Not every love story end with a happy ending. Others find happiness, others ends in disaster.
Love moves in patterns we can't really think of and it comes when you least expected it.
It becomes sweeter once you know and feel that you are also loved. When the feeling is mutual everything goes around unusually. You share the same interest and experiences and you begin to build memories. You go through a lot of challenges but still survive amidst differences. You may be together for so long, for months even years. You began to plan out your future together and tell everyone about your love that's 'forever'. But what if one runs out of love or the other lose the trust or found love from the another person? Whatever the reason may be, if the relationship doesn't work the way you wanted to and the two of you drift apart, do you think you can still be friends?
A failed relationship may result in trouble. One may suffer and may be filled with anger and resentment. One may curse the other for the rest of his/her life. What about your shared memories? Is there really no other way? They say 'if two past lovers remain friends, it's either they're still in love with each other or they never were' , this could be what others hold on to. We can use this as an alibi for one who doesn't want to be friends with their ex.
Break ups are always sad, whatever the reason. Hearts will be shuttered and moving on is a challenge. But it can also be a benefit for the two past lovers because it will serve as an avenue to free thy self again and regain self-worth. This is a chance to give yourself more time and to continue believing in love despite being hurt. Sometimes, you win and sometimes, you lose. If you don't win at least, you've learned something that can guide you as you go on.
Be at peace with your past and be happy for your ex. Free yourself from anger and bitterness. Lead a happy and healthy life and be wiser in making decisions. Be free to fall in love again.
How about you? Are you comfortable being friends with your exes? Let me hear from you.
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I also quoted that saying on one of my articles. For me, I cannot be friends with him because I have loved him so much. But he already messaged me a few years ago that I was not able to see that time because he texted me on my prepaid number that I rarely checks. I think I said this in my article that I may want to be friends with him again if I already have a new love interest. And of course that is if it is ok with my new partner.