Why "I love you" is so important!

"I love you" is probably the sweetest word in this world, and there is no doubt about that. Sometimes we forget to tell our partners this, and it can be terrible in a relationship.

First of all, what is "Love"? This question is one we consistently fail to ask ourselves, some people don't even know what it is, and that is why some relationships never seem to succeed.

You may not believe it, but some people are even scared to say it because they don't know what it means to love, which may not be their fault. Some families never show their children love, which may cause problems for the children in the future.

Love is not something as simple as warm affection that we feel towards another person; for example, Romantic love is not the same love we feel for our parents and sibling, and Parental love is not the kind of love we feel for friends and lovers.

Perhaps love does not need to contain emotion or a sense of warm affection; for a word that has deep meaning, there is never a correct answer. So how do you understand love?

There may never be an answer to it, but I understand that there is not only one way to express your love to others; if you don't understand what it means, you can always come up with your phrases to express your love. What matters is the emotions you put into what you want to say to them.

If you have never said I love you to your partner, but you feel it, there would never be a better time to say it than now. Don't wait for the right time because that time will never come to you, which is the problem most people have.

When you fail to tell someone how you feel about them, they will never know, we sometimes don't tell them due to our fear of being rejected, but it is better to try than never try at all.

Sometimes love is like a mirror that reflects your wrong sides, and when it is unrequited, you get jealous, envious, and resentful. It would help if you faced all sorts of emotions, but there is no reason to find that shameful.

I have never seen a drug more potent than love, and it has the power to change a person positively or negatively; I have seen people who have changed who they are to pursue someone they had emotions for, and I ask myself, why is love so strong.

I love high school because it was usually the first place you would experience this feeling; some of us had our first relationships in high school, and it was so beautiful to us, and there was nothing as nerve-wracking as a confession.

Sometimes those confessions become rejections, which gets us depressed, but sooner or later, we get back on our feet and return to our old selves. 

You can never underestimate the saying "I LOVE YOU," because these three little words imply acceptance, care, and the willingness to place someone's needs above your own.

The term "love" is not just a selfish passing moment, but it has a genuine and deeper understanding of who someone is and knowledge that they are good enough even with all the imperfections they have. Without acceptance and love, what do we give each other?

No matter how much money, fame, power a person has, it can never buy the same feelings your heart got the first time the love of your life confessed their feelings to you. The butterflies you get in your tummy is something you could never replace, and it lets you know you are alive.

When you love someone, never be afraid to tell them, because telling them is a gift, and it does not only make them happy, but it also makes you happy.  

When you truly love someone, dare to express how you feel, do it well, and do it often because you give more of a gift to yourself than anyone. Know that you are claiming your will to live fully and completely cover yourself in life's joys as quickly as you are able and willing to hurt from life's predicaments.

We are all social creatures, and we are on this planet to nurture each other. Living a solitary life will only be painful; it is even more painful than living with love and losing it.

Remember this:

A heart that hasn't been broken may never enlarge. 

A heart that has never loved will grow cold. 

And a heart that lives in fear shrinks with time.

You should never underestimate the power of "I love you", say it with a deep breath, closed eyes, a leap of faith, and a whisper, and you can be sure that the moment you open your eyes again, your life will have changed for the better, I promise you.

Thank you for reading; leave a comment if you have any.

I will see you at the next one; bye!!