Considerate🎭

October 03, 2021

I was active in Noise giving likes and giving comments on some posts especially with the ones I am following.

And then I came across Ma'am @Eylz2021 post about how her dad bringing them to park when they were kids.

I commented that Papz brought us to some fishponds with lots of trees around when we were kids too.

Our conversation went on how we are a happy curious kids before and a some candies can make us the happiest when we were kids.I replied I miss being a kid again and she replied she missed her parents too.

I'm a person who doesn't know how to comfort a person on situations like that. Especially missing the deceased love ones. I lack on that term and honestly until now people call me inconsiderate for whenever someone I know became sad or lost their love ones I don't response or comment.

She made a point there.People have many ways on comforting people. It is the others interpretation that sometimes causes misunderstandings.

Company

Sometimes when you feel sad and lonely, you just need a company with you, maybe one or two is enough.With drinks aside. You don't have to talk about what happen or about the current sad situation you're in, talk about other things. Or don't even talk at all.

To a person whose suffering in agony,a company is enough for them to feel that someone cares for them.

Helping Hand

Another is when a friend helps you on things even if you didn't ask for help. They don't tell in words but their actions speaks on how concerned they are for you.

At work, when they do your own work to lessen your loads and helps you rest your mind a little is a kind gesture of a concerned friend.

Treating you foods and coffee just to lighten your mood.

Humor

Being funny or doing gestures,thst can make you laugh is another way of being concerned. They want to put a smile on your face in times that you feel down.

Shoulder to cry on

This may be one of the best effective ways of caring for a person.No talks, just let them cry their hearts out without giving explanations.

I once experienced this, a friend called me over the phond telling me a sad news and ask if I have a spare time. I told her I can make time and rush to go to her. When I arrived on her unit she hugged me and just cried and cried until she sleep. Made her food and then go home. I just messaged her that if she wants to cry she can call me again☺.

Losing love one is really hard and with her missing her parents. I can't imagine for I am not in her heels. But I know it really is painful especially they're really close.

And she's a strong person,reading her articles I get to know her.. If you read her articles she just came back from neing quarantined because som of her family members was tested positive with COVID19 virus.

How do you comfort your friends in situation like those?? Are you a considerate one??

Feel free to check these amazing people...😊😊

Thank you for reading!

Keep safe and God Bless!

Fin!