friend if I want to. He was the only one with whom I could share all my feelings. I would tell my problems, I would tell him what I liked.
In fact, friendship is such a special bond. As soon as I talk to him, it seems that all my problems are solved. All my worries are gone. I used to feel light. He told me you can do whatever you want. Because I know what you do will be right. I will always support you.
know time will change but my friend will never change. But time does not support people to do many things. Over time, the human condition changes and the human mind, thoughts change. Maybe at that time we floating to an unknown destination. But a lot of things still remain as memories in the past and memories from that past keep telling me again and again that some relationships are deviating from my life. But you know, why I'm happy after all? Because I know my friend is a very good person. And he's so happy ! And I'm a good friend of him. But most of the time I miss him a lot and that is why I feel lonely!
Loneliness has a gift. We seem to be more creative when we are lonely.