The way we engage with people around us is a thing of great importance, we should never take it for granted at all. The strong relationships that last long were made possible by some hard to make sacrifices that have been done in the long run. To hold a lasting good relationship between each other as friends, we must undergo so many things in life.
A brief question for you dear, How do you think that a computer learns new things? You don't need to answer the question though, I just want to get your attention a little. I hope that I am getting it bit by bit. I have already answered but you didn't notice it. I have engaged in some relationship a few months back and I discovered a little about myself.
Friendship.
One of the most important relationships that human beings can engage in is friendship. With all the time that I have spent with my dear cute_Girl, I discovered that there is a lot to do as friends. We started our friendship on this platform (what are you thinking about when I mentioned her name, we never met in person haha!).
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She taught me that if I must be her friend, I must never hurt her feelings. When she mentioned that, I thought about it and I didn't understand what it means. I have never hurt anyone's feelings before and I don't know how to do it. If you like, believe it or not. But she has now taught me what it means to hurt someone's feelings. I got her scared, I told her that I needed to hurt her feelings and she looked at my face, then we laughed it away. She knew that I can not do that.
From what I have learned, three types of friendship can happen between people. The types of friendship that I have seen are
friendship with benefit
This is the kind of friendship that I was having with @Hill1 but it is so sad that I will miss him for a very long time before we can meet again. What he does is that he comments on my posts and he does that every time that I post articles on this platform. Though I don't have his attention anymore.
We are more of an acquaintance, we don't have a close relationship, I think he just likes my posts for no reason. And I subscribed to him but he is yet to post any article. But I hope that he will do that someday.
The kind of friends like this is not common. They do not support you because know that you are rich or otherwise. All they believed in is to do what was right. So they can support you today when you do the right thing and leave you tomorrow when you stop doing the right thing. You don't have to offer them anything before they will support your vision. They are few and they believe you when things are very rough
Pleasure-time friendship
These are mutual friends, they are the categories that you snap together when it is time for posting pictures on Facebook, I was once like that and then I have a few of them in years and what we do is have fun. We play football games together, eat together and when it is time to work, everyone walks away.
That kind of friendship rarely exists when responsibilities come around. They don't stay with you when you are sick and can come to look for you when you have nothing to offer them. I am not criticising anyone dear and don't feel guilty at all... It is just what seems to be true and what I have seen.
Forever friendship
I want to be a forever friend and I want to have forever friends. I have seen a few of this type of friend here. They don't take how you feel about them as a priority, what matters most to them is the way they treat you.
They take you first and sometimes even though you ignored them for a while, they are always there for you no matter what the condition. When you offend them, they have already forgiven you before you apologise for the wrong thing that has been done to them.
All thanks to my dear friend @Amazing-grace who taught me about this, though I did not know the exact time she taught me. Could it be... Was it yesterday? No. When was it then? I just can not recall that but maybe I will before tonight.
Thank you for reading, if you like the post, don't forget to do how you feel... Parable haha!
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