I forgot how to be happy

How nice that you are using this platform to write what you feel and in a way to vent all those emotions that affect you and cause anxiety. Write, do not stop doing it, every time you feel the need to express your emotions, to unburden everything that oppresses your heart, do it through writing. If there is anything I can help you with, count on me.

I hope everything will be okay soon. Laban lang bisan way kalaban

Find yourself and don't think much of your limit, sis. They all are mental things. Hugs!

When I was younger same as you, I also felt like being pressured although my parents don't do so. I guess it's normal for people when they reach that age where they can't decide of what would they become. Just go with the flow, as saying goes you have to dance with their tune.

I can just say don't pressurise yourself it's difficult time for you but you've to fight so you'll see better and happy days ahead. It took me too much times and alot of things happened in my life i lost happines and now i know how to live happily being alone which is quite difficult and prayers for you!

I can understand where you both are coming from. I try to understand my family as well. There's no use fighting over things if we can't come into an understanding. I just hope you guys can resolve this. I know it's hard but you have to do what you have to do for now and don't let the pressure get to you. Hopefully, you get to learn to understand each other.

Huggsssss... I hope you grandma will understand you and i also hope that she'll let go of you. It's hard when there is someone who is pressuring you to do something... Hope you'll feel better soon

Don't get too hard to yourself girl, naranasan ko an rin yan kasi malaki any expectations ng family ko sa akin noon per dahil nakapag asawa ako after graduation,hindi ko sila natulungan.Naisip ko din,hindi naman siguro dapat tayo ino obliga na suportahan ang parents natin,pero as long as kaya natin,bakit hindi.Minsan kasi ,parang kailangan magbayad ng anak ng utang na loob gayong ang pagpapa aral ay isang reasponsibilidad ng magulang.Nagka anxiety na rin ako kaya ,kaya take it slowly.

I understand your feelings, you know my mom told me a story about dad before that's what his parents and relatives always tell him not to get married yet, not to be serious with his girlfriend which is my mom because he has to finish his studies and then help his family, to re construct their house, to buy new things, car, etc.

My dad has been a lot of pressures, ending they didn't even enjoy their relationship with mom. They didn't have the chance to travel together because he is tipid tipid kasi daming demand nang pamilya and he always say to my mom

He is tired with too much pressure his family gave him, he is not the eldest but all his eldest sister are married already that time that is why he has been their hope. He has younger brother but walang kwenta kasi napakatamad pero ayos lang sa parents nya (my grannies) pero pag siya dami nila sinasabi.

Wag mo na lang pansinin lola mo, siguro she put a lot of hope in you na rin but don't add pressure on yourself. I hope you'll be fine.

Yan ang mahirap ee. Yong di nila alam na sobra sobra na ung pinapatong nila sa balikat mo. Yong sobrang bigat na kaya minsan di na kinakaya, bumibigay na pati utak mo. Bakit di nila maisip un ano, paramg sarili lang nila ang iniisip nila. Saka, di man lang nila kino consider if gusto mo ba ung ginagawa mo. Like, go wala kaming paki sa gusto mo. You should do your part and all blablabla. Aish, may ganito pala talaga no. Sana makayanan mo pa. Don't think too much nalang. Ignore them muna then so what you can do for now, yong kaya mo lang. Wag mo masyadong balikatin lahat. Breath! And Fightuuuu 💖💗

Nakafeel sad ko ug ing-ana mem. Di jud lalim ng ipressure ka. Mao ng naningkamot jud ko nga makakwarta-kwarta ko ginagmay para ug naa silay pangayuon like ambag sa magbirthday, makahatag ko. Taas raman gud ilang expectations natu labi na nga nakahiman ta. Maayo na lang pud sa akong side nakasabot-sabot ra pud sila. Ningpromise man pud ko nga bisan naa na koy anak, mutabang gihapon ko nila.

Laban lang ,lilipas din yan ,baka bukas ,maintindihan ka na nila🥰

Same goes for me... I am feeling bored and lazy these days.

Mao nay usa sa toxic trait sa mga pinoy mamsh, kanang they thought nga utang na loob , good thing lang pud dili sad ing ana ahoa parents nga i pressure ko ba

Kakalungkot pag ganyan.. Pero sbi nga lilipas din yan stay focused and positive 💪

I felt sad, I know few people who have the same situation as you. On them, they are the breadwinner and they are demanded to be single until financially stable. They are against it, but they can't do about it.

Fight and be strong at huwag kalimutan mag pray. Ganyan talaga Ang buhay minsan mahirap at malungkot Pero huwag pa stressed masyado.

Haysss Filipino culture no? Nakakapressure Yung Alam mo yon pagkagraduate mo ang dami nila nilulook forward.

Please don't ever let anyone tell you how to live your life and what you must do, you really are so young (I feel like an older sister saying that to you 😂). I can understand your Grandma wants you to be successful, but what she is doing isn't fair on you. There is a lot of pressure and sometimes you need to take time for you and figure out what you want. The end of the day, your whole life is ahead of you and you need to decide your own dreams 🌸

Thank you for sharing such a beautiful article with us, it was straight from your heart, I really love to catch up with your works and it always gives me motivation when I read your articles. Sending loads of strength, hugs and positivity xx

Keep fighting po. Hindi ka man nila maintindihan ngayon in time po makikita nila yung ginagawa niyo for your family..

The typical Filipino fam. Don't worry, one day, they will understand everything you're going through. Just stay strong. Don't stress yourself too much. Though it's hard not to, especially because the people you expect to understand you are the same people who don't. Basta, just pray and be strong.