September 12, 2021

Good day and happy Sunday everyone! Yesterday, I was not able to get active here because I was sick. I was suffering from headache, itchy throat and a cough, cold and upset stomach. I wasn't able to hold my phone even just a minute because every time I look at the screen, I felt nauseous. I decided to take a break from gadget just for a day. Today, I feel better.

As I was thinking what topic would I write today, I have nothing to come up to. Then when I look at my partner, I was thinking why not write about him. This article if mine is my way of showing my appreciation to him.

I love him because...

He is thoughtful. Even before when we don't have a baby yet, when we were both studying, he is very thoughtful already. He was always the one who bought us food every meal. He also fetched me in my room after my class. During my college days, I think I already shared it to you that I was really thin, he provided me vitamins. He even bought me milk to drink every night. If he had no class in the afternoon, he just waited me patiently in his boarding house. Then if I came from school, he will call me and offer me some snack.

I love him because...

He is sweet. He told me before that on his previous relationship, he was not like other guys who buy stuff for their girlfriends. He didn't like celebrating monthsaries or anniversaries. In short, he didn't like mushy things. But when we became together, I was surprised because he already gave me gifts even if it was just a day when I said yes to him. He gave me a Panda stuff toy and a Baymax cap. We always celebrate our monthsary. On our first Christmas, he gave me a Panda pillow ( Now my daughter use it as her pillow ). He also gave me chocolates and flowers during Valentine's day. Even now, he randomly give me flowers without any reason.

I love him because...

He is caring. He is the second most caring person I know ( the first is my mother ). I still remember when I suffered from UTI ( urinary tract infection ) when I was in college. He was the one who took care of me. He was the one who looked for medicine in the middle of the night. Running in an empty street just to look for an open store.

When I was pregnant and had my review session, he always accompanied me. He said that he wanted to make sure that I'm okay while having my review. When I had my review, he was just waited me outside the building no matter how long it takes. He always there wherever I go.

Yesterday, I was sick. He did all the household chores and taking care our daughter at the same time. He burnt his leg by the exhaust pipe of the motorcycle when he bought food for our lunch. He brought our daughter with him because no one will look after her since I was sleeping. He didn't wake me up because he knew I'm not feeling well.

Lastly, I love him because..

I just love him. I love him the way he is. Truth to be told, my heart knew that he will become part of my life even before we became friends. True. Before, when we were just classmates, I always saw him together with his girlfriend. They were like inseparable. My friends, who has a crush on him that time, teased me that he will be my boyfriend one day. I just ignored him because that time I was with my long time boyfriend and also I am older than him. I thought that it was impossible for us to be together because of our age gap. Though inside me, I felt a strange feeling. A feeling that tells me that he will become part of me. But look what fate did? After four years, many things happened. He and his long time girlfriend broke up and so did I to my long time boyfriend. Then, after few months, we became friends then to lovers. Now, we have our beautiful daughter as a product of our love.😊

CLOSING THOUGHT

Some women were unfortunate to find an abusive partner. Me, I'm glad that I found a good man. I thanked God for giving me a man that I prayed. I just wish and hope that he will not change. He is not perfect, I know that. He has some flaws too. But I know, we can work that out if we help each other. We may argue at times but what's important is we fix it.

My advice to some single here, do not look for a man that is only good in physical appearance. Find those who have a good heart. Prioritize the attitude. Beautiful face is just a bonus.

PASASALAMAT CORNER

Thank you everyone for always supporting me. Special mention to @bmjc98 , thank you again sis for trusting me. I'm glad to see your name in my sponsor's lists. I declare good health to all of you and more blessings to come. Be safe at all times.

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