Children are a gift given to parents by God, and every couple wishes for them, and when they are given the gift of a child, they give them their unconditional love.
Having children is not easy and that is why I understand when parents are over-protective of their children and never want to let them go.
Mothers especially never want to let their children go, because giving birth to a child is not an easy task and giving all their love to that child is their number one priority.
A friend of mine once asked what make parents have this unconditional love for children? It was a weird question, because I am not a parent, but it made me think a little bit on why my parents loved me even when I didn’t do anything for them.
The truth is every parent loves their child, and they are the apple of their eyes with a cherry on top.
Parenting may be tough at times, and extremely tiring, but no parent would change it for the world, even if you have more free time without kids.
Having kids is the most important thing humans will ever do.
Children are beautiful and when they enter our lives, they make everything colorful, and pretty. I have never seen a person look happier than when they see their newborn child, you can spend hours looking at your newborn child and not be satisfied.
Having kids will make you delighted and incredibly happy in such a way that no one else can or ever could. For the rest of life, our kids will occupy our mind, and every step in their lives we will be holding their hands and guiding them.
To me there is nothing better than getting kisses and cuddles from kids, because to them we are the most important people in the world, and they never shy away from showcasing their love and affection.
You should always try your best to accept their feelings because by the time they are four or five children start moving away from us and it can be so sad sometimes. But it is better for them to be independent and start thinking for themselves.
Having children means you will never get bored as they will always keep you entertained even during ungodly hours in the morning when you are trying to sleep, but who cares! The feeling you get when your child achieves something is so incredible and difficult to describe, and when boasting to your friends only fills up your pride so it’s a win-win.
I have written this in one of my articles before but, when you look into a child’s eyes there is always a sparkle, and this sparkle is their creativity and imagination.
A child’s creativeness and imagination is something only an author/writer can dream about, children can play with any object for hours and still have fun.
In a minute they can become astronauts walking on the moon, or exploring space, while another minute they are princesses at a tea party. For me it is amazing to see how wide their imaginations are, and how fast they are able to create such wild and crazy worlds, but the sad fact is sooner or later they will have to deal with reality, and their imagination will fade away slowly.
We all know that every child is different and children have their own talents and abilities, to put it simply they are one in a million. No two children can ever be the same even twins are different, and this is what makes each child special or we would only have one if they all turned out the same.
Learn to appreciate every single moment with your children, remember they will only be small for a little while. Instead of ignoring them, or spending time away from them, get closer with them and build your relationship.
Lack of parental warmth and love can make a child more stressed, and since parents put so much pressure on them to succeed, we fail to balance it with affection, creating health risks in them.
When a child has love from their parental figures, the child will be more protected from both psychological and emotional problems, a child without love is more likely to engage in bad activities and this is a fact.
Your love and affection will help your child feel secure regardless of their accomplishments, loving them will build their self-esteem and confidence.