Another girl again whose heart was broken for the nth time. I wonder why she still never got to learn her lesson. It's not like it was her first time but how come she's still not an expert on this. If only had she listened to her brain, she wouldn't have had to endure this feeling of being rejected again.
Listening to her heart has been the worst thing she ever did in her entire existence. Yes, it made her feel alive, but that feeling wouldn't even dare to last. I told this friend many times to always consider her brain first and only follow her heart when she's certain. Too bad she's so stubborn like me and you.
It was in the year 2020 when, according to her, she met this dude somewhere from another realm. She had no idea what was in him that made her like him at her first glance. Love at first sight? Perhaps that could be the one. But she doesn't know him and was busy entertaining the other dude.
Oh yeah, there was another dude involved. It's not like they were together, but she was just enjoying their time as friends. The second dude though was just a random guy whom she got to know a little before she quit her previous venture in life. She felt a special connection to that second dude but didn't bother to mind till they lost in touch for a long while.
A lot has happened but in 2021, they met again. Yes, their path has crossed, and those two started to catch up again. After a while, her feelings started to come back and though she tried to prevent it, she couldn't just ignore her feelings. Fast forward and the two became close.
It was running smoothly until one day, something came out unexpectedly, and it messed up everything. The guy has changed and is now nowhere to find. Poor friend coz she's now broken-hearted again.
Now she's been nagging me about this thing. Is she expecting me to give her advice? Advice that even I am struggling to apply for myself? Nonetheless, I still gave her a piece of me that I've learned from the past, and that's to let go when the other one is no longer wants to stay.
Closing thoughts
She's sad, but she'll definitely get over it for sure. Told her, been there, done that, just trust the process, and she'll be fine. She sent me a smiling emoji, which, unfortunately, indicates that she won't listen.
I've been in the same situation before. I used to ask why but now when I see the signs, I knew it would be the end. When that person goes, I just don't bother anymore. I let him go without why's. After all, people come and go, so we better prepare ourselves in times like this.
Yeah, it will cost a lot of pain, but a friend says, it's better to feel the pain than not choosing to love again.
We need to be heartbroken sometimes to make sure and test if we are still alive. 😅