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Children are not Adults! They only mimic them
Hello readers! How is everyone doing today? I hope you are having a fantastic week and staying hydrated. Eleven days remain until we celebrate Christmas, and I am always happy when I read the **"perfect gift challenge."** It is nice to see everyone mentioning the gifts they want to give others, and you are even getting rewarded for it, and that is nice. Most of us may have been bullied when we were kids, which could have hurt our confidence and made us feel weak and useless. Bullying has been here for ages, and I don't think it only has to do with schools; in fact, adults sometimes bully other adults, which usually happens between the rich and the poor. In the U.S, there have been several cases of school shootings, and when I say several, I am being serious; if you check the website, you will find out that so many of these children may have been bullied until they couldn't take it anymore. I am not justifying that they killed other students because of their anger, but if they were never bullied, I don't think they would have taken up those guns and killed their fellow students. Some kids on that list were not bullied, and they only felt like doing it because they wanted to feel like adults. There was a recent school shooting where the parents were said to have bought their child a gun on Black Friday because it had a discount, can you imagine? I don't know what his parents thought, but I don't think they are qualified to be parents because if they could buy a gun for their fifteen-year-old son, I am not sure what they do behind the scenes. Maybe they thought he would use it to play or something in their minds, but instead, he went to his school and killed four of his fellow students and injured seven. Can you imagine how the deceased student's parents would be feeling? They sent their children to school to learn, hoping they would be safe from any threat, but instead, the threat was their fellow student who murdered them in cold blood. I can't even begin to imagine hearing that your child is dead, a child you have raised and loved for 15-16 years ends up dead all because of someone else; it is unfortunate. No child should ever die before their parents, and it is always sad to hear news of children dying because they are only children, they had their whole lives ahead of them, and it was cut short by someone else. It is not like the shooter was bullied or anything; he just felt like doing it, which is the sad part. Those children died over his whim, and even though he is serving life imprisonment, it would never bring them back. I don't think everyone should be a parent because some don't even know what it means to be one; they never inquire into their children's lives and only provide things for them. I blame the shooter's parents for this problem because they bought the gun he used to kill his classmates, and they thought he was an adult capable of making his own decisions for himself. I think that is the problem most parents have with their children nowadays; they are starting to think a fifteen-sixteen-year-old is an adult when biologically they are not adults, they are still children. A 15-16-year-old is not thinking the same way an adult would think because they don't think of the consequences of their actions; they would only think of the excitement they would feel doing it. I genuinely think parents should start looking into their children's classmates and friends because we have to take their lives seriously and not think they are adults capable of doing everything. When your child seems to be having trouble at school, question them and try to get information from them because they may be going through a bad situation in school. Children try to mimic adults by hiding their problems and not telling anyone because they think they can handle the situation all by themselves, but that is not the truth. It is a parent's job to guide and care for a child, especially when they seem to be having troubles. I hope these frequent school shootings stop once and for all because children dying is unfortunate. Thank you for reading!
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Children always like to imitate others. It makes them happy. So we can use it very well in front of our children so that they get our use.
Children actually learn a lot through imitating adults. I feel parents need to train their children the right way, some things are not meant to be given to children at certain ages. Education is a good legacy we can give to a child. Teach them what and what not to do.
Exactly, we shouldn't leave everything to them because, after all, we are the parents.
We shouldn't think a 15year old child is already grown up,the parents of the boy they bought guns for aren't doing any help to their kids,what did they expect a child to do with a gun, it's illegal in the law.
I wonder what they expected him to do with the gun, I don't think everyone deserves to be a parent.
Yea not everyone is grown up to become a parent,but with time they would become.
It's remind me spiderman and lil spiderman mimic. Watch this🥴🥴 https://youtu.be/Dlf1_vuIR4I
While schools should be the safest places by nature, there is an increase in school raids like this. The aggressor's family, of course, raised a criminal who could threaten other lives, and provided him with all kinds of ground.
Schools should be the safest, but now people are even afraid to leave their kids in school!
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A good parents must be really careful with the way they trained their children. How will they buy gun for a 15 years old boy. And also children should obey their parents and also they should not keep secrets from there parents. Accept my sponsor ship offer 🙏 🙏🙏
Yeah, I agree with that!
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OmG! Why would a parent buy a gun to their teenager child!🤦♀️. I guess the school also had a liablity. Isn't its in a policy that ang sharp object,guns etc is not allowed at school?
I wonder what the parents thought when they bought that for him, and I also think the school is to blame; if only they had checked his bag, it would not have happened.
They should tighten their security. Was it a private school?
Oh no, it was a public school,
That's explain why the security fails
Most parents only care about the grade of their kids and they don't bother to ask of their mental health
Exactly, some parents only care about their kids when they pass or fail an exam, and it shouldn't be that way.
What a bitter story, how parents can buy real guns for their teen... the real culprit of the teen shooting, and the kids who were killed are that parents. As you said, not everyone has the right to be a parent...
I wonder how the parents of the deceased children would be feeling knowing they can never see their child again. It is so unfortunate.
The feeling of losing a child is really painful, as you said, the law of nature is that children die after their parents, and it is really painful to bear this pain...
That is so unfortunate and painful for the part of the victim's parents. Here in our country, there is a recent news wherein siblings were brutally killed by an orphan who lives with them. The daughter who was killed invited the orphan in their house, feed her and cloth her but the orphan is doubted to be the suspect of killing the two siblings.
Wow, that is unfortunate to hear! How can the orphan do that after everything they did for them. So much evil in this world.
Children is the greatest imitator of an adult. So as an adult especially as a parent, we should be a role model to them through teaching them a good and friendly attitude. I agree with you that we can blame a kid's fault to their parents because they are the one who is responsible on teaching them
The child is not even an adult yet. Children should be trained and taught better
He is only 15, and he did this; it goes to show how bad the parents genuinely are.
I couldn't imagine if that happens to me. As a parent, although my child is still young, I am anxious about the kind of friends she'll have and if she can protect herself from bullying. We, as parents, should thoroughly think of our decisions especially when they involve our kids.
When it comes to our kids, we should always think because whatever affects them would affect us significantly.
I agree!
If that occurs to me, I'm not sure what I'll do. I'm concerned about the type of friends I make and whether or not be able to protect myself from bullying. We should think carefully about our decisions we made.
Yeah, we should not make bad decisions when choosing friends! Please don't forget to like the article😊
Yes, choose the right friends and true friends for you
Good article True some people talk to children like they are adults.
That is a serious problem because these kids think they are adults when they are only children; parents should stop doing that. Please don't forget to like the article😊
Definitely. I remember my one of my neighbor's kid. That kid is so spoiled that he cuss his parents but the parents just laughed like they're proud because their kid knows how to cuss already. Lol and that kid will run across the street when not given anything wanted.
Wait, what? Why are they proud that he is cussing at them? What kind of parents are they?
The environment they grow and what influences them plays a big role in children's growth and personality. We shouldn't give up on them but continue to guide them.
I think it’s one thing to give birth to a child and it’s another thing to raise the child…parents should do more on the upbringing of their kids because they are the ones that would grow to become adults too
They always forget the child would become an adult one day, and when a child has poor training, they would eventually become a rotten adult.
Though some psychologists say that Children learn by imitating adults. Children basically learn by imitating the behaviors they see around them, via their parents or social media. And what some parents see the child imitating them, they say the child is getting matured. A very good article concept!
Yeah, I agree with you on that!
It all started from which kind of environment they've grown up to. And it all began to the parents, parents are responsible for their kids as they are supposed to guide and teach kids good things. Differentiate what good or bad. But sadly, most kids turned out to be a bully it's because of what he have been through, some cases are the lack of parental guidance, lack of attention towards their kids. Parents plays a vital role in a child's life. And then that kid will bully other students thinking that it's okay. And now the one who will suffer is the bullied kid. Parents buying gun because it has discount is fcking sick! When I heard the news, I myself couldn't even imagine how come a minor do such horrible thing in school. What kind of parent is that. Tf
I mean, I was confused when I read the part about the discount. I don't think everyone deserves to be a parent. Can you imagine they even thought of running away and going to a new state? Thank you for the Tip😊
Parenting is an essential duty. All parents are responsible for showcasing ethics and integrity to their children. They also should try to protect the tender minds of the children from harsh/messy realities. Instead, the children should slowly be introduced to the hardships of work and life. They should be taught how to do everyday chores, such as cleaning, washing, gardening, etc.
That is why parents need to spend quality time with their kids and also become their friends so their kids can confide in them. This is very important.