Just another day
*"Always be yourself, express yourself, have faith in yourself, do not go out and look for a successful personality and duplicate it."* -*Bruce Lee* https://www.wow4u.com/quote-of-the-day/ The best thing you would ever give to yourself is your true self and not pretending to be someone else. We all have got gifts in us and if someone could exercise his or her gift to become successful, why can´t you? No one was born successful, they had to go through many processes to get to their dreams. Another beautiful thing is believing in yourself and having the faith that you can do it. Social media is one of the place that can influence us positively and negatively, it is our choice. We may decide to see a person excelling and choose to follow his or her steps, so also, you can try faking your identity. There are pretenders on social media and what you see online may not be so in reality. This is why we need to be careful and do what works best for us. I have always known that there are some categories of people who are government´s properties, and no matter their offences, they can never be sued or sue another person. I was told that even if they kill due to their disorder, the court do not have any option than to let them go and in some cases, they are kept in rehabilitation centers to keep watch over them. Non-Legal persons includes Infants, disabled, lunatics, imbeciles, mentally retarded people, extreme old men and women etc. These set of people do not have direct capacity to sue or be sued but they can be sued through a third party, which is commonly referred to as ***"next friend."*** Why am I saying this? There was a situation of a lady who just got admitted into the college as she is presently doing her Nigeria Certificate in Education (NCE). When I saw this lady, she has a disorder called **Macrocephaly**. These kind of people have big heads and it is a disorder as I googled it. I knew something was wrong with her and has a disability in her. My first experience with her was when she came around my hostel to charge her phone when there was no light. I already plugged my phone in the socket and when she came, she removed my charger, thinking if she plugged her socket, she would transfer my charger there. I was silent and was watching her do her thing. There was only a space working in her socket and she couldn´t say anything. I was watching her and I kept telling her my phone was not charging, she heard but didn´t respond. I told her multiple times until she stood up and went her way. At that moment, I knew something wasn´t okay with her and I didn´t want to create a scene so I don´t get injured by her because no matter what she do, she will be a free being at the end. I got to know that she was living in the school hostel but was sent out because she bit a student so hard that she was rushed to the hospital, she started squatting with another student outside school. Many times, we would hear her mentioning committing suicide or would poison her roommate one day. Another incident happened and everyone of us ran inside and locked the door because that moment, she was so violent and she could do anything. We need to be careful with people like them because they will do what they propose in their heart to do and nobody can stop them. Well, I want to understand that even if the authorities cannot apprehend them, they would be given jungle justice- this is my own opinion though. I wonder why schools are accepting them since there are schools for the disabled and physically challenged being. Let me stop here as I don´t know what to write again 😂 Thanks for reading. Photo by Kyle Glenn https://unsplash.com/photos/_AR74EoWdy0 [February 22, 2022] (No 53 article for this year) https://read.cash/@Princessbusayo/important-guidelines-in-life-1857121b#february-21-2022-no-52-article-for-this-year
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I agree princess. We should true to ourselves. Let's not fake it. We must be real. Don't pretend. It will worsen the situation if we make it. Still it's better if we are real. Be true. Yes princess, social medias give us a big impact in our lives. We should observe and do not easily believe on what we saw there because not all what we've seen there is real.
That is it. Not everything we see online are real, we need to be cautious so we don´t regret later. Thank you always for your support.
Yes princess that's true. There are a lot of fake informations in social medias. We should be careful. You're always welcome princess.
Thank God you didn't get angry at her... Hmm, Patience is really a virtue. I know of a guy who stabbed another person because of a similar disagreemnt, he only spent two days in the cell. His mother brought a "certificate of madness"gotten from a psychiatrist and presented it to the police and he was set free
Like seriously? His mother knew he is mad and allowed him around instead of locking him up. That is unfair. This is why we need to be careful with people like that. At the end, they will be free.
On a lighter note..Maybe she thought his madness have cured since he had graduated from the psychiatric college with a certificate. Lol
Nawa o.
The school is typically a government established business centre and as such, should be able to accept all persons irrespective of their state of being sane hahahahaha...sorry she was so violent sister mi
You are very right. The business do not have any other purpose but for business.
Wawu... This is serious. I'd have to google that up as well. Her parents should have helped her by taking her to a special school. But probably there's a special education dept in your school though. Just stay clear off her way since she's brutal.
We don´t have special department in my school. There are schools of her kind everywhere.
Truly speaking PB Infants inclusive
I believe they are trying their best to give such people a normal life to live, so they won't start hating themselves.
Probably!
Maybe, i think the school wants everyone to co-exist and that is very wonderful o hahahahaha😂😂😂
I guess it's because they can't afford these special schools as they would be more costly. These universities can't refuse them cos that will amount to discrimination
You have a point. Her parent may not be buoyant though
I think we should just look out for our safety and well-being when dealing with those kind of people.
You are right.
You should be careful around such people, and at the same time don't treat them bad because of their health issue. Show them love and care.
Exactly, they are the type you can´t ignore, also they can´t be move closer too much with.
They need an extra attention so your school and hostel is suit for her
Exactly. She should be monitored closely.
I don't know if her condition is what makes her violent but she seems to endanger the safety of people and may need special care.
That is what I am confused with. Perhaps it´s because of her condition but she seems dangerous.
When we start to copy others, compare ourselves with others that's the moment we lose our own self , we lose our passion which is pretty normal. Each and everyone has something unique power inside ourselves we need to find out then cherish it without making any useless comparisons. I believe we need to help these kind of special people by giving themselves a normal surroundings but if they behave like crazy then we should not be take them lightly. Be careful and try to stay away from her
Well, I also think caring and giving them attention would reduce the possibility of them becoming wild to others and also be careful with them.
How cool introduction., yess no one was born succesful because a true success can achieve only by means of difficulty and hardships along the way.
Nice writes princess. Hardwork always comes with success. I can't wait to see the continuation of your story😂. I'm a story lover😂
Government should made rehabilitation centres or separate institutions for such students, where they study since their childhood.
Government aren´t looking that way my friend, they are after money and exhorting from people. So they do not mind what happens once they have collected money.
Yes only the handwork pays off and no one born successful. You have to dig your success with your hard efforts.
You have said it all. Thank you
its my pleasure mate.
Agree the best thing to do in life is not to pretend in ourselves accept all we have and don't be insecure in other's life that's the only thing we can be happy in our living.
Thank you, friend.
I guess they just want to make them have the feeling of being a human that's why she was accepted into the school The best thing is to stay away from her
You are very right. The best thing is to be careful.
Yeah
It takes a lot of work to reach success in life. With faith, determination, and patience, we can do it.
You are right. Thank you