Aggression is a behavior or reaction with the intention of causing damage or injury, both physical and mental, to another person.
There is active or passive aggression that differs significantly in procedures.
Active aggression is characterized by physical and verbal assault while
Passive causes harmful consequences by intentional inaction or sabotage.
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Agresija je ponašanje odnosno reakcija s namjerom nanošenjem štete ili povrede kako fižičke tako psihičke prema drugoj osobi.
Postoji aktivna ili pasivna agresija koje se značajno razlikuju u postupcima.
Aktivnu agresiju karakterizira fizički i verbalni napad dok
Pasivna uzrokuje štetne posljedice namjernim nedjelovanjem ili sabotažom
Have you ever been friends with a passively aggressive person?
Passively aggressive people like to present themselves as polite, socially acceptable people because they never directly insult anyone. They give false compliments and hit below the belt, but you can't say they attacked you. They slap in gloves. It is an insidious game in which you can be a victim, even though the passive aggressor turns the wheel in his favor and presents himself as a victim.
I believe it was not pleasant to associate in any way with a passively aggressive person. I have always appreciated a direct approach, I love when someone I work with tells me what is bothering him, what is wrong, so that we can reach an agreement.
I don’t like contacts with people who are afraid to say directly what bothers them and then gossip behind their backs or do spite.
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Jeste li ikad bili prijatelj s pasivno agresivnom osobom?
Pasivno agresivne osobe vole sebe predstavljati kao pristojne, društveno prihvatljive osobe, jer oni nikad nikog direktno ne vrijeđaju. Daju lažne komplimente i udaraju ispod pojasa, ali ne možete reći da su vas napali. Oni šamaraju u rukavicama. To je podmukla igra u kojoj vi možete biti žrtva, iako pasivni agresivac okreće kolo u svoju korist i sebe predstavlja žrtvom
Vjerujem da nije bilo ugodno na bilo koji način povezati se s pasivno agresivnom osobom. Oduvijek cijenim direktan pristup, volim kad mi netko s kim surađujem kaže što ga muči, što ne valja, kako bi mogli postići neki dogovor.
Ne volim kontakte s ljudima koji se boje reći izravno što ih smeta, a onda ogovaraju iza leđa ili rade inat.
Passive aggression is like a bunker football game. You don’t like that person, she won’t tell you directly but will reject all your attempts to approach her.
Talking to such a person is talking to a wall where you have no chance because the wall can’t even answer you.
Thus, for example, during school hours, the child continues to type on his mobile phone even though he is told not to do so.
Your spouse does not listen to you at all, even though you have told him your personal problem, but stares at the TV out of spite.
A friend has a party she didn’t invite you to and when you try to invite yourself, she says there are only her relatives there and you would be bored.
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Pasivna agresija je kao nogometna igra bunkera. Vi se toj osobi ne sviđate, ona vam to neće izravno reći ali će odbijati sve vaše pokušaje da joj se približite.
Razgovor s takvom osobom je razgovor sa zidom u kojem nemate šansi jer zid vam ni ne može odgovoriti.
Tako npr. za vrijeme školske nastave dijete nastavlja tipkati po mobitelu iako mu je rečeno da to ne radi.
Bračni partner vas uopće ne sluša iako ste mu ispričali svoj osobni problem, nego iz nekog inata bulji u televizor.
Prijateljica ima feštu na koju vas nije pozvala i kad se pokušavate pozvati sami, ona kaže da su tamo samo njeni rođaci i da bi vam bilo dosadno.
Working with a passively aggressive person is especially difficult when you have to work in a team.
For example, you have a boss who expects something from you, because you have a certain deadline. You do nothing. Upon his re-inquiry, you are not advertising again. And then the boss raises his voice, and you’ll say he’s attacking you, that you’re working under mobbing.
You might as well get colleagues on your side. This aggressive lunatic yells and yells why you didn’t do the job on time.
It’s a corner kick when the other side least hopes. A passive aggressor is always a victim because he never attacks first.
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Rad s pasivno agresivnom osobom pogotovo je težak kad morate raditi u timu.
Npr, imate šefa koji od vas nešto očekuje, jer imate određeni rok. Vi ne radite ništa. Na njegov ponovni upit, opet se ne oglašavate. I onda šef povisi ton, a vi ćete reći da vas napada, da radite pod mobbingom.
Možda dobijete i kolege na svoju stranu s vašom stranom priće da taj agresivni luđak od šefa viče i urla na vas jer vas ne podnosi,a stvarnu stranu priće zatajite to da niste napravili posao na vrijeme.
To je udarac iz kornera kad se druga strana najmanje nada. Pasivni agresivac je uvijek žrtva, jer on nikad ne napada prvi.
Did you have to work in a team with a passively aggressive colleague? Or have you been in a romantic relationship with such a person?
I would like to hear your opinion in the comment?
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Da li ste morali raditi u timu s pasivno agresivnim kolegom? Ili ste s takvom osobom bili u romantičnoj vezi?
Volio bih ćuti vaše mišljenje u komentaru?
Priznajem, ume da izleti pasivna agresija iz mene, narocito u vidu humora. Vazno je da svako nauci sebe da se ne sluzi pasivnom agresijom, ali i da nauci kako da reaguje na nju