Loyalty

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2 years ago

From the moment I woke up this morning, I began thinking about the people I have ever had contact with.

And I noticed that my loyalty to them is based on two things: my perception of the depth of their loyalty to me and the chances of creating value through our interactions.

Loyalty is a quality that is beginning to fade in modern day society and a trait that is becoming rare to find. There seems to be so much resentment, anger and impatience in the world today.

People want instant gratification, but rarely do they want to give anything of value in return. The need for instant results has made a lot of people cynical.

Loyalty can be reciprocal

When we treat those around us with loyalty and respect, they will do the same for us. The truth is that if you want loyalty, you need to work hard on creating loyalty in other people.

If you want loyalty from your spouse, children, employees and co-workers, then you have to give them loyalty first. Show them how much you care about them (not just on Valentine's Day), or when they need something from you all the time.

Being there during unexciting times

Treating others with loyalty means always doing what we say we are going to do even if it just a small thing such as buying lunch or going out with your friends when you said you would.

Being loyal also means following through on commitments that might not be very exciting but are important to other person such as making a doctor's appointment for your spouse or taking out the trash even though it is not something that you would like to do

Forgiveness and Loyalty

If you want your spouse to be loyal to you, then you must show him or her that you are loyal. You must trust them and only want the best for them. You must also be willing to forgive them when they make a mistake.

When your children do something wrong, you must be the first one to forgive them and show unconditional love toward them. This action will create an atmosphere where they will want to be loyal and loving toward you because of your loyalty to them. When someone is disloyal to you, instead of being upset by it, act like this is an opportunity for you to show your loyalty.

It is what create relationship

Loyalty is what creates a relationship between people and businesses. There seems to be many young people who have lost the value of loyalty, mostly because they have been taken advantage of so much.

I have also noticed a trend where I go out of my way to do nice things for people that really seem to mean nothing to them. They don't have time to reply, they don't even say "thanks".

Some people take are ready to take advantage of you being nice. Even when some people say "thank you", they rarely go out of their way to do something nice for you when you need their help.

It's extremely rare to find someone in life that is truly loyal.

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Mehn, loyalty is gradually fading off from us. The loyalty I knew was the pure one, reducing oneself to mingle with people that are low your standard, forgiving and pushing out respect to people around. But now, what we see as loyalty is very far far off.

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2 years ago

Loyalty really is hard to come by, a lot of us truly don't know wbat it means to be loyal or even how to be. And its not entirely our fault, as you said the way people have treated most of us has affected us to so much that we don't know how to be loyal. Hopefully we all find away to be loyal to those who truly matter to us.

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2 years ago

Hopefully we would. Thanks El flame

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2 years ago

You're welcome boss man

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2 years ago

I saw an interview of one American rapper- he said he will chose Loyalty over Love any day.

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2 years ago

I guess because love doesn't always translate to loyalty in this modern world.

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2 years ago

You are right, in order to be obedient to others, you must first obey others. If you have a generous attitude towards everyone, everyone will love and respect you.

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2 years ago

Thats true my friend TomiAjax when we give the attitude we give to the person we are talking to, the outcome of the conversation will also be good.

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2 years ago

Loyalty is dying off in today's world. I consider a loyal man to be one man in a million. Sadly, it is what the world really need...

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2 years ago

Loyal people are hard to find, most people are looking for who to cheat

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2 years ago

Loyalty comes with respect, infact they are almost the same thing. When unreciprocated it wanes over time.

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2 years ago

Yes it wanes quickly when not reciprocated

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2 years ago

I've always been the loyal friend, but... I don't think anyone is willing to be the same for me. Humans and their selfish nature.

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2 years ago

I think we've all been there. But that doesn't stop you from being nice and keep on being you.

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2 years ago

Just as they say that respect is reciprocal, so also is loyalty. You must earn respect and treat others as you want them to do for you. It´s as simple as that. Life is made to be that way with people.

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2 years ago

But sadly people are hardly reciprocating loyalty

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2 years ago

Reciprocated loyalty is the best of them all. You get the same or even greater value in return.

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2 years ago

The first few word you wrote blew me away . You are right this is how I measure loyalty too

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2 years ago

I appreciate your remark on my opening lines

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2 years ago

Loyalty it is one of the keys of life which brings out successive proportions in one life . You are also right about that loyalty can be reciprocal

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2 years ago

Absence of loyalty and devotion in a relationship kills the relationship more faster. A parent who is not loyal to his wife or the wife to the husband will not be happy in the marriage.

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2 years ago

That why the divorce rate is getting high. Due to lack of loyalty.

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2 years ago

Loyalty fosters greater communication and understanding among partners, corporations, and other organizations; it is a quality we must possess toward others in order for them to reciprocate. Have a fantastic weekend.

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2 years ago

Loyalty does foster communication and it is important in development between friends

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2 years ago

The statement "give and it shall be given to you" is also applicable to loyalty, when we give loyalty to people, they will also give loyalty to us. When we are loyal to them, they will also be loyal to us. And can we do this? It's by showing Care and forgiving them when they offend us.

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2 years ago

Forgiveness is important too, and when someone forgive us we should make sure to use that opportunity to build up trust and Loyalty.

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2 years ago

Life is all about give and take, if only everybody knows that.

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2 years ago

Being together with friends requires sincerity and honesty.

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2 years ago

It does require both and it is very important

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