Article #61 April 28, 2022

Annyeong! Today, April 28, is a momentous day for me and my partner since we have now been together for three years and four months. I'm not sure why, but the longer we are together, the more I can sense his love for me. And I know that for the majority of the girls out there, having a partner that gives them more than just the bare minimum is a dream come true. We don't have any plans for today, but I expect him to come to our place and eat some foods. Because we are not the type of couple who goes out, a quiet celebration seems appropriate.

I got some prompt questions regarding self-discovery that I'd like to answer and publish here. While watching Netflix, I can't help but feel compelled to write. This is just a collection of my bare writings; I like writing stuff when I'm watching series. I feel sleepy watching it at times, but I want to finish it since the overall plot is interesting. Feel free to come here if you want to have some prompt questions as well.

What currently brings me the most joy and happiness?

Is there a contradiction between joy and happiness, foolish me? Recently, the thing that brings me the most joy and happiness is, of course, waking up in pretty good health. since  I wouldn't be happy if I wasn't healthy. Being with family and eating three times a day brings everyone happiness, and I am no exception.

What is one achievement I am most proud of?

When we talk about my academic achievements, I am really proud of them since I worked hard for them. But I'll tell you about a recent accomplishment of which I'm really proud. It's not a tremendous accomplishment, but I'm very proud of it. I am proud that, at the age of 19, I live alone, far from my family. It is a real achievement for me because I am the one who supports myself and looks for job on my own. That is the most fulfilling thing I have ever done in my life.

Create a forgiveness list of those who have done you wrong

This one is difficult since I am unprepared, but I will still provide my answers.

• My co workers

It was still novel to me when my coworkers created a group chat to gossip about me, and I was their topic there. I also commit a sin because a coworker borrowed my phone and logged into her Facebook account; she neglected to log out her account, and I feel compelled to open it. I had an intuition to open it, so I did, and that's when I discovered they were having a group chat about me. But now that it's been two years, I'm willing to forgive them. It is okay that I did not receive an apology from them. I forgive, but I never forget.

• My friend

I've forgiven my friend who ditched me. My friend ghosted me, as if she had stopped communicating to me, and she had not even seen my message to her. I'm not sure why, but I'm certain I did nothing wrong. But even though she did this to me, it's okay; I forgive her.

• My bestfriend

This is a serious one because my bestfriend ceased to greet me on my birthday last April 22nd. She even saw my Instagram and Facebook stories, but she didn't greet me. I was outraged at first, but I will forgive her. I'm hoping she realizes it soon. I don't hold it against her.

I'm aware that my answers were not really serious. It's simply that forgiveness is difficult for me, but I know I'll forgive people who have wronged me sooner or later. I'm not as tough as stone, at least not right now.

What are my thoughts about money?

Money is what I need right now. Haha. Money is omnipresent, and it is something that individuals may use to buy what they need and want. We cannot be duped into spending our money in unpleasant ways if we utilize it sensibly. My pastor once remarked, and I agree with him, that money is the source of all evil. People will sometimes commit sin for the sake of money. One thing is certain: I will not be greedy with money and will utilize it wisely.

Author's Note

Thank you for taking the time to read my never-ending prompt answers. Haha. I hope you don't get weary of it, and I look forward to hearing from you. I always look forward to reading your comments when I post an article, and I am thankful for them. Thank you very much!

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The lead image and the other picture were created by myself and edited in Canva.