My ideal guy! 🤦‍♂️🤷‍♂️💓

How are you, my dear read friends? Know what? Wonderful things happened today! First, I was able to send a donation for a worthy cause- thanks to read, I am able to donate from my earnings here, and second, I ordered food from foodpanda, much thanks to PayPal for the free $5. Since I am a new foodpanda customer, the delivery fee was for free. How lucky could I be! That was an ideal type of day that I should experience often.

But my topic for today is not related to my free food and free delivery experience. It's different.

We all have this fantasy about Mr. Right or The One that we want to end up with. And I understand some people who no longer believe in love because of heartaches. The devastation caused by breakups is a total catastrophe, a tragedy that really breaks a person's soul or whole being. I, for one, experienced such loss. Where waking up seemed to be torture because I could feel the pain again the moment I am conscious.

But it is great to love and be loved, ain't it? And I always look for characteristics in a guy before I consider a deeper relationship.

While I no longer believe in a lot of ideals in this world, I still have a preference for what my ideal guy should be. I am in a relationship but it doesn't mean that I no longer have this kind of thought. Please respect. Lol.

God-fearing/ Knows what is morally wrong from right

It is really different if you are with a man who knows what is wrong from right, otherwise, the relationship will be in a very bad state. I used to be with someone who loves to lie and pretend. He usually doesn't know the right thing to do most of the time, so I had a lot of disappointments and frustrations.

I am not yet married and I know some of you will think I am living in sin and I respect that, but I do have plans of settling down. I didn't really like living together but I didn't have a choice. So many of my personal issues.

What I meant is, the man should know the right thing to do according to his moral standards by how he was raised by his parents, and how he should act as per society's laws.

Respectful

A man who respects his mother is a good man and I believe this. If a man is respectful, you will feel that you are lucky because he will uphold your dignity not shatter it in front of other people when he has the chance. He will protect your name and your relationship no matter what happens.

Honest

I like an honest man and I always believe in "Honesty is the best policy". If he cannot be honest with you, how can you make sure he is honest all the time? Do you want a relationship full of lies, deception, and pretension? It is a toxic relationship, really. I've been there. In the first instance that you've observed your partner likes to lie a lot, you better think twice if you want to continue the relationship or not.

Romantic

Who doesn't want to be with a romantic person? He doesn't have to give me the world, his heart would be enough.

A romantic person knows how to make you happy. He will try his best to make you feel special and that you are important in his life. He doesn't have to remember our monthsary all the time but, all I want is little acts of sweetness from time to time.

Responsible

I like a responsible man. I am turned on when someone knows household chores, not a guy who always calls his mom because he doesn't know how to wash his underwear or cook rice. Sorry guys. Not only he is responsible in that aspect of life, but a responsible individual as a whole to his family, to nature, and to society.

Determined

I want a man who is willing to fight for his dreams, who is determined to sacrifice and go through hardships just to give his family a good life. He doesn't have to become a millionaire or something like that, I want a man who knows what he wants in life and is unstoppable in reaching for his dreams.

With a sense of humor

Who likes a boring person? I don't want to date someone who doesn't know how to make me laugh. That kind of person when the mosquitoes speak on his behalf. I want a man I can spend fun times with, who knows how to joke and who gets my jokes as well. It would be nice to be around that man. Lucky is the woman who has this kind of man.

A foodie

I like a guy who likes food trip from time to time. Who will call or text me like, "Darling, you know what? There's a new resto or cafe around the corner. Would you like us to see and try?". It would be like winning a lottery for me, a dream come true. Wow.

When I was heartbroken, my friend, John, advised me to write 3 characteristics of my ideal guy in a notebook and I should say "Thank you 3x" after reading that characteristic. Then, I should add 3 more characteristics day after day. This is to attract the man that I wanted to be with. I am not sure though if it was effective. The secret of law attraction lies with the emotions, not the words spoken. Take it from me, my friend. But my partner is a good man, that I know even if he is not my ideal guy.

How about you, what characteristics are you looking for a man or woman, my friend? Have you found him or her, why or why not? Let's talk, do share your experience by commenting below.

And I hope that you are having a great dinner or breakfast wherever in the world you might be.

I appreciate all of your support guys, thank you very much.

With much love,

Glessa

All the images were from Unsplash.com and the rest of the content is mine
January 22, 2022

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