Learning To Smile While Waiting

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It doesn't come easy to everyone, some people are seeing life more hotter and harder than we are, in fact some people pray to have at least like you. To them having what you have would be a breakthrough, you and I on the other hand don't really appreciate our present state, we pray for higher, no one should appreciate their current state, not even the wealthy men, they still aim for higher. Contentment is a needed tool, it doesn't mean we won't yearn for more, it just means that the quest for more won't consume us into doing crazy things. Everyone prays and work for better, but how do we wait.

The waiting time is the real test time, indeed is not just the question of did you wait, its more beacon on "how did you wait", when the going gets tough, how did you wait. Was the frustration so overwhelming that you made life unbearable for yourself or those around you. Were you so angry that you did so much wrong while waiting. There is a time for everything, no one gets to the top so quick, maybe those born with a silver spoon were lucky to have their finances settled, but hey the struggle is not all about money, there is career, love, family, all this we must work to get better results.

While waiting we really want to wait with the right attitude. Yes, everyone is applauded for waiting and would likely proceed to the next level, of course they all waited, but there is something special for those who waited right, who endured the process keeping their eyes fixed on the goal till it came through. For example, this is common with new business start up, from the onset its almost frustrating when we are not seeing the results we envisioned. Our minds are fund of doubling our profit, when we are thinking of how the business would be making sales before we officially started, we got excited, but when we actually start, its a different ball game, however we must wait, not just wait, wait well.

Have you been promised something and you have high expectations already, not necessarily promised money by a friend or family, you could also be promise a good deal, or a job, or waiting, waiting to get engaged, married, pregnant, and you are already anticipating, now its taking longer, you're praying about it and wishing it really comes to reality, still smile, smile knowing its going to happen. You are aware you have to remain positive to the end, believing, all would be well, but its not really sounding easy, yet no choice but to be patient, just be patient in full believe, its all going to be alright. Its all going to be fine. All things would work out for my Good.

Smiling in the midst of that trying time is a good tool to learn. Its sends the right message to your emotions, our mind reads this and accept it and instantly creates peace from within. The monks practice this as a religion, they try to relax, and send a positive seed to nature believing that nature would reciprocate and give them good news as a result for their expressed faith. Smile when you just hit your leg on a stop, yes start with that, well I know you probably think I'm joking but I'm not, I'm very serious, learn to smoke when you suddenly hit your leg on a stone and it hurts so bad. I'll tell you why.

Here's why, firstly it depicts all we need to explain about life and its unforseen circumstances. If we knew we wouldn't kick our legs on stone, I doubt anyone would knowingly do that to hurt his or herself. Similarly no one would knowingly fail, or make business go bad, or fail to receive a promise well anticipated, and so on, no one really wants to feel bad, but most times they just happen along life, same way we kick our legs on stone, so if we can learn to smile in the heat of the pain, then that absorbent we learnt would help us react to that sharp pain of frustration from life's troubles.

Like I always say life would always continue, be you happy or sad, time wouldn't wait till you're ready to start ticking again. So while we are feeling bad, we can try to feel good too, cos life would continue. Relax and act with the right attitude. Of course bring God into it and it would be more secured and guaranteed. Its not just enough to wait, its more bent on we waiting well, with the right attitude and mindset, the best approaches to this is to learn to smile at trying times too, not only when things are rosy or someone is being funny, smile in times too when you're hooked and not knowing what to do next.

Smiling is not a solution, it wouldn't supernaturally resolve the problem as soon as you smile. But yet smile though cause its better than frowning and crying. Smiling puts us in control. Someone once said smiling in trials confuses the enemies and that is totally right. If you smile or you cry it wouldn't bring a solution asap, but smiling has more benefits as already discussed here. Smile now, smile later, smile always. We all should learn to smile in trail times. It puts on in charge of the situation. Always with a smile.

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This is informative. Thanks for sharing

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3 years ago

I'm happy you find it worthy of reading. ❀

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3 years ago

This was informative. That's for sharing.

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3 years ago

Smile can makes my heart feel better,despite if the hard times were going through ,it's helpful not to forget to draw a happy face in our cheeks.

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3 years ago

Its always better we learn to draw a happy face and put it in our cheek. Let's choose happiness every time.

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3 years ago

True, there is beauty in waiting. God is preparing us during our waiting season. Let's wait with a smile in our face.

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3 years ago

Yes, God is preparing us, All is well. Carry on with a smile.

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3 years ago

In everything that you do, you should wear a smile on your face because it can help you relax on what you do. A happy face has a happy life.😁

Newbie hereπŸ™Œ Thank you😊

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3 years ago

I love this remark, a happy face is a happy life. Welcome Thania, its a lovely home you came into, I bet you'll love it on this platform.

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3 years ago

let us be happy while waiting. it can lighten the load and much better than being sad and impatient.

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3 years ago

Its much better to put a smile on too. 😁😁😁, no need to be sad and impatient.

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3 years ago

Yeah, let's all be happy so the load will get better. thank you so much, Willtravis

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3 years ago

must keep smile on your face whether you are happy or not because your loved ones happiness is always connected to your happiness . So, keep on smiling. for those who care for you. If you want that they should not be worried about you.

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3 years ago

Hmm lovely, here is another great angle yo look at, for those you love keep smiling. Lovely dear. Very lovely. ❀

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3 years ago

While in the waiting room expectant why not put up a smile confuse your enemies and the devil, i love this content so much....there is always strength is smiling, hope in smiling and there is testimony in smiling... God bless you, happy New month Will.

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3 years ago

Your comment made me smile already, thanks King, indeed confuse the enemy, they wouldn't understand what's going on. Lol. God bless you 😁

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3 years ago

πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚ it's the truth, glad it made you smile....weldone Sir

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3 years ago

Yes it sure did

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3 years ago

Indeed, Good things come to does who wait, I definitely agree with you brother, because patience is a virtue. This is an eye opener for those who didn't value the essence of waiting.

Newbie hereπŸ‘‹ God bless youπŸ™

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3 years ago

You're very welcome dear, here is a place of fun and learning. There is great essence in waiting. God bless you too ❀

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3 years ago

Your messages are always timely and useful. God's plan for Mr A is different from that of Mr B.

We need to be contented and patiently await our own God's time.

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3 years ago

Thank you so much Queen Ray, Gods time is the best, we anticipate it believing it is already a success. So we smile as we wait.

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3 years ago

Yes learn to smile while you are waiting. Everything takes time, so you should smile while you're waiting for it to happen. Ofcourse you should be positive as also and don't rush things that you want, it will happen sooner all you have to do is wait patiently and don't do something crazy just to make it happen as quickly as that hahahhha. Thanks for this article it will really help everyone.

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3 years ago

Thanks for this lovely comment dear, everything would blend in with time, in fact at the right time. Let's be positive even as we wait with a full blown smile. 😁

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3 years ago

Hi willtravis..😊

Yes while waiting we need to be smile with a positive thoughts in our mind. We need to be patience. Life goes on and there's a perfect time for God. Don't be in a hurry because life is not a race so while waiting you need to learn to be contented and wait for the right time. Trust the Gods process.

God bless you Willtravis..πŸ™πŸ˜‡

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3 years ago

Of course God Bless JRamona, you're correct, it would work out in due time, let's believe and walk believing, it's not easy waiting though, either ways let's calm our nerves down by smiling. 😁

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3 years ago

Yes willtravis indeed. Calm ourselves and patiently waiting..❀️

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3 years ago

That's the drill dear. With a smile on.

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3 years ago

Yes willtravis. Smile is the best medicine for everything..❀️

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3 years ago

As for me sir Travis, It may be hard and a long process of waiting for some reasons. Well, God already prepared something for us. All we need is to wait and have patience, because His time and will be done.❀️ "Just Keep Smiling while you wait for your turn."

God bless to you!πŸ™πŸ˜‡

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3 years ago

Indeed you're so right renren, a smile while awaiting, God doesn't forget, its a perfect timing working God. Everything would sync with time.

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3 years ago

We have different timetable that is set for us already. While waiting, smile and do the right thing to prepare for the things that we have been waiting for. πŸ’— No need to worry, God's plan for us is always the best!

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3 years ago

No need for worrirs MissJo, let's smile in anticipation, all is well. All is well ❀

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3 years ago

Smile is the greatest accessory that we can wear. It always reminds us to be optimistic in this world full of negativities. So, let's spread happiness by smiling.😊

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3 years ago

I love this Yzzza, A smile is the greatest accessory we can wear, so cheap but it beautifies our full personalities, giving us hope in a world of trials.

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3 years ago

We have our plans but we don't know God's plans. Maybe we need to accept that sometimes it doesn't go in our way, waiting is not bad sometimes I leads to good things.

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3 years ago

Waiting is not bad dear, all things are working for our Good, its intentional, we believe this as a fact ❀

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3 years ago

Now I'm smiling 😊 Patiently waiting for better days to come. I believe that God's plan for me is for the best. 😍

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3 years ago

Indeed he has the best plan laid out for every single one of us. Let's smile already knowing its going be fulfilled.

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3 years ago