Stop Saying Sorry
Sorry is all about apologizing for opening up doors to communication that allows you to reconnect with the people you hurt and who hurt you. It allows people to express regret that they have been hurt and to know that they really care about their feelings towards you.
But, there are certain situations where you have to stop saying sorry…
Stop saying sorry when you do things for your own good.
We are living in this world to be happy, and we should be responsible for that happiness. So stop saying sorry whenever you choose to do things and prioritizing yourself over anything else. It’s not your obligation to feel sorry when you’re taking a break from something or someone especially when you feel overloaded and you can’t handle everything at once. You don’t have to apologize if you prioritize your peace and make your heart feel at rest. You’re responsible for your own good, and you should stop saying sorry about that.
Stop saying sorry every time you make efforts for yourself.
All things that you do even if it’s a small or big achievement you deserve to congratulate your own self. It’s alright if you treat yourself for something that you accomplished or achieved. Do not be sorry if you give yourself the time that you need just for your solitude. Having time for your own self is not being selfish when you give yourself time. It is somehow what you’re heart and mind need for your healing.
Stop saying sorry if you choose to be alone.
You don’t have to say sorry when you postponed plans especially when it’s needed because there is something that is more important to do when you’re alone. Sometimes people tend to judge you for your sudden isolation, but they didn’t know, you just have to do it for recharging your own self, ease your own mind, and refill your energy. There are things that you can heal only when you are on your own.
Stop saying sorry when you say no.
There are times that you don’t need to say yes always just to get people’s approval especially when these things make you uncomfortable and ruin your peace. Never hesitate to decline things especially when you don’t really want to. This is to assure things and everyone that you still have your limits and boundaries. Though saying no sometimes makes you feel guilty because someone may be disappointed with you, it doesn’t matter, what matters the most is that you have peace in your mind.
Stop saying sorry when you show your emotions.
You should not be afraid to express your own emotions. You should not let others invalidate your own feelings because they say so. You are capable to feel anything, and it’s normal. You should let the people see and feel what is inside you to avoid them from taking advantage of your feelings.
Stop saying sorry when you choose to be happy and be positive.
You don’t have to say sorry when you choose happiness over anything else. Life throws a lot of struggles and challenges to humans. So choosing positivity and happiness can attract positive outcomes. What you think is definitely what you become, so if you choose to be happy, you’ll be happy, and so if you choose negativity, then toxicity will come your way.
These are just a few of some things that you need to stop saying sorry for every time you do these things for your own sake. We’re not living to please everybody; we should live ourselves to the fullest. Stop saying sorry for the things that we cannot give and offer to the world, we are living for our own good, so we are responsible for it always and in all ways.
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This must be heard and read louder and clearer because including myself and other people are saying sorry even if we do things fir our own good... Nice message you got there.