Situations You Need To Be Silent!

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1 year ago

We are all human, and we are all capable to feel emotions in whatever situation we are in.  We are free to express our emotions, thoughts, ideas, and point of view.

Though we have the freedom of expression, there are still factors you need to remind yourself of when we need to react to something or when we need to be silent.

Here are some:

You need to be silent when you are at the peak of your anger.

Anger is an emotion that you feel toward something or someone who has deliberately done you wrong. It’s a way of expressing your negative feelings that is somehow good because it can motivate you to find solutions to a problem. But excessive anger can cause a problem.

Based on my own experience, it’s better to be silent if I am at the peak of my anger because there’s a chance that I can utter a word that is inappropriate or worse is to say curse words to someone that makes me regret the end.

So I choose to be silent, and when everything is calm that is when I express my opinion towards it and find a solution that can solve the problem with the situation or with the person.

You need to be silent when you don’t have all the facts.

When dealing with a situation or a problem, you need to gather facts before you react. It is necessary especially when you don’t have the facts because it may give you some information that is not true than can trigger more the problem or worse, it may add another chaos to something or someone.

So it’s better to be silent or best is to gather first all the facts that may help you to resolve the situation and how will you react to address the problem. So if you are not sure and you don’t have the facts, choose to be silent.

You need to be silent if your words will offend a person.

We cannot take it back when we have already said a word to someone. And words can indeed ruin either build or ruin a life, so we must be careful about the words that we say that can cause emotional damage to someone. In expressing our words, we should also consider the fact that not anyone can absorb how you deliver your words and even if it’s only a joke. We should always put our feet in their shoes, or better be silent to avoid offending someone in their situation or a problem they are in.

You need to be silent if your words could damage a relationship.

In terms of a relationship, you need to be silent especially when you are not concerned about that thing or in that situation. Be careful about how you express your words and be considerate to the people that are involved in the situation let them fix the problem within themselves, they should discover things rather than telling your words that can damage their relationship and whole life.

You need to be silent if your words convey the wrong impression.

You need to be silent especially to avoid having the wrong impression that will misunderstand or misread somebody’s word or action. This is to take away someone to be offended that is not meant to be offended. This is to keep away from misleading someone even if it’s intentionally or unintentionally.

Be silent if you cannot say it without screaming.

The fact that there are very sensitive people, and I admit that I am one of those people that is so sensitive and easy to feel sultry, that screaming sometimes makes me cry easily. So I don’t want to be yelled at by someone. And screaming can only make the situation worse because there are tendency that even if you have the solution to a problem if you say it through screaming it can only add heat to the fire. So it’s better to stay calm first before saying a word.

These are things that you need to be silent about, though speaking up is not bad somehow; there are still factors you need to realize before saying it. Because we cannot take back what we have already said and suffer the consequences in the end.

You need to calm down first, know the problem, and consider all the people that are involved and make decisions and resolve the problem without hurting someone’s feelings. In that way, you can have more solutions and have a better relationship with other people.

Be calm, and be silent, because silence is power.

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1 year ago

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Agree with everything! I have always most of the time chosen to be silent, especially when angry. Kung ano na lang kasi minsan mbibitawan nating salita kapag ganyan, kaya silent na lang.

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1 year ago

A lot of people think that I am a nagger because I am a talkative person. I have a very long patience and when I get mad, I just shut my mouth, most of the time, I mind my own business. Because before, I always put myself into chaos because I can't control my mouth

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1 year ago

We have different kind of attitude towards anger. We have our limitations, but when we choose to be in silent, theres more possibilities to resolve a problem. Thankyou for reading! :)

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1 year ago

Indeed. I choose to be silent langga lalo na sa partner ko, pg pinatulan ko nku world war 10 tlga ang show..saklap din pg malabas ang galit eh.

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1 year ago

Opo ate langga, masaklap din po kapagka makapagsalita tayo ng di maganda tapos in the end marerealize din natin tapos sa huki tayo din ang magsosorry hehehe.

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1 year ago

True , whenever we thought that our words would be harsh like in anger we should remain silent

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1 year ago

You're right. Instead of hurting others, we must remain in calm and silent approach for us to solve and fix more problem, because we can think more solutions when we are calm.

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1 year ago

Silence often answers the words of others. Sometimes it is better to listen quietly without responding to someone's words. I like your words very much. This is why you are a teacher. You have an amazing ability to convince others.

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1 year ago

Aww, thank you so much for that. I appreciate you for your words. You're right, silence means everything. Thank you so much for dropping by. God bless and Goodmorning! :)

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1 year ago

Good morning, good morning to you too. May Allah bless you and inspire you to write articles like this.

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1 year ago

Yan talagang Anger, hirap mag pigil kapag galit parang sasabog kana na gusto mo ng sabihin lahat. Maigi nalang talaga mas maaklas willpower ko na pigilangm ang bunganga ko na mag talk, aigooo. Para walang gulo, tahimik nalang muna and be calm.

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1 year ago

You're right ate .Minsan naman po talaga mahirap pong pigilan ang galit lalo kapag nasagad kana, pero ganun nga pp walang maidudulot na maganda ang galit kapag may problema, kailangan be calm muna then try to fix the problem . Salamat ate, magandang gabi po! :)

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1 year ago

I have committed all of the above :( I am very explosive and when I get out of my wits I usually hurt, I go with that intention, of course it is something that rarely happens but when it does I maximize it. I try now not do it because later you have to apologize and I don't like it

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1 year ago

So maybe you need to practice to control your emotions especially when you are angry. It may not be easily to do, but at least try harder. Thank you so much for sharing.

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1 year ago

Very true. All these are worth reading and should be followed i in our daily life.

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1 year ago

Thank you so much for that! :) Goodevening :)

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1 year ago

we quote " if you have nothing good to say then it's better to shut your mouth". Learn the facts and let our anger subsides first before we utter a word. Minsan totoo yung nakakabingi ang katahimikan. It has the power to make other party concern to think and wonder what's lingering in your mind.

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1 year ago

You are definitely right, . kapag wala namang magandang sasabihin, we better shut our mouth rather than saying a words that might damage them emotionally. Thank you for sharing dear. God bless.

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1 year ago

You need to be silent when you don’t have all the facts.

This is something a lot of people are guilty of, they confidently say things they are nkt sure of and at the end of the day, they discover they have been wrong. It's best to stay silent in situations like that rather than making a fool of ourself

You need to be silent if your words will offend a person.

Sometimes it's hard to tell how a person will react to our words, so it's better to tread carefully with what we say to people.

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1 year ago

These are all facts my friend.Thankyou for sharing your thoughts. I strongly agree, for all the things that you mentioned. So better think first before saying a word that might ruin someone's reputation. If we don't have all the facts and the basis, or if we know that our words will hurt someone and feel offended, choose to be in silent.

Thankyou so much again!

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1 year ago

You're welcome Lyn 😊

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1 year ago

Lahat ng nasabi ay totoo. Learn to be silent talaga Lalo kapag galit , or makakaoffend or kung Wala nmn magandang sasabihin.

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1 year ago

Tama po kasi baka pagsisihan din natin sa huli., o kaya makapagbitaw tayo ng mga salita na hindi natin mapanindigan sa huli.

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1 year ago

Agree ako jan sissy.Kaya kahit super blunt kong tao simula ng naging kami ng asawa ko ni minsan eh di siya nakarinig sa akin ng masamang salita dahil I tend to control myself dahil ayaw ko siyang masaktan.

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1 year ago

Tama ka po, kasi ang galit nawawala, pero yung nasabi mong masasakit na salita hindi na yan mababawi kahit magsorry pa tayo. Kahit po ako pag nag-aaway kam ng boyfriend ko now, mas pinipili kong manahimik sa ksabila ng galit kasi ayaw kong masaktan siya, Salamat sis! Magandang hapon :)

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1 year ago

tama.dati kasi wala akong paki basta anong gusto kong sabihin sasabihin ko talaga kahit masaktan pa yung kausap oh kaharap ko pero habang nagkakamature or ngkakaedad ako eh mas alam ko ng controlin ang sarili ko para walang gulo at walang masaktan.

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1 year ago

Honestly, what people say could make peace or take peace away, these self control measures you mentioned Is the best way to control it

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1 year ago

You're right, so it's better not to be the reason of someone's miserable life, control and think before you say a words. Thank you!

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1 year ago

Some people don't know when to talk and when to be silent, they just say what comes out from their heart without having a second thought about it. If we know that our words going to hurt others, it is better to be silent instead of talking. The tongue is very powerful, once we say a word , there's no way we can reverse it again,.. that's why we have to be very careful .

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1 year ago

You're right and based from experiences, words can hurt us a thousand deeper, and the damage has been done even if we say sorry. So we must be careful in every time we say a word especially when we are angry. Thank you for sharing my dear.

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1 year ago

Yeah , the damage has been done, we can only look for way to correct it again..

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1 year ago

Yeah, we must think and be silent at first to avoid it.

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1 year ago

I agree, we should be silent if we are angry, because we might say something bad to hurt other people...Don't let our anger control ourselves.

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1 year ago

Indeed, anger can be a poison that will ruin our system, so it's better to be calm first so let's avoid ourselves from hurting someone that we regret in the end. Thank you for reading and sharing! :)

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