I was Disappointed
Flutterwave disappointed me, they refused to get back to me after the interview. I sent mails which they didn't reply, until recently when I got a message from then that they were done hiring, I was so angry.
If I had known I'd be Disappointed, I would have gone for the previous batch with my colleagues.
Well I decided not to mind the disappointment. I went ahead to register, and worked on being posted to Lagos, a state in Nigeria known for its wide range of job opportunities.
I felt this will be a compensation for the Flutterwave job I missed.
Well, just as I said above my expectations were once again taunted. I was posted to the south. I do not know anyone here and I do not even see my self serving there. So painful 💔😢😫
I was asked to resume on 30th of this month(July)
Still Skeptical about going though.
Sometimes disappointments might come very rapidly
Sometimes disappointments might be very huge and could be life changing.
"When you get bad news, take a moment to let it sink in," says Tina Gilbertson, LPC, DCC, psychotherapist and author of Constructive Wallowing: How to Beat Bad Feelings by Letting Yourself Have Them
Many people will successfully work through their disappointments and get over it as fast as it came.
In any way possible, they have the strength to take note of what happened to them, try as much as possible to learn from the incident, and then move on.
They come out of such disappointments waxing stronger.
We should learn more about how to manage our disappointments effectively
I decided that life is good. It is a very daring adventure and should be taken one day at a time.
Relax, do not trouble yourself worrying and wallowing in self pity after being disappointed.
Move on, there's still a way out.
As regards my NYSC posting, I'm still pushing my buttons, hoping there's something I can do about the state I'm posted to. But if it still doesn't work, then all road leads to the south. I'll gist you.