I'm starting this new trend here in Read cash about Art of knowing yourself... I felt this as a beautiful idea because this feels so personal and almost makes me emotional. but do not worry, I don't cry easy lol. So, am sharing very personal things here that I have not talked to anyone and I hope not to get judged and questioned or pointed out that I'm just silly.
Why do I think it is important
Well, everyone has different views about this in regard. And according to me, knowing one self is very important for one very valuable reason that is to "love yourself" completely and honestly. I always believe in a self made quote of me that reads as "if you cannot love yourself to the fullest, you cannot love anyone else in this world". And to love ourself honestly, we need to learn about our self. Who am I? what do I like or dislike? what is important to me? what makes me happy or mad? what is my originality? Remember friends, knowing yourself is incredibly important to know the universe and your purpose to fulfill as a human and the whole purpose of your soul existence here. And another important reason to know yourself is to learn to accept your destiny. Sometimes, life gives us things that we can handle and sometimes we cannot. At that time where the situations are out of hand, knowing your self and worth helps to keep your calm intact and to accept the circumstances with patience. and also to never loose hope.
what do I know about myself by now?
When i think about the previous me and the me now, I myself get surprised a lot because I feel that I have changed a lot personally, physically and emotionally. I wear glasses with a power of (-14) and my friends always used to bully and tease me by calling names. It used to hurt me a lot because I'm not responsible for how I look right? Because I was born that way. I tried to ignore it but again gave up on it and started to use contacts lenses. I'm now happy but now I think about the days I used to be sad for no reason. I should have learned the fact that "that is what I'm and appearance doesn't matter to original personality" and I shouldn't have been ashamed of it and how I was born.....because I'm beautiful, just the way I was..
I learned that I'm like a mirror, a perfect reflection to the people based on how they react to me. For those who behave kind, I'm the kindest person in they ever met and for those who take me for granted, I'm like this serious witch that you do not want to mess with.
I learned that I love makeup, fashion, design creation and all that makeover stuff. I never used to care how I looked except glasses while growing up. Now I find myself in constant awe to find how much time I give to myself to look pretty to myself. I guess i really started loving myself in past few years.
I learned that I'm extremely honest and trustworthy, the qualities that are rare to find in people these days. I'm also very strong and bold. And if you ever share your secrets with me, I would take them with me to the grave....
I get angry very often and pretty quickly and it is been increasing when I get older.... quality which I hate the most in me. I should some how stop being so emotional and calm myself at the time of uncertainty.
I learned in all my 36 years of life that I'm a loner. I'm that kind of person who everyone enjoys having around. people claimed me that I'm one of the funniest people that have ever talked to and they complimented me saying I can become friends with everyone in a nano second. But do you know these kind of people are very lonely? yeah, learn from me. Everyone is my friends but no one wants to hang out with me. But, when they are done hanging out with others and get dumped, I'm the one they all approach for the comfort which I'm okay with.. Also scientifically, the most depressed people are the most funniest, imagine that!!!
I learned that I made some very bad decisions in my life, for example, opting commerce instead of Maths just coz I was scared about numbers, getting married before settling in life, not going out with anyone, not loving anyone before my marriage (I never dated) and not traveling too much. Now that I'm deeply living in a family condition, I guess I cannot undo any of these individually...
I'm ending this by mentioning the most important thing I have learned in my life, to stop giving darns about what other's think...IT'S NOT WORTH IT and other's opinions are not worth your time... YOU ARE YOUR FIRST PRIORITY FOLKS, BELIEVE ME...... so stop living for others and start loving you and your life....
Well these are some of my positives and negatives people. I hope you find them interesting or maybe some what relatable to your life... I strongly believe everyone in life has learned so many things about themselves as they grew up, I wanna hear the most important FIVE both Positive and Negative things that you have learned about yourself, your traits .. like who are you?? and what are you :))
I'm tagging everyone who read this post to make one post about this, because reading from everyone's life, we can surely take one or two as life lessons.... ALSO, please tag your friends to participate in this and tell them to mention me and I cannot wait to read your posts about what you have learned about yourself all these years?
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self analysis is very important.Without self analysis you can not get success.