That One Ex-Crush Who Left Without A Trace This article is inspired by @CarlosAndJane's **Let's Talk About Crushes!**. So allow me to share with you a story about my ex-crush. https://read.cash/@CarlosAndJane/lets-talk-about-crushes-b47a8ba3
So I had this crush I met somewhere out there. When I first laid my eyes on him, there was something about him that I couldn't explain. We then became friends, and later on, we began talking a lot. However, there were also those moments when he would ignore me, and as a *"dalagang Pilipina,"* I just go with the flow. You ignored me, fine! I'd do the same then! As time went by, we realized we had several things in common. Even our minds would sync in. Seriously, I have never encountered something like that before. That kind of connection we had was special. Despite the feelings I had for him, I chose to stay quiet. Of course, I had to hide my feelings because I don't want to get hurt. But I guess the more you hide, the more your feelings grow. So one time, the in love me finally decided to confess. Lol. I'm a dalagang Pilipina, but when I liked someone, after a few tries of ignoring the feeling, I'd still confessed. After that, he was gone for days without a trace. Luckily, he managed to come back in one piece. We were back to being friends again as if nothing happened. Then he later admitted that he also liked me. Oh yeah! I felt like I won the lotto. So I was like, *"OMG!"* We then became MU instantly. Everything went well until one day, he left again. As usual, he left without a trace. I tried to contact him, and luckily, I was able to talk to him after a week. He then told me the reasons why he left. So I told him that if he needed someone to talk to, he could always count on me. Although we didn't get to talk a lot since problems occurred, he would still find time to update me. I didn't want to annoy him so I chose not to bother him much. I waited because I didn't want to be a nuisance. One day, he said he would come back soon. He made that promise; a promise that was meant to be broken. He never came back. I messaged again, but he ignored my message. Of course, I was hurt, but I knew he made a decision and that I had to respect him. So I stopped bothering him again and gave him all the space he wanted. After that, I tried to be back to being my normal self, enjoy what's left in me, and forget those who made me feel unwanted. Until I heard Taylor Swift's song: Mr. Perfectly Fine https://i.ytimg.com/vi/rFjJs6ZjPe8/hq720.jpg?sqp=-oaymwEcCOgCEMoBSFXyq4qpAw4IARUAAIhCGAFwAcABBg==&rs=AOn4CLBzp6Pxg964L7X5GfVcaQM6MCfbog https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=rFjJs6ZjPe8 This song was exactly how I felt for him. I cried when I first heard it. After that, I got back to being my happy self again. I also blocked him everywhere, though, just to help me move on. But now, I'm totally okay and no more achy-breaky heart for me. To my ex-crush, I hope you are perfectly fine now. Whatever you do, stay safe always.
*Closing thoughts* As Taylor Swift says, *"Heartbreak is the national anthem, we sing it proudly."* Or Selena Gomez's, *"This is a modern fairytale. No happy endings. No wind in our sails. But I can't imagine a life without. Breathless moments."* I guess I'm just bored enough to write this. Lol. **This article is 100% plagiarism-free. It has been checked and double-checked on both** **plagiarismdetector** **and** **duplichecker****.** https://plagiarismdetector.net/ https://www.duplichecker.com/
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I love it lods! And thank you for bringing up that TS Song. I am going to listen to that too Heheheh
Are you a fan of TS?
Dahil na inspire ako, ma try nga magsulat about sa crush ko but which one? HAHAHA ang dami ko pa naman crush dati
Hello, dzai! Glad to see you here. :) Kanang isulat mo na lang silang lahat or yung crushes lang na talagang iba yung impact sayo. :)
Yes po, I already have someone in mind and nagstart nako ug suwat sa draft kay gibati ug kakugi HAHAH
HAHAHAH. Sana all, abtik ug kugihan. Sige enjoy sa draft. :)
Hahah salamat. Maayu lage unta ug permi ingon ani
Ex crushes ko mga taken na 🤣
HAHAHA. Yun lang.
I made an article about my crush too, title Naalala ko siya. Ngayon ko lang narinig yun song ni Taylor, bagay nga.
Aw, mejo marami na akong articles about crush ko. HAHAH. And yes, super bagay talaga. Eto yung kantang bagay sa mga bagong iniwanan. LOL.
Awit!!! Mabigay nga yan sa opismayt ko hehe, broken hearted kasi yun
Taken na. :)
my crush ako pero never ko pong inamin halata naman sa mga kaklase ko pero todo deny parin ako ngayong nabasa ko po ito naalala ko siya hehe The more you hide the more your feelings grow hehe relate po ako dito hehe .
Relate din ako sa ganyan. Kinorner ako ng crush ko kasi gusto niya akong paaminin. Pero dineny ko talaga. HAHAH. At yung sa work ko din dati. Tinanong ako kung me chance ba magkacrush ako sa kanya, as usual todo deny rin. Sana pala nag joke na lang ako ng why not. LOL.
Hhahaha oo ngapo wede po para di direkta ang sagot hehe
Nagsulat na ako nang ganito dati eh, the crush I never had hahaha!
HAHAHA. Daming relate sa crush dito. Ako pang ilang article ko na ata to about sa mga crushes ko. LOL
Crushes. I miss all of them.
Not all of them for me. Just this guy. Hehe
Hmm that hurts but ganun talaga ang life. I had something like that too..And I still got some what ifs lol.
Ganun talaga. People just come and go.
and its hurt sometimes ahe
I'm glad that you've moved on and you're all good now. I heard that song too and I loved it!
Glad you loved the song. It is one of my faves.
Yes dear glad you moved on
I'm so glad too. Thank you.
Too bad to hear, but it sounds like this guy was not right for you if he kept leaving like that.
I saw the red flags, but I ignored it. It was only then when I realized that there was something really odd going on before he left. But I'm all good now so it doesn't matter now.
Ex means former, and old age that's where they belong, sometimes i remember my exs too and i wish she's here so we can enjoy this moment together, but her covetousness and impatience led to the split
Sounds like you're better off without her. Sometimes, things happen because we deserve better.
nganu sige mana sya AWOL uy.hehe
Tinood ui. Asa naman ning tarong tarong ui.
Hello my beautiful friend, how are you? Thank you for telling us this so sad about what you had to go through, you know, I am very bothered by people who play with hearts, that they love to fill their mouths with lies and are excited, I think there is nothing more beautiful in life than being honest, than being direct and talking bluntly. The best thing you could do is forget this boy, block it and move on, who lost was him, he lost a beautiful and incredible woman who could become his life partner and give him a unique love, life goes on, this boy was just one more experience for you, take care, I send you a big hug
I already blocked him, and I'm okay now. This happened a few months back and what we had was just part of the past. I know he has his reasons, but I just wish he was brave enough to tell it straight to me about leaving. I would have had understood everything but instead, he chose to leave without being honest. Nevertheless, the past is past, and I'm okay now.
Hello. it happens many times. confusing love with a passing enthusiasm. I'm glad you got over it and are living your own happiness again. Those episodes are part of life, the important thing is to let them pass and open yourself to new adventures. Thank you for sharing. Greetings.
Exactly. Those are part of growing up. At least, it gave me a valuable lesson. Anyway, thanks for reading.
Nigerians now refer to heartbreak as breakfast and it will be served to everyone. I don't mind me, I have seen this in movies and not in reality. I can't do that, I still talk to my ex because we don't quarrel. We tell ourselves the situation of things and if there is no way out, both sides moves on.
Haha. I don't stalk. I prefer not to know much. Hehe.
In high school I also had a crush but I never told him since were so closed I'm afraid he will distant himself if he knew.
Oo, minsan kasi mas okay ng tayo lang ang nakakaalam.
oo nga much better hehehe
I can relate with this sa mga college days ko. May mga crush crush, MU thing, pero nakaka achy breaky heart pa din.
Sinabi mo pa. 😁
Grabe talaga ate no. May mga lalaki talagang ang hilig mang ghost 🥲💔
Hahaha. Dami nilang ghosts. Si Gerald Anderson talaga me pakana nito. 😂😂
Grabe Tawa ko dito ate HAHAHA nadamay na pati si Gerald eh 🤣 yung crush ko nga ate tinanong lang ako if pwede akong maging girlfriend tas wala na dina nag effort 🙄
Ghoster naman po pala Yung crush nyo eh hahaha. I had also crush before Kase sobrang bait niya sakin pero at the end siya at yung best friend ko ang naging end game hahaba.
Glad that it was already EX-crush. I just can remember what happened to John Lloyd and Angelica where Lloyd just disappear without leaving a trace. Kahit naman okay sila.
Naghost ka pala sis, but good thing is nakamove on k na,hehehe
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