Four types of giver

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June 4, 2022

Did you know that there are four types of giver? If you don't know and want to know about these types then continue to read my article. It's best to know what type of giver we are, ourselves.

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Today I attended another seminar. A teaching activity organize by fellow Singles for Christ in the community of Couples for Christ. Since I already an official member a teaching is needed for me to strengthen my relationship with the Lord. A covenant orientation was held. There are seven speakers for the seven topics. The seventh, is about loving and serving the poor. Serving the poor means giving them. Thus the different types of giver occur.

First is reluctant giver

This giver is always having a second thought whether you give or not to others. This giver tend to give because of doing what they like them to do and give what other needed in return. Sometimes this giver also give if they feel like it. If not then they won't.

Are you this giver or not? I hope not because we must not give half-heartedly. We should give wholely.

Second giver is chooser giver

This giver always choose whom to help. If they think people who ask for help is not worth of helping then this person won't gave anything.

Are you this type of giver or not? I hope not because God don't choose whom to help. Therefore we must not as well.

Third is show off giver

Show off giver gives only because they want to boost their persona, there ego and would give because there are people watching. Someone that tends to want to look good for other people. Anything that could boost themselves.

Are you this type of giver or not? I hope you're not. Because God wants us to give happily. Doing what makes the Lord happy and not just boosting your morale.

Fourth and last is a compassionate giver

This giver is the opposite of them all. Because this giver is not reluctant, do not choose whom to give not show off that they give just to be famous. But this giver give because it's the right thing to do. To help the needy and the poor.

Are you this kind of giver? Then praise God. If not then I hope and pray that give because we received many blessings for the lord.

Conclusion

I, myself can hardly choose what type of giver am I because I am all this type of giver. I am reluctant especially when I only have for my own. I am a chooser as will because I only choose people whom I would love or like to give. If they are not worthy of my help then I won't help. I am also a show off, giving because that's what others did. Sometimes I could be compassionate giver as well. Giving without having second thought. Giving without waiting for any return. Giving even though others won't see it.

We must do the acts of love because that what Jesus modeled us to do. He gives food to the hungry just how he perform his miracle feeding them with just loaves and fish and yet they are full, espiritually and physically.

How about you? What giver are you?

That would be all. Thank you for reading.

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Sometimes I am a compassionate giver, then reluctant, and then chooser hehehe

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I watched a movie about a show-off giver yesterday. I do not like it when you tell the world about the people you've helped. Just do it and expect nothing in return. I'm also all kinds of giver and it depends on whom the person is

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We sometimes tend to be those person because the world sometimes ask for it.

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i think i am a chooser giver. since my budget is tight, i cannot give much. but i know when i give it is come from my heart.

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We should always know when to do things and how for as to set balance and harmony. We cannot give all what we have for we might have nothing and ended up asking.

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I don't know what type of a giver I am. I am all of the above depending on the situations. But I'm still hoping that I can be a compassionate giver someday if I'm capable to do so.

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2 years ago

I myself is guilty with this too. I think we can if we choose to even today whatever we have by not being the first three we can be the fourth type of giver.

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I think I belong to chooser giver it's because, I choose to whom will I give my help. I mean those who are in need is my priority. We do have different kind of choices.

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Yes I am that like of.giver myself sometimes too.

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Kapait king reluctant, show off or chooser giver ka maajo pa di na laman mohatag kay useless ra. God loves the cheerful giver. Naa ang panalangin sa malipayon nga mohatag

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True jud memsh. Kay ingon paman sa ginoo Ang naa unya muhatag paga tagaan pa apan Ang naa pero muingon ug Wala ug dili muhatag kuhaon Ang naa niya.

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Giver ako sis haha.. minsan kung sobra² mag Bigay talaga pero kung short sa budget pinipili ko nalang muna.. depende sa budget sis pero hindi show off.. haha

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Praise God kunb ganun sis. Natutuwa Ang panginoon. Keep it up. Many blessings will be given back to you.

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Well, I think we are all guilty of this because the greatest giving is the one the Bible talks about which is similar to compassionate giver is the cheerful or generous giver. We need to give not because we want to show off, or expect in return but to give with a cheerful heart.

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True sis. But sometimes I tend to be those giver. I tend to be reluctant, chooser and show off myself. Sometimes I could not be the person the Lord want to be but how the world made me become.

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Cool, whatever the case, I think giving for the sake of others and not for ourselves is the best kind of giving.

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Indeed. I would agree. Thank you for the visit. ☺️

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Hello Sister I do not write in English, but I am using a translator to send you this message and I hope you understand it. I speak and write in Spanish. I am from Venezuela. it is a pleasure to meet you a sister in our Lord Jesus Christ. God bless you always.

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guau, gracias hermana. Estoy más que feliz de que usted haga tanto esfuerzo. También estoy escribiendo esta respuesta del traductor de Google. ☺️ gusto en conocerte hermana. y que dios te bendiga tambien. Conozco a alguien que escribe aquí que también es de Venezuela.

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Hello Sister. Amen. I am glad in the Lord to meet brothers in Christ from other countries.. Tell me my articles written in Spanish are translated into your language?? For this message I use the translator but I write the articles in Spanish! I don't know who the other user you tell me is, if you know his name please tell me. And which country are you from??

God bless and protect her always.

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I am more than happy to meet you as well. Her article is not Spanish but written in English. Her username is gertu13. She is from Venezuela as well.

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