Self-love Will Always Outweigh Insecurity

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Self-love or Insecurity?

There is a great power in learning to accept yourself as you are and learning to have a high regard about everything in your life. The power of self-love will always outweigh insecurity.

Perhaps self-love motivates more power in your life while insecurity kills more potentials from within.

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Can you imagine yourself being filled with self-love? What if insecurities hold your life badly?

No matter how bad things go, try to balance self-love and insecurity. There is no such thing as perfection when it comes to existence. Let us come to think that there is no single person in the world whose life is so perfect. Definitely, nobody lives a life that is full of perfection, only a perfectly imperfect version of oneself.

Maybe you could see perfection in social media but how could perfection exist in the world wherein it does not even exist in reality. Even the elites and celebrities have been embraced by flaws, struggles, challenges, and disappointments.

Whether we like it or not, we all have an insecurity in various aspects but it is a matter of how we handle our feelings and emotions. What matters most is how we focus on trying to improve our crafts just to achieve an almost perfect life that we always aspire.

Perhaps insecurity is an anxious emotion and feeling of inadequacy that would often result to a lower self-esteem and worth about oneself and the world. What is your biggest insecurity in life? How did you overcome it?

Personally, I also have insecurities in life but it is not a deep sense of insecurity. However, I never let other people's opinion rule my world. My biggest insecurity in life is social anxiety that is rooted from being an introvert. I am not anti-social but I just treasure my solitude. I am just reserved and truly appreciate real connections. Yet I overcome all my insecurities through being realistic in the world and at the same time being true to myself through self-acceptance.

We all have anxious emotions and feelings of inadequacy. It may affect each one differently but every so often what triggers it are perfectionism and self-doubt. That is why it is so important to be aware of our insecurities so we could always deal with them.

In some aspects, an insecurity may invite more inspiration to move forward when taken positively but every so often, insecurity kills more hidden talents, skills, and more potentials from within. It is so fine to be insecure about things in the world but one must acknowledge them and be able to manage anxious feelings at specific points properly.

Sometimes you may fail to appreciate yourself but little did you know that other people are having a high regard about you. You may often think that you are unworthy yet never ever fail to give time for yourself to accept every strands about your life.

Just give yourself time to accept yourself as you are and just give yourself time to have a high regard about everything in your life. People may have different views about self-love but what is the most common way is the idea that it will always outweigh insecurity and that compassion is key to self-love.

Self-love through COMPASSION

Care about yourself.
Open yourself with love.
Make yourself a priority.
Practice self-respect.
Always be open to change.
Strive for progress.
Set time for taking breaks.
Invite healthy habits.
Open spaces for healthy boundaries.
Never compare yourself to anyone.

Literally, compassion is key to self-love. When you know how to appreciate and care for yourself, then it is not very hard for you to love yourself to the fullest. Just care about yourself. Open yourself with self-love. Make yourself a priority. Practice self-respect. Always be open to change. Strive for progress. Set time for taking breaks. Invite healthy habits. Open spaces for healthy boundaries. And never ever compare yourself to anyone.

In conclusion, compassion is key to self-love. Just be gentle, kind, and patient to yourself despite all your insecurities and flaws. Bear in mind that insecurity would only kill your hidden strengths and potentials, and it would eventually ruin your life little by little. Hold on and believe that self-love motivates you to make positive choices in life as you have a high regard about yourself making things healthy on serving your life with a purpose. Self-love will always outweigh insecurity, remember that.

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Without self-love, one can hardly have real feelings for others.

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The more we love ourselves the more we would learn to love others too, and you are right of your point dear friend, sage.

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1 year ago

Our minds just focuses on insecurities and we never think of self-love before that.

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So true. But above all, what matters most is self-love more than any insecurities in the world. Thank you for sharing your ideas dear friend cybercrypto.

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I have lots of insecurity specifically in my physical appearance but then I still love myself and I didn't intend to be in someone else life I would still choose whatever God gives me and probably I can call it self-love.

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1 year ago

Insecurities in physical appearance is truly one of the common insecurities in life. But then, it is a matter of accepting ourselves. And yes, I so agree with you dear friend, cleo. We must always love ourselves no matter what our appearance would be. Everybody is unique and special in our own little ways.

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1 year ago

we live in a world that has its own goals and when we will take steps to achieve that goal, we will equip our lives so that we can reach the goal of living according to expectations. that's when we will understand how to see and love life that all things that are good for oneself will always be the main thing to work on. complementing yourself in many ways is a way to love yourself.

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1 year ago

Through loving ourselves we could always achieve a healthy mind, and soul. Thanks dear friend pajeroz for sharing your most reflective thoughts. Very much appreciated.

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1 year ago

What I want to choose friend Talecharm is self-love because they say you love yourself before you can expect the person you love to love you. Another good lesson learned here in your article friend!

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1 year ago

Thank you dear friend, Jen. I love your words and yes let us learn to love ourselves more. Let us always embrace all the love in the world than insecurities. Love others as how you love yourself as well.

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1 year ago

I was very insecure once but i have recovered about it already, I hope many will learn from this wonderful article of yours

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1 year ago

All is well dear friend yoi. I know you are loving yourself more than any insecurities in life. Carry on as always and keep loving yourself.

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1 year ago

yup, I will sis, thank you so much,

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Life has given us diverse ways to fight insecurity in our lives. And one of this ways is through self-love. Spending some quality time with myself has helped me over the years to deal with insecurity. I have trust issues, so i hardly depend on others for anything but myself. Self-love is the best gift we would ever give to ourselves.

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I am also experiencing trust issues dear friend, peju. You know what I do not really trust somebody so easily. Because of this, that is also the reason why I am more filled with self-love. That is why I so feel your good points here. Thanks much for sharing dear friend.

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1 year ago

nicely written sis.. these things are important so that we are not being shaken by the standards of this world when it comes to beauty and such... we are beautiful in our own way.... looking at social media all day everyday will really pull our confidence down...

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Thank you so much dear sis. Perhaps perfection that is deceiving only happens in social media but in reality it does not even exist. Let us just continue to be true to ourselves as we continually acknowledge our insecurities and take control of ourselves.

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Love yourself first because no one will help us succeed, only ourselves. I agree that we shouldn't compare ourselves to anyone because it will just lower our self esteem.

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The key is through loving ourselves and I so agree with you dear friend, Leng. Thank you for sharing your wise ideas. Let self-love dominate our world.

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As for me, I don't consider my social anxiety as insecurities too, as you say not caring about what others think about you is a way too of saying you don't have any insecurities because it comes when you start thinking about what other people say about you and how you leave your life. As one keeps growing you tend to see others' opinions about you is like putting water inside a basket nothing will ever change for the basket because it will remain a basket and the water won't even stay in it.

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Very wise and nice ideas dear friend, adobe. Yes you are right and I so agree with you. It will always remain a basket without a visible water amount of water clinging on it. What is more important is to acknowledge our insecurities and accept ourselves as we are.

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Amidst all the full meaning of each letter of that COMPASSION I love it all especially, what letter N signify " Never compare yourself to anyone" . If you are someone who loves football. Zinedine Zidane do tell his players that "No one is better than you in your wing" That means no one is better than us, hence don't compare yourself with anyone

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Thank you so much for your appreciation and thank you as well for sharing your reflective thoughts. Yes you are right dear friend, offset. Let us never compare ourselves to anyone.

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We should try to do such

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Self_love makes myself more productive and living with contentment is now my priority for myself. I know sometimes,I feel insecure but I manage it in a positive way and take it as my motivation to be a better version as an individual, good day friend

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That is a good self motivation dear friend, maria. I know you are a strong woman and you could always acknowledge and take control of your insecurities. The best part is making yourself a priority.

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I am a self-lover I never had a complex that other are better than me I am so imperfect I am just perfect in my own way and if someone asks me to change myself I ask him/her to change his own mentality

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Glad to meet a strong independent woman here. Happy to hear those words from you dear friend, Molo. What a great gesture of self-love.

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One must love oneself first. And never compare yourself to anyone else. Especially looking at social media and people's fake attitudes should not be deceived.

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Yes dear friend man. There is no such thing as perfection and we should not be deceived by any. What is more important is to never ever compare ourselves with the life of others so we could breathe to the fullest.

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1 year ago

everything is temporary. we must be aware of this

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What can someone give me that I don't cherish.... Self-love is the best so far!... It helps you build strong confidence, boldness and much outspoken.... You can't be tamed at all... Everyone had insecurities so we all learn to cover it up by behaving like learned person and make corrections asap.

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Those words are so wise. Thank you so much dear friend, Cesca. I am with you on your opinion that self-love is the best. Let live life with more love in our hearts as we learn to love others too.

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Gracias mi amiga

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I like the last sentence of your note very much, comparing myself with others is foolish in my opinion.

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Thank you so much dear friend Thomas. I know you are a strong person and that insecurity would never outweigh anything in your life.

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For the last two years I have been suffering because my dearest niece has lost her self-esteem, she despises herself and suffers because of it. I don't know what else to do to help her, the only thing I have left is to love her.

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Probably she has experienced bullying, negative criticisms, or any false judgements against her. Based on real life experiences, these are some of the reasons that could low down one’s self-esteem and confidence, although there are a lot of factors that could be linked. And yes dear friend, carolina. You are doing the right thing. I know she needed more love from her family and everyone surrounding her life. She just need to bring back the confidence from within in time.

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Agree with your point of view that Self-love is a state of appreciation for oneself that grows from actions that support our physical, psychological, and spiritual growth. Self-love means having a high regard for your well-being and happiness. Self-love means taking care of your own needs and not sacrificing your well-being to please others

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Thanks a lot for sharing your wise and reflective thoughts dear its, truly appreciate it. I so agree with all your points. Perhaps self-love is all we need to have a healthy body, mind, and soul. Let us jist acknowledge all our insecurities and decide what sho be better as we keep on moving on.

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Acceptance and self-love unveils the beautiful things we're blind with as we compare ourselves to others.

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What matters most in life is self-love so we could learn to love others too. And I so agree with you about acceptance on our insecurities as well dear friend lone stranger.

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Totally agree with you. 💯

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Self love is always a beautiful thing and most people don’t realize it but it goes a long way in helping our life

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What a nice feeling to be in love with ourselves dear friend jumper. For the more we care and love for ourswlves, we could also learn to value others. And that self-love would always outweigh insecurity.

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Beautiful content has been produced by admiring efforts of your thoughts and views, but I do want to ask a question if you don't mind, let's say a person is very self-loving, she/he knows their value, their potential, and how to strive for progress but when it comes to a romantic relationship she/he is quite reserved to the thoughts of loving (romantically) only one person for their eternity but she/he is insecure because of the global trends of so many break-ups, adultery, infidelity, and various other cheats going on, in this world. Now, I want you to answer "How is her/his self-loving trait going to save their partners from cheating?" i'e' her/his only insecurity.

It’s true that she/he can cope up with the result of their partner’s cheating but what about her/his only emotion to completely satisfied with just a single person in her/his life. Her/his would be shattered.

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I do believe that cheating is a choice dear friend, Trofi. Even if somebody represents an almost perfect display in any point about love amd life, if your partner is not committed to his or her promises in your relationship, then you would both end up broke. Insecurities in a relationship do happen but despite all the flaws and imperfection, there must be respect with each other as both is doing teamwork to work for your relationship so that love and care will last forever. And of course, communication is very important so that both partners would discuss what should be and not. I think it is just a matter of understanding that both of you exist in your relationship. That is why being in love is a bind between two partners who are perfectly imperfect for each other. And that, cheating would always be a choice and disrespect to your partner.

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And, here no matter how self-loving you are, you will end up broke, right?

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Break up is sometimes a matter of saving yourself most especially if you are already exhausted in a relationship. Sometimes, it is not that you do not love the person anymore most especially when cheating is involved, but it is a matter of letting go and giving up because you choose, self-love, that we always deserve.

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yeah, and the price is paid by the loyal one.

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Self love is irreplaceable and we can never compare it to any other thing. Self love us paramount. We should always think of loving ourselves first even before loving others. It's not stinginess but a way of loving yourself. Self love is key and nothing to be compared to

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The key to a happy life is never to compare ourselves with anyone. And I so agree with all your wise ideas dear friend Biso. Thanks much dear friend.

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Well said dear Self love is far better than insecurity In the aspect that self love helps to gain confidence in you and also helps in achieving your goals at the stipulated time rather than insecurity does.

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Thank you dear friend endless for your compliments and I appreciate your time and attention too. I agree with your thoughts that self-love could help gain more confidence.

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The pleasure is mine ma'am Takre care

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Exactly sister, there should be balance between self love and insecurities. W can be insecure in life by several aspects of life. But it didn't mean we should leave care about ourselves. Self care is more important so that we can be able to care others.

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I totally agree with you dear friend, flipper. Thank you so much for sharing. Let self-love have more space in our lives and may insecurities be acknkwledged so we could always take control of our actions.

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Insecurity is the worst choice anyone will ever make. It brings about jealousy and hatred. But when an individual chooses self love, he/she will not battle with jealousy

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I so agree with you dear friend wrinkle. Insecurity will only ruin us little by little by little as it brings jealousy and hatred. Let live with more love in self. Let us always battle jealousy.

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The more we are aware of our insecurities and take control of them, the more trustworthy we'll become. We won't just act foolishly or let our emotions take the better of us

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Very well said dear faa. Yes, the more we are aware and the more we would acknowledge our insecuritues, the more trustworthy we are becoming. The most important thing is to accept and take control of our feelings and emotions.

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Self-love gives indomitable determination, and insecurity robs you of the radiant lights inside you. Thank you, sister. Nice article.

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I appreciate your attention to be here dear friend freedom. Letnself-love bring light to our hearts and let insecurity be away so we could always have a healthy mind, body, amd soul.

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the more we have insecurities, the more we cannot handle accepting ourselves wholeheartedly.

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Yes dear friend, Dennis. We all have insecurities but let us accept and acknowledge those and move forward for tha better. Thank you for sharing.

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Insecurity, or perhaps worry will only keep us stuck in a circle of comfort zones and find it difficult to move forward trying something more challenging.

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Thanks dear friend, qheer for your reflective thoughts. The idea of being stuck in a circle is so true most especially when we overthink, and doubt ourselves. And yes it would always be very difficult to move forward and even more challenging. But it is a matter of self-control and self-acceptance.

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Self-love is important because it helps you achieve a balance between the body and the mind. We deserve to be treated well, and we should also treat ourselves better.

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Thank you dear Lixten for sharing your wise thoughts about self-love. I totally agree with you. Perhaps self-love helps us to make things healthy between the body and mind. When our life is being hold by insecurity, little by little, we always end up ruining our lives as we also become the person we do not like. And it is always very important to appreciate and put a high regard to ourselves while keeping a humble heart.

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