Do you know that there are two types of guys in this world? Well, perhaps there are even more, but let’s just focus on the two most common types of guys here. I personally have encountered these two, the one from the past and the one in the present.
Embrace yourselves coz it’s going to be a long and boring story. Keep reading if you’re into boring stuff and just press or click the back button to skip this. You choose!
So, anyway, what do you think are the two types of guys on this planet Earth? Any idea? C’mon, I know you know this and for sure, you have already encountered them. No idea??
The two types of guys are the one who doesn’t sugarcoat his words just to please you and the one who uttered the sweetest words just to prevent you from getting offended.
I’m not sure if you guys have encountered a guy who’d rather see you disappointed by his words than to tell you the things you prefer to hear. But what I do know is that most of us, ladies, have encountered a guy who talks like a gentleman as to not to offend us even if it means like he doesn’t even mean what he says.
Remember the guy I talked about in my previous article, That One Great Love? Well, he is more of an “it’s my mouth I can say what I want to” and the other guy, which I already mentioned in my other articles, such as Friend's Love Problem, Dear Crush, To Anton Yu, and The End., he is more on the latter.
The first guy is really the most straight-forward person I’ve ever met. When I asked him something and his answer would upset me, he would tell me straight away, “don’t ask questions if you’re not ready for my answer”. Yes, it may sound so rude, but he is actually right. Just because his answers can be a little rough to me doesn’t mean he has to lie or modify his answers just to please me. He is never like that, which kind of my favorite about him is because, after all his “arrogant” vibe, he is the nicest and the sweetest actually. It’s just that he has a different way of showing you his true emotions.
Then here comes my recent ex-crush. LOL. When he talks, he makes you feel like you are so special, that he really cares, and there’s nothing to worry about, which was one of the few reasons why I liked him. But guess what? When I confessed to him about my feelings, the next day, he is MIA. After a week, he came back. Not because he misses me, but because I messaged him first. So, he got no choice but to reply. After that night, he has been MIA again for days, which made me realized that “move on, this is one of those shit”. He came back again and left.
Two guys with a different story. One, who is never afraid to show his true self to me. He is the kind of person who doesn’t sugarcoat for my own satisfaction yet never leaves me despite our differences. Whenever I needed him, he is always there to cheer me up. The other guy, on the other hand, is the type of guy who doesn’t want to make you feel bad, and so he had to say the things he thinks I long to hear. He is quite a nice guy, but too nice is not really nice.
Anyway, if you were to choose, which one do you prefer: the first guy or the other? Let me know your opinion in the comment section below.
You may also want to read my other boring and definitely not-a-happy-ending-love-stories:
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I'll certainly go for the first person. Someone that will always be sincere with their words. At least you know if they compliment you it's genuine rather than being with someone that only tells you the things you want to hear. In essence, originality over fake.