I'm browsing on facebook one time tryna find a video clips to ease my boredom. And then I saw this korean video. It's just a short video of how this girl get her revenge for her twin sister, for sure you have the idea about this KDrama already. You know korean Drama, sometimes they like putting a bullying scene in some of the episodes. I actually like those kind of drama because it's just a amusing how they get their revenge after just accepting those bullying from other people. It's very fulfilling for me.
It is just annoying that it happen to them, I sometimes think that just accepting is also a bad choice I mean, the heck right. Like "why you are so weak? Come on! Fight!" Something like this, lol. It's a little frustrating too watching them tch. You know that feeling that you want to get in through your phone screen and beat the crap out of them. But what do I know right, I'm not on their shoes so only them can tell how hard it is just to accept it all. It's not like they want to be subjected of bullying.
Every kids want a happy and memorable life as a student. So we can't really judge them for saying those words to them. But you know, in that kind of series when they finally found a reason to fight, that is where everything become more exciting. And that's why when it's time of revenge I really feel joyous. I'm cheering for them actually, UwU. Is that bad? Lol. If I can I will also put a banner with a line "Way to go! Beat that b!tches nigga!" Yep like this, lol.
Anyway, we can't really tell the main reason of bullying for it is actually has a lot. Every kids has their own reason why they are doing it, some just want attention because they can't get it with their family. They think that by doing it, maybe their Mom or Dad will finally notice them. I just base it on the books and series that I have read and watch. They are targeting those who's weak and don't know how to fight back because they know, they can toy with them easily.
It happened not just in High School or to a student you know with kids and teenagers, it can happen to anyone. Even those people who's working hard in a company they can also receive some bullying from their senior yep to an adult. Bullying has no age, it can happen even to the young to oldies one. As long as they used force, or threatening method. Those who's using intimidations, and physically hurt you, that can be consider as bullying.
It's just sad that a lot of people is experiencing this kind of shit in their life when they only want to work hard to achieve their goals in life. And what's worst they don't have choice but to zip their mouth instead of to fight back or else they will receive more beatings from those bullies. Another possible reason of bullying is when they experience violence in their home. You know, beating from their own father or it can be from their mother.
There are some cases like that for sure. I really don't know what to say about this matter but to kids, for them to have a happy and positive life, parents should give attention and love to them or they might find it to other people or worst they will find their happiness and love to the bad doings in the world. Some just lack of attention and love. But they can't get that to their home. That's kind of sad too, for sure they have stories to tell too. And they are just keeping it to their self.
The violence that they are doing, it is just their front to make an it look like that they are superior to everyone. I hope no kids will ever experience this kind of thing again. Seeing news with suicide is really a heartbreaking one. It's not like they are weak, it is just that no one is there for them to listen and comfort them. Like being alive for them is a big sin. Isn't that harsh (˘･_･˘). Aigooi
As i've said before, I never receive bullying despite my appearance before and thanks to that I have a happy experience in my childhood. And if ever I experience that, I make sure that I will fight back. Lintik lang ang walang ganti aba! I just remember one time that I pretend that I was possessed by a bad spirit. Hahahaha. And you know like pinapatirik anf mata like kulay while na ang lalabas?
I did that, while pretending and you know what I'm doing when I did that? I am asking for a fight like my arms is ready already. But I have a reason too why I did that. It's because my classmate is fighting and that is why I pretend that I am being possessed. It's effective I tell yah. And I also show to them that I can be crazy too if I want to, lol.
What a happy experience that is, lol.
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July 16, 2022
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Bullying is horrible in any way. I experienced that actually. That's why I realized that being too kind isn't good, sometimes you should have a bad version of yourself, too as a protection from bad people.