Flirty Vs Cringy

If you are a man and you know your way around women, then well and good. But for girls, by the title itself you know what I'm talking about right? Being flirty is defined as

you see, the definition mentions a word as playful. Usually, people see flirty as a bad thing but if it is done in a right way without crossing a line, it is quiet charming to hear. What kind of girl doesn't want a charming guy telling her that she looks good and she's pretty. No one right? Flirty is cute and surprisingly sometimes, flirt always does't always result in relationships but can make a long term friendships. .. I have so many friends in social media who flirted with me initially without crossing a line, and it is been years they are still around me and has this cute friendship going on. But all these can happen if the one who is flirting is not an idiot but a gentleman who knows what he is doing. But what is cringe?

So, when a guy flirts with girl in a sweet way and charmingly, that is well and good but when he has like no m=limits, doesn't care about her feelings, doesn't care of she has been in a relationship already or even married sometimes and goes on and on and on expressing his sexual feelings to her despite her asking him to stop, the feelings that the particular girl have in mind is cringe. It is like you want to slap that person or plaster his mouth so that he just stops talking. Imagine a cringe flirt saying

Did you fart? coz you just blew me away  (or)

I would hide all the chairs in the world just to make you sit on me

Do you see what I'm talking about guys? so I'm just saying if you want to impress a girl, do it in a sweet way, not in a way that the girl wants to kill your face and run away as far as she can because life changed a lot these days for women with lot of opportunities presented to us as we do not have to "settle" or "adjust" towards a person who does not deserve it all.. When I say this, it applies to both men and women... Go for people who have class.. not with those frat boys or girls who just want sugar daddies, that's not gonna do anybody any justice as shorter happiness never last...

So what kind of charm you are? flirty or you wanna go straight to the point ? lemme know the comments..

Thanks for reading this short post guys, My stomach hurts since morning and I'm trying everything I can to relax it a bit.. until then, bear with me please... thank you Spons, ya'll lovely

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