Limiting Myself in using Mobile Phones
Mobile Phones are so common nowadays because it is what we use to communicate with other people. It also helps us to access information that we need to know but we all know that cellphones has also a bad effect on us.
Have you been addicted to using your mobile phones in playing mobile games or browsing some social media apps? How often will you use your phones in a day or week?
Using Mobile Phones is already part of my life. As I wake up in the morning, I check my phone on what time is it, and not only that I always look into it now and then to see what time of the day and I also open my data connection to see if my family had messaged me on messager. I also check the group chat of the school where my kids had studied to see if there are important updates so I wouldn't miss a thing.
But recently, I have to minimize the use of it because of what I have been through and it wasn't really easy not to hold my phone since I was used to it every day. My head is aching sometimes and when it happens I can't stand having lights so I switch off the light we had at home and even close the door just so I can't see some brightness. I will also set aside my phone so the headache that I have will not get worse. There are times that I feel like vomiting when I'm exposed too much to some brightness.
The last time that I went out and the sun was shining brightly, I came home enduring the pain in my head. I can't stay much longer outside if it's really hot and that was my problem today. Brightness on some things, not eating on time and too much hotness will give me a headache. Even if I stayed inside the house but the atmosphere is too hot, I will still have a headache after. What I need to do to lessen the pain is to take a bath or just sleep without any noise to be heard at all.
Using my cellphone has also prevented me from doing other chores sometimes and I even get scolded by my hubby. That's is why today, I often hold my phone. I was able to get proper sleep without worrying that if I will wake up suddenly my head will hurt a lot.
Before when I started joining noise. cash I posted several times a day but as of today I only posted twice a day. I also decided to just post an article once or twice a week here so I can have more time to let myself rest especially my eyes. On the last day, I just post one content in noise. cash because I was busy with lots of chores and I'm happy that I get myself so busy with works than to be with my phone. I also had the chance to change the ambiance in the house, rearrange the things inside the room and my hubby was also happy for the changes we had at home.
What did I do to limit myself in using *my* cellphone?
***Keeping myself busy with household works**
*As I practice myself not to be addicted to my phone, the first thing I did is to keep myself busy with many works like washing clothes. Before I washed the clothes the morning only but today as long as there are unwashed clothes I immediately washed them so I don't have any problem with it and it is one effective way so I can forget my phone from checking it from time to time. I also had to do some general cleaning inside and outside the house. For this week I already did general cleaning twice.*
***Spending more time with my kids**
*Spending with them is more memorable than being with my phone. Last week when all of them get sick, I was not checking my phone frequently since my priority will always be their health and safety. If ever I will use my phone it's when we all watched some movies not for myself alone.*
*****Cleaning in the garden**
*I always had a time cleaning the garden but today I spent almost two hours cleaning there than my usual routines and purposely did it because the weeds are growing too fast and if I won't spend much time there, it would be dirtier. The last time I cleaned, I saw two snakes hiding under the small grass and I was afraid that if ever my children will play in there, they will be bitten so I decided to always make time to clean every day. Last day, my husband was helping me cleaning there and again he saw another poisonous snake that was much longer than what I've seen so he told me to clean it always.*
***Habits are not*** easy to kill especially if you are already addicted to them but things will be possible if you really wanted to make a change in yourself and always remind yourself why you will do it. Change our old bad habits to prevent them from getting worse. It was not easy to deal with at first but later on, we will be gonna use to it.
Thanks for reading my article again,
Don't trust others easily
Are you a person who easily trusts someone or others who became part of your life?
Trust is very important nowadays but it always takes time to gain or give the trust that someone wants. Seeing people at first sight or glance doesn't guarantee that they are good or bad. Hearing other stories of a particular person doesn't give us a license to judge that she/he is bad because in every story there are always two versions of it.
As I matured, I learned not to trust someone easily because I have learned from what I've experienced before. When I was in my teenage years, I got easily swayed by others. I'm too kind that's what others say. I even smiled at strangers even if they don't know me but things change as I get older.
But let me tell you one thing about myself when it comes to people I met today. I have always had this feeling whenever I see someone I can feel their aura. Sometimes I can't feel them, you know that feeling "na parang di mo sya feel or parang may na sense ka sa kanya na something." I'm not judging them at first glance but I just feel it if they can be trusted or not. This was I told my hubby about the people who came to our house and mostly what I think of them is true. So they are the reason why we became stressed this day.
At home, there were always many people who came by to talk to my hubby because of his line of work. My hubby does construction and electrical works.
I meet "Bawe' who only came to us if he doesn't have work and he will ask hubby if he has any extra work for him. It was okay for me at first but when my hubby gives him work to do, he forgot to thank him for giving it to him and he just disappeared after. Last week I was surprised to see him again and asked if where my hubby was and he also told me that he wanted to have worked this day. I told my hubby about this and in the evening he texted my hubby that he will borrow money because he doesn't have any at the moment. I told my hubby not to give in to his excuses. He just remembers him when he had nothing. It's good to be kind but not all the time. Learn to choose whom to help because not all are worth helping.
Another one that happened just recently. My hubby gives proper salary to his workmates but one man doesn't treat him properly. He even threat my hubby that if ever hubby will not increase his salary he will not go back to work. I was pissed when I heard this. He already gets his full salary for this month even if the work was not done yet. What is worst was that he didn't work properly but then he wanted to increase his pay. Whoah, what a life this is. Hubby treated them as friends but look what they do. They only need him because of money. So sad!
***Thank you to my three sponsors, those who always leave a comment on my post, and to all upvoters every time I published an article. Thank you guys for being there from the first day til now.***
There are so many users nowadays just to have money or the thing they want. That is why I always told my hubby not to trust easily and not to be too kind to others.
Gaining and giving trust to someone takes a lot of time. Don't ask for it, work hard to achieve it. Not all things that we want will be given easily, sometimes it needs a lot of effort to do so. Don't just say that you want it, find a way to have it but in a good way.
Thanks for reading.
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Heartfelt Gratitude
Hello guys! I'm back!!!Sorry for not being here in the past days. I have been so busy with my little ones. My kids got sick and I needed to prioritize them so they will be okay. As of today, Adam, Aeron and Alexandrea are little okay, no more fever but cough only. Alexander was still having a slight fever with cough and runny nose and hoping in the next days they will be totally okay.
Another reason that I wasn't able to be back was because I was so busy with the school requirements for my kids. The enrollment started last August 13. It took two days to finish those. On Sunday morning we were given the list of what to bring to school for the enrollment and in the afternoon I completed those like photocopying the birth certificates of my kids, I take photo of them to have a 2x2 ID photo and I also bought an index card where I wrote all the important information of my kids and attached the 2x2 ID photo on it. On Monday, I went to school and fill up the given form and I also attached to it the photocopy of their birth certificates.
I decided to be here today because I was not so busy unlike the other days. I was happy to be back here and read some articles. I decided to write this article after I saw two notifications that caught my attention and here it is.
After scrolling down the first and second batch of notifications this is what I see. I was surprised because I wasn't expecting this. I thought I haven't reach this far but after seeing this in my notifications I was really happy. This is one of my achievements here in read.cash after having sponsorships. I was grateful enough to all users who have stumbled upon my articles. Thank you so much guys for your love and support. This was really great.
Another thing to be grateful for today. I wasn't expecting this too because I wasn't active for the past days and I somehow think that I will not receive another payment of sponsorship but seeing this on my notifications give me some inspiration to continue my journey here. Thank you so much @Marinov for this. This might be small to others but for me this is already a big thing. You were one of the reasons why I enjoyed being here and you were also the one who taught me about this sponsorship thing. Many thanks to you from the fisrt day that I have known you til now.
Their special day
I was grateful to God for giving these little ones another year of life to live. We didn't prepare foods or any birthday stuffs on this special day of theirs because we are short on budget. We agreed not to celebrate it because we prefer to save the money because the kids are still not totally okay and as of this time we need to be more practical because life on these days are so tough. Even if we didn't have the chance to celebrate it,we didn't forget to greet them on the morning as they woke up. We also explained to them why we won't celebrate it and I was so thankful that they understand our situation.
I will end it here! Thank you so much guys for giving time on my article.
God bless and keep safe as well!
©LHES
Hello good evening guys.
I will be away for how many days because my kids are sick and I needed to prioritize them first.
Keep safe always everyone!
God Never Leaves Us Alone in Times of Trouble
Working away from my kids was not easy. There are so many sacrifices to be made and many struggles too.
I'm writing this article to share my unforgettable experience with the father of my boss. I hope it was just a dream but it wasn't. I thought I would see it in movies only but it happened to me.
It was on December 2017 that I started working far away from my kids. I haven't had any choice but to accept the work that my sister-in-law offered that time. I hesitated at first because I'm worried who will take care of my kids but my in-laws promised me that they will be the one to take care of them.
On my first four months, it was okay because my bosses are so good in treating me. I got some good memories with them. During March 2018, this was the graduation of my twins in day care center and Aeron's graduation in kindergarten. I went home that time to attend their graduation. When I went home, I was surprised by the situation of my kids. I was so worried why my kids became too skinny and at the same time Adam had so many scars all over his body. My neighbor told me abouty kids situation and I'm too sad to hear all those. A week after their graduation, I went back to my work having many worries inside.
On my fifth month of stay in my boss house, his father came home from Manila. I respected him because he was once a DFA director in Cagayan de Oro. I expected too much from him especially in terms of professionalism but things change when he started making moves in me as if he has no family at all. I tried my best to avoid him but there were times that I can see him because we are on the same house. I would be relieve if he went to Manila for a week because I can move in the house freely.
One time when we are in the living room, he came home by surprised. We didn't expect him to be home early and his children immediately went to their room as if they studied so I and his one grandchildren were left sitting on the sofa. I was glued on my seat and he approached me asking how am I doing at the moment. I answered him with politeness but I was shocked when he told me to enter in his room when his children were asleep. I was so nervous that time. Before I had my own room but that time I haven't had one because my boss's brother-in-law was the one occupying it that time. So I just stayed in the living room with his children who were all girls.
It was midnight, all people are asleep. I was in between May and Anna. I was almost asleep that time when I suddenly felt someone staring at me. I already had an idea who was it. He slowly kick my feet but I pretended to be asleep. I didn't respond to his actions so he walked to the other side where my head was resting. He caressed my hair and even hold my hand. I didn't get back my hand because I really pretended to be asleep. I prayed many times that he will stop bothering me that night and thanks God that he stopped. I feel asleep with blanket covering all over my body. Even if it was so hot that time but I endured just to make sure that he won't touch me again.
Morning came, I wake up so early that time because I'm planning to tell my lady boss about what happened to me. When I went upstairs I saw him going out of his room and it's too late to avoid because he saw me already. He then walked to me and asked me why I didn't enter his room last night but I didn't answer him instead I excuse myself.
After our breakfast, I still didn't have the chance to tell my lady boss because she said that we will visit their relatives so I postponed my plan. After our agenda that time I called my sister-in-law to come to my lady boss' house so we can talk. I told them what happened. They decided to take a cottage for me where I can stay after my work but my boss didn't do what they have decided. I still stayed with them in the same house. Everytime I saw that old man I got nervous and at the same time I got panicked. I really wanted to go home but I can't because I still have debt to my boss. On August 19,2018 , this was one of the happiest moment of my life. I finally had the chance to went home. I'm really super happy that time because I'm finally free from that house.
Few people only knew about what I have been through. Moving on was not easy but I'm thankful that God gave me strength to overcome those fear I have. God is so good that He never leave me when I'm in trouble. He protect me from those evil ones and give me strength to fight those unseen battles. Indeed, God will always be there for us in every minute of our life.
©LHES
My Little Adam
Hello everyone! How are you all doing today? Today is Saturday, 14th of August and my morning is great. Our morning is so cold because it rained last night. I wake up at 2 AM because of the strong wind blowing plus it's raining hard. I really prayed that time that it won't last for how many hours because if it will the water will get inside in our house and I'm really grateful that my prayer was answered. It stopped at around 3 AM and that was the time that I sleep again.
I can't think of any topic today so today I just wanted to talk about our little cutie at home. How our little Adam makes us laugh and smile everytime.
This is our Adam when he was 4 months old. He always had this smile on his face everytime we played him. I remember when he was almost 2 years old, the dog of our neighbor bite him in his face. After the dog bite him, we immediately washed the wound and rushed him in the nearest clinic but sad to say they don't have anti-rabies injection and they refer us to a hospital instead. We didn't waste time, we went to the hospital and we are grateful that the injection for anti-rabies were free. On our first day of appointment, Adam was injected twice in his arm and twice in his legs. The nurse admired him because he didn't cry instead he just look at the needle piercing in his skin. That was how brave he was when he was young but today he is afraid of needles.
This photo was taken when he was 4 years old. This was after we bought some clothes for them. I bought a mickey mouse jacket and pajama for him because he really likes Mickey that much. His sister had Mickey mouse jacket too and he always borrowed it whenever his sister didn't wear it. This picture was still on my gallery because I like how happy and cute they are on this picture. Though there were times that they quarreled each other but I'm happy to see how they defend each other from those bully kids outside.
As Adam grows up, he become more clingy and sweet. When he wakes up on the morning and he didn't see me beside him, he called me and ask me to cuddle him. He planted kisses on my face and said I Love you always. I always happy how vocal Adam was. Everytime I'm sad he never failed to put smile on my face. We are so blessed and grateful to have this sweet little boy with us.
Sometimes we scolded him because of too much naughtiness but after scolding him, he would approach and hug us then our anger melt away. He had his ways so we won't be angry with him for a long time and I also can't resist his cuteness and sweetness.
My kids had a special place in my heart, without them in my life it won't be this colorful and amazing. Others said that having kids is a burden to them but for me it was a nice feeling because I felt honored and blessed because not all got the chance to bear a baby. It's so sad to see babies that are thrown everywhere as if it is a garbage. It pains my heart seeing them. I may became a mother at a young age but never in my life I did think to throw or give my kids away. I tried working away from them before but as time pass by I miss them more. Many would say that they get used to it if they were away for a long time but mine was opposite, I keep missing them everyday and at night I would cry and think if they were okay or not or did they eat on time. That was always on my mind because since they were small I always see to it that I'm the one who attended to their needs. I don't depend on other people even if we are many in the house. What I have always in mind is that it's my responsibility to take good care of my kids not the people around.
That ends here, thanks for reading!
-LHES
What Kind of Mother do I am
Being a mother is not easy but as long as we accept it fully, we felt like we are so lucky because not all got the chance to become one. As a mother it's my responsibility to make my children safe and happy at the same time though there were times that I got mad because of the naughtiness of my little ones. I'm worried when they got sick and I felt happy when they are happy too.
What kind of Mother do I am?
I someone whom they can trust on
I want them to know that I will always be their for them no matter what happens. I want to be someone that they can lean on and tell whatever problems they had.
There's one time when Xander got a wound when he played outside. I was doing some laundry that time and I called Xander so he can took a bath and I can wash his clothes too. After many times of convincing him to take a bath, I was confused why he suddenly cried and I just ignored it. I don't mind anymore if he takes a bath or not.
While I was putting Adam to sleep, I wonder why Xander can't walk properly. I watch him and saw that there were blood stains on his pants and asked him what happen to him. I started panicking because he didn't answer me at first but I ask him the second time and he cried saying that he have a wound. I let him take off his pants and I saw the wound that was almost on his private part. I was so worried about it. I again ask him why he didn't told me about it and he answered that I might get mad at him. And so after hearing his answer I told him that no matter what happen he must told me or worst things might happen and he nodded.
On the second time that he got wounded because he accidentally hit a metal, he rush directly to me saying that he got wounded again and I immediately treat his wounds. I felt relieved that he listened to what I said to him last time.
**I am someone who will not tolerate bad doings**
Mothers are the first teacher of their children. The behaviour and attitude of a child reflects what we are at home. If we want our children to be a good when they grow up, teach them well when they were young. Never tolerate whatever wrongs they made.
I scolded them when they did wrong but after that I explained to them what is the reason why they are scolded. I also told them not to follow or imitate those bad doings that they see around.
I am someone who can be with them in their crazy moments and I can be a clown sometimes just to make them happy
Even if sometimes I am too busy but I always see to it that I can have time with them. I even play with them because they don't have other playmates. I don't let them be with other kids outside because they will be bullied.
Sometimes they also want me to tell stories. I was so serious at first in narrating the story but at the end of the story I made some crazy jokes and we will all laugh.
I'm a strict mom
I am strict when it comes to their studies. I always see to it that they are focus when they are studying, they must know what a student must be like.
I am also strict when their things. I want them to be responsible enough especially with their personal things. Even with their toys I always told them that after playing they need to keep it so the house will not be messy.
I am strict but I always make sure to shower them with love and care. I sometimes got scolded them but I always let them feel that no matter what happens I still love and accept them for who they are.
We mothers got mad and stress sometimes but seeing those beautiful smile of our children, our anger will be gone. I am blessed with four naughty yet sweet children and I'm always proud to have them in my life.
That's the end for today's article. Thanks for reading. Thanks also to my upvoters, sponsors and to all who comment on my post, I'm blessed and happy to be here with you all.
-LHES
If I were a mythical magic user, what would I want to be?
Hello everyone. It's 10th of August already. I decided to write an article today because I was inspired by the story that I am currently reading. It's a fictional story and I was amazed by how the author make this story so captivating. As a matter of fact, I spend a small amount of money to unlock the chapters and it is my first time doing it because usually I just wait for the log in bonus everyday. Since the story were so nice, there are times that I can't wait for another day to unlock the chapters.
So let's get back to the title. If I were a mythical magic user, what would I want to be? There are so many ideas I have in mind who I want to be but I will only write the top four.
Necromancer- ***a person who can bring back someone from death***
It's the first one that I think of. If I have this kind of magic, the first one that I will bring back to life is my mother. I wanted to be with her and create memories together.
The second one that I want to bring back from death were my two step brothers "Jandie and Francis". Jandie was 2 days old when he died. He was not able to see how wonderful this world to live. If he was alive today, I guess he was 23 years old already.
Francis was a sweet child. I was with him for a couple of days only when I have a vacation. I was studying away from my family during high school days so I wasn't able to spend time with him. I was so sad to know that he has a heart disease and at the same I pitied him because at the very young age he had that sickness already. I went back to school after my two weeks vacation but after two months I received a letter saying that he died already. I didn't attended his funeral that time because when the letter was given to me, it was late already. I read it after a week of sending it.
Healer
I wanted to have this magic to heal the innocent ones who become the victim of the cruelty in this world, like in wars and from those bad ones.
Second reason is to heal the heart of my grandmother. There were times that she can't hardly breathe if the pain in her chest occurs. I dont want her to feel that kind of pain because I saw how difficult for her to endure the pain until it was gone.
**Water Magic**
This kind of magic was also on my mind. I ask my children the same question on what magic they want to have. My daughter answered that she want this kind of magic and I ask her why. She told me that whenever there are fire burning the houses, she can help to put out the fire and I agree with her and that was the reason I think of.
Teleportation magic
I watch many videos before about this teleportation magic and I like to have this kind of magic so I can travel to some place I like.
And I think about this pandemic times, if I have this kind of ability surely I can be with my family this days without any hassle.
That are the top four magic that I want. How about yours if you had given a chance to have that super powers what you want to be?
Just comment and let me know.
Again and again, before I end this article of mine I wanted to say a million thanks to my upvoters who never get tired in sharing their blessings and to my lovely sponsors who inspired me to get going.
Thanks for reading my short article,
LHES
My Grandmother is the Most Wonderful Woman I know
Hello beautiful ones! How are you all doing today? I wasn't able to publish an article in the past few days because of some things that happened to us unexpectedly and because of this my mind was affected. I told myself not to be affected by this happenings but I can't control my emotions towards it. I don't know what to do at that time and I am little confused on what's the right thing to do. If you'll ask if I'm okay todat, I wasn't totally fine but I'm trying to be okay. But don't you worry, life must go on. I will keep fighting as long as I live.
**Last August 6 was my grandmother's birthday. My father did a conference call early in the morning so we could greet my grandmother. We had a little conversation that time and had to stop after because I have so many things to do but I'm happy that I was able to greet my grandmother early in the morning. I was thankful to God for giving my grandmother another years to live and I'm praying that He will still give my grandmother many years to live so we can have time to show how much we love her.**
We called my grandmother as nanay. I treat her as my second mother since she was the one who took care of us when we were young. I love her so much and I really miss her too but I can't go home to our hometown today because we are low on budget but hopefully next year we can be with her and I can still have the chance to take care of her.
Ever since I was young, my grandmother was always the one who are by our side since my father worked in the city. She took care of us and showed to us how she really love us. At early age she taught us to do some chores at home and she let us helped in our farm. She disciplined us when we made mistakes too.
**My most unforgettable experience was when I studied in elementary. She was so proud of my achievements especially that I was always on the honor list. On my 4th grade, so many good things happened. I joined quiz bees and my grandmother would always made sure that I have some pocket money with me so I can buy snacks. She would sell some bananas or sometimes she would borrow from her niece. That's how supportive she was.**
But I disappointed her when I was 18 years old. She expected too much from me but I wasn't become the woman she wanted me to be because of what happened to me. I was living with my father in the city and that time I was pregnant. It wasn't planned of course but even if that's the case I didn't have planned to abort it. I experience many hurtful words from other people that time but I ignored all those but when I was on my 5th month of pregnancy my grandmother came and visit my father in the city. When she went inside the house, she ignored me. I thought she was just tired from the long ride but I was mistaken. My grandmother was so angry to me and she said many things to me like she was expecting me to be the one who could give them a better life but look what I did. I let someone got pregnant at a young age and that someone ghosted me after. That was the truth. I was a single mom that time but I'm still thankful that I have my family who supported me all throughout that pregnancy. After those crying moments because I was scolded my the one woman whom I really love the most, she hugged me tight and said sorry and I also apologized to her. After the reconciliation, I'm happy that we were okay already because I can't bear staying in that house when my grandmother was still mad at me. That was how understanding she was and I'm happy that I have an amazing grandmother who love us unconditionally.
To my Nanay,
*I love you nanay. I greeted you on your birthday* ***but I know you want us to be there to celebrate that special day of yours but we still can't travel and go home as of now. Hoping you are happy today.***
***I miss you so much. I'm so glad to see and witness you growing old. I just wanted you to know that I am so much proud to have you in my life.***
***I still remember when I was young, you always combed my hair, took me wherever you went and you made sure we were healthy always. We are not born with so much wealth but you fill us with love, reprimand us when we make mistakes and most of all you support us in our studies. I'm always thankful to you nanay and I will always love you.***
***Hoping by the next years we can go home and I will make it up to you. Let's create another good memories together.***
To those who have grandparents with them, treasure them before it's too late. Show to them that they really mean so much to you.
Before I close this article, I wanted to thank again to my lovely sponsors and to my upvoters. Thank you so much and I apologize for not being with you in past few days.
Thanks for reading,
-LHES
Hello guys, how are you doing today?
I am inactive in these days because I have some important matters to do and hoping I will be back sooner after I will finish all those.
Happy sunday and keep safe everyone!
We Had a Great Day Today
August 5, 2021
Hello everyone. How are you all doing today? Today I will be sharing how we spent our day.
Yesterday my hubby had his salary and he gave me 1000 pesos to buy some needs at home. This morning I decided to went out to go to the grocery store. Every time I went out I must have someone who will accompany me as what my hubby had told me always so today I have my two little bodyguards with me.
As we went out, we already feel the hotness of the sun. As you can see on the picture, the sun was shining so bright even if it is still 9 in the morning. I brought Adam and Xander with me and even if the sun is burning hot they still enjoy walking down the road. They were chasing and laughing at the same time. Usually when I went out, I brought Xandra and Adam with me but this time I decided to let Xander accompany us this time. He was so happy after how many weeks ft he was able to went out and enjoy the view around. I can see in his eyes how happy he was.
While we were walking on the road, we saw this cow eating the grasses. We stopped by to take a photo of him and while I was holding my phone to take a click on him, he stopped eating as if he had already the clue on what should we do. I hurriedly took a photo of him while he was still standing steadily. What a cooperative cow.😊
As we were on our half way to the grocery store, I take a photo of this scenery. What I like in this place is the wide greenery surroundings. I take a photo of this place many times before. There are many yellow flowers blooming around. It's like a little sunflower but many would say that it is a wild flower because it grows everywhere in this area. Before pandemic many student from the university went here to take a photo and they sometimes spend their free time in this place but today the place is so lonely. We can't see many people roaming around but I'm hoping that someday this pandemic ends.
The last time that I passed in this area, the corns just sprouted from the soil but today it was full grown already. After how many weeks it will be ready to be harvest.
In less than five minutes we reached the grocery store and I bought only what were essentials at home like laundry soap, shampoo, milk for my little ones and school supplies so I can teach Adam to write his name. This year, Adam will study in the kindergarten so he must know how to read and write his full name.
Before we went home, I bought my favorite bread so we have something to eat during our snack time. I also bought fried chicken for the kids because they requested for it.
And after doing all those we went home because I still have to wash the unclean clothes and most especially the clothes that my hubby used. And at the afternoon, we spent it napping.
While writing this I cook food for our dinner.
And before I end this, I wanted to say thank you to @JustMyRambles01 and @zolabundance2pvoting my last article and so too with my sponsors.
Thanks for reading and have a good day and night to all of you.
-LHES
Sad and Painful Experience
August 3, 2021
**Be kind to all but never trust them all**
I'm writing this article based on what my hubby had been through this past few days. I just wanted to share this experience of him.
Have you been in a situation where you felt that you are alone and feels like you have no one to trust? Have you been betrayed by the person whom you treat as a friend?
This is what my hubby had experience. Whenever he went home, I saw in his face that he was stress and at the same time worried. Sometimes I caught him with blank expression. There were times that I called him many times already but he did not respond to it because he was having a deep thought. I felt pity for him. I am not in his situation but I know what it feels like to be betrayed because I experience that many times too. All I can do for him at that very moment is to be there for him no matter what and listened to whatever he says.
**Some people are too good on giving advices but can't hardly applied it on themselves.**
This line is so true. My hubby always tells me not to easily trust peole around me but look where his kindness brought him today. He had a friend named Boy. Boy was his long time close friend but now became his ex-friend. There were so close that some would think that they were brothers but things change when boy met new friends. His friends are ML addict player and worst thing is that they were using an illegal drugs. Just last Saturday, their friendship ends because of money. Boy sell something to my hubby and they both agreed on how much would it cost but on the last minute he change his mind and he wanted to change the price higher on what they agreed. My partner says that they already had agreement, so they must follow it but Boy really insist on making the price higher and my partner disagreed on it. It's so sad that their friendship ends. I remember how many times my hubby help him but I think he didn't appreciate all those.
Another one is Damien. Damien was a new friend that my hubby met when he worked far away from us. Damien has already a family and one time, he approached my hubby saying that he wanted his help financially. What my hubby did is that he let Damien accompany him to his work so he can earned money too but he didn't work hard there and hubby got angry because of his attitude towards work. Who wouldn't be, he was being paid properly but his too lazy to work. What I have in mind is that Damien only approach him to have money but not really because of wanting to have a work.
`Some people nowadays are too pretentious. Pretending to be your friend but the truth is they only want something from you.`
****Beware of this kind of people:****
Leech type of person
***This type of a person is someone who will stick to you as long they can get a benefit from you but when time comes that they don't need you anymore, they will leave you behind.***
***Have you had a friend like this?***
Snake type of person
***This type is so dangerous. They will make friends with you, gain your trust and later on they will betray you. Always keep in mind, never show your weaknesses to others, they might used it against you. No matter how kind you are and how approachable you are, this type of people will still betray you.***
***It's so sad to know that I have been a victim of this type of person. I am someone who easily trust others that is why I always became a target of them. My hubby always scolded me for being kind even to strangers but as of today I already learned. I have friends but I don't totally trust them.***
**Chameleon type of person**
***This type of people are so good in front of you but when you turn your back, they say many bad things about. They are great pretenders. They pretend to be your friend at first but when things get worse they will deny you.***
*All of us have needs in life and want to be successful too. But always remember one thing, never ever use people to get what you want. You know why, there is always a consequences in everything you do. Karma is always waiving. It may not hit you today or tomorrow but someday you will have it. Sometimes you will not know that you are strike by it already because it slowly hit you. It's nice to have the life we want when it is from our own sweat and hardwork, not because of other people. It's just a plus that someone is there to help us getting the success we want.*
I haven't write an article for the last two days because I have so many things to do and even in noise.cash I posted two to three content only. I miss being here and hope that everyone is fine. Keep safe guys
Thanks for reading
-LHES
August: A Month that is Special to Me
Hello everyone. Happy BCH day!
It's first day of August. Time flies so fast and here we are again with another month of this year. But before I start this article I just want to say thank you to all who became part of my journey here on the month of July. Thank you so much guys for being there for me, for encouraging me to continue writing and inspiring me to do better. I can't have and reach what I have now if not because of your support. As of this day I already have 11 subscribers and 3 sponsors. Thanks @ARTicLEEfor making this day super blessed. I also thank God for guiding me always.
August is so special to me because I have lots of memories in this month and not only that I am also celebrating my 7th month in noise.cash today. I already have 2433 subscribers there. Wow, I didn't know that I will reach this so far. As I start earning on noise.cash, so many things happened and I'm glad that I am still here with everyone who supported me. There's a part of me that misses those old friends of mine but they are not active anymore but I hope they are all doing fine today.
If you have read my article "A letter for my Mother" you will have an idea why this month is considered as a special month to me. My Mama will be celebrating her birthday on this month. I love you Mama.
On the 6th of August, my grandmother who became my second mother will also be celebrating her 79th birthday. Though I can't celebrate it with her this time because I am still here in Mindanao. We planned to go home but this pandemic happened and we can't travel easily because we have kids with us, there are so many requirements needed before we can travel and most of all we are not financially stable this time. I'm hoping that next year we can go back to our hometown and be with them already.
August is the month when I officially became a mother. I gave birth to my eldest son on 2011 and to my twins on 2013. There are so many hardships that I have encountered on this month, many things changed, many adjustments happened but at the same time I felt happy too.
Being a mother taught me many lessons in life. I learned to priority my kids happiness rather than mine. I give up some things just to take care of my kids and I never regret those. I never knew what real sacrifices are until I become a mother. I never had so much patience before until I have my kids with me. I know I wasn't the best but I'll be always trying my best to give, provide and support my kids in every aspect.
Hoping that August will be a blessed month for everyone of us. I will not make this article long because I am planning to make an article about my grandmother and about my kids too.
Here are the list of the articles that I published in the previous month:
****My big wins in Life****
****How I spend my leisure time as a mom****
****My 6 months journey in noise.cash****
****The Hurtful Past that I let go****
****The three words "Who am I"****
****Unfair treatment from others****
****A letter for my Mother****
****Answered Prayer****
****What Kills Ones Dreams****
****Top Three books that I love****
****The world we live in****
****If not me, then Who?****
****High School Memories Never Fades****
****My Addictions in Life****
****BCH: The First Crypto that I earned****
That's all for now, thanks for reading this and have a blessed day to all
-LHES
BCH: The First Crypto that I earned
**Crypto world is new to me. I have read lots of post on Facebook about cryptocurrencies and seeing people being successful on earning online through cryptos got me curious on how did they do it so I decided to make a try on it.**
Last 2019, I asked my sister to make an online wallet for me because I wanted to earn extra income online but the problem is that I don't have valid ID so I just asked my sister to open one for me. I also followed many Facebook pages that posted many legit sites about those cryptos. That time when I first started making money online, I only know Bitcoin, BCH, xrp and ethereum. I am not familiar with those other crypto.
Last April 2019, this was the month that I started earning some crypto and the first payout that I have receive was BCH. It was a telegram bot that pays you by visiting sites, messaging bot and joining telegram group. There minimum payout that time is 10000 satoshis and as far as I remember the price of 1 BCH was 50 000 pesos plus. My goal that time is to earn more BCH but it take me many months before I can reach 400 to 500 pesos.
As a desperate mom, I tried joining many sites that I saw on Facebook but some of those are scam sites. I did download many application that pays BCH but sad to say there were times that I can't even have a payout in a week because my satoshis did not reach the minimum payout. But I didn't stop, I still continue earning.
Last December I was so sad because my memory card was damaged and my earning applications that were all saved there were gone too. But God is good, on January 1 "New Year" I happened to see a post on Facebook about noise.cash and I was so happy to earn BCH again. I immediately make an account and work it out. Noise.cash is a great blessing for me. It help me many times already and I'm so grateful to have stumbled on the post on Facebook. Later on, I also am happy because the old sites that I joined like coinpayu and 2captcha were also having BCH as their mode of payout.
On my 2nd month in noise.cash, I have read some post about read.cash telling that it was one of the successful platform that pays BCH. At first I just ignored it because I don't know how it works.
Why did I joined read.cash?
***Joining read.cash is out of curiosity at first because I always saw post in noise.cash about it. I have made an account last three months ago but I haven't work it out. On my 5th month in noise.cash, I saw again a post from one of the successful user here that earned 2BCH that time and I told to myself why not work my account out. I open my account after two months of abandoning it and made a introductory post but it was rejected in the community where I submitted it but I didn't stop. I deleted it and made a new one and luckily after a month of being an active user I got two sponsors. I'm really grateful to this two platforms that give us the chance to earn some BCH.***
***I am not really good at writing stuffs like this but I'm trying my best to learn from experts. I am not expecting someone to upvote my works but I am so grateful to those people who continue inspiring me in their own little way.***
`If I would sum up all my earnings from the very first day that I joined noise.cash up to now, then I would have 1 BCH in my wallet. But I can't hold my earnings for long because I have to cash it out especially when we are out of budget already. Inspite of not holding it, I'm still proud of myself that I am reaching that amount.`
That ends here. Thanks for reading!
-LHES
My Addictions in Life
Good day everyone! It's been two days that I haven't published an article because of my busy schedule at home. And today I decided to make this article and hopefully you will enjoy reading this.
***Everyone of us has our own addiction in life. It may be things or activities that we really give time into it and we can't give up it easily because it is already part of our life. Addiction can be harmful to us but we should also know how to control it.***
Here are some addictions that I have in my life that I been doing since my teens up to now
Reading stories
***When I was in elementary I saw one of my teacher reading a pocket book during her free time. I was really curious why she was there on her table reading that thing while her co-teachers are on the principal's office having a conversation. On my teenage years I saw my sister having those stuffs and one time I borrowed it and read. After reading one story, the question I have on my mind why my teacher prefers to read was answered already. Reading is fun and it can excite me, can let me cry and can make me happy too. Pocket books were my addiction before since there are no mobile phones that time and today there are lots of modern technology, mobile phones are so common nowadays and there are already many apps where we can read different stories.***
***I installed two applications where I can read free stories. Wattpad and Dreame are already part of my every day life. I always give time to check the stories that I really like and if there's an update I will read it.***
***I also followed some Facebook page where some underrated authors are posting their works and reading those masterpiece of them completes my day.***
Mobile Game
***Mobile games are so popular nowadays like Mobile legends, Clash of Clans, Tongits Go and so much more. Even younger generations are addicted to this. My nephew who was just graduated in elementary was also playing mobile game "Mobile Legends". This addiction of him affects his study. When he was on the lower level, he was on honor list and even got some special awards but since he started having phone with him, he got low grades at school.***
***I also am addicted on one game and that is Tongits Go but I only played it when I have no works to do. I usually played it during night time especially when I'm on my bed already. When I was young, my siblings, my cousins and I were playing cards too. On this modern times, especially today that I haven't had the chance to be back on our hometown and be with them because of this pandemic, I only played cards on my phone and I am really addicted to it but I also know my limitations to it.***
Movie series and Korean Dramas
***Many women are fond of Korean dramas and I'm one of them. I remember last 2016 "The Descendants of the Sun" was so popular. My sister-in-law and I spend most of our time watching it. Not only that, I also watched several K-Dramas before and I really love those. And today, there is an adaptation of a story on Wattpad and it was streamed on Iwant Tfc app. At first I don't have the planned to download that app because it consumed my phones storage but because of my addiction to the story I downloaded it to see the adaptation.***
`Addiction on some things are okay but we should also put limitations to it. Those activities can kill our time but before doing those we must do the important things first. We need to be extra careful too because mobile phones can harm us because of it's radiation.`
Before I end my article, I want to thank my two beautiful sponsors. I also wanna say thank you to my upvoters on my articles. God bless you all and have a good day!
Thanks for reading,
-LHES
High School Memories Never Fades
Hello everyone. How are you today? Hope everyone is doing fine today.
Before I start with my article I want to thank my new upvoter on the last article that I published @Eunoia thank you so much and I also to my new sponsor @Princessbusayo a million thanks to you.
My high school life is not the same with others that has JS proms and be with some of our classmates in elementary. I studied far away from my family and live in a dormitory. This was the very first time that I'm away with them.
****The Sisters of Mary School****
***This school is a private institution that helps those unfortunate children to study without spending any money. They offer scholarship tByo those students who excels during their elementary but before the students got the scholarship they needed to take the exam and if they pass, they will be sent here after their graduation in elementary. Those who passed don't need to bring clothes or any school supplies because this school provides all the students needs from personal and school supplies.***
April 17, 2006
*This was the day my grandmother and sister accompanied me to the school where I had to study, we rode a bus and it was a 3 to 4 hours travel to reach the school. When we arrive there, we are assisted by one of the students and brought us to the clinic for a Hepa Test and luckily I got a negative result. And by then, after getting the result we were sent to our respective dormitories. I was looking on the paper that I was holding and saw that my dorm was located at the fifth floor. We were assisted by a nun and when I reached our dorm I was introduced to our mother-sister. She was the nun assigned for us for a year and she asked me if I will rest or study. I answered her that I will study and so she brought me to the shower room and let me took a bath and gave me my uniform.*
Staying in dormitory with strangers makes me uncomfortable at first but as I got to know them, we made memories that we will never forget 'til now. Every dormitory have 45 to 46 student from different places like Cebu, Bohol, Negros, Leyte, Iloilo and somewhere in Mindanao. Each dorm have two helping sisters who are assign to guide us and they help the nuns to take care of us. This helping sisters are all graduating students.
**ONE DORMITORY=ONE FAMILY**
**Create memories that we will treasure for the rest of our lives**
**Outings**
`Obey the rules, perform the duty well, study well and you will be rewarded`
During our first year, our dormitory was one of the most clean dorm because we always made sure to clean and organize our things and because of that we are able to go out of the campus and have fun. We went to the **Dalaguete** and as far as I can remember it was a beach and we enjoyed there for the whole morning. We had lunch and the food we have at that time were **pancit bihon** and **fried** **chicken**. After having fun at the beach, we rode the bus again and head out to the city. While on the bus, we were given some chips to eat and sang a song. We are like little children, just enjoying the moment. Then we reach our another destination "**The Lapu-Lapu Shrine**". We were roaming around and after an hour we are called by our Mother Superior because we will be going home because it was late already.
Another outing that I remember was when I was included on the honor list. We went to the National bookstore and we were given ten pesos to buy what we want and I remember that I used my money to buy two roll of cartolina.
**Academic performance**
Being a scholar, we need to maintain our grades. We need to study hard and in order for us to became an honor student we must have an 85 grades in all subjects. I am a student who doesn't like to memorize some stuffs and the subject that I dislike is Araling Panlipunan especially those history part. When we have quizzes, I just relied on those words that I remember and as a result I failed or sometimes I just got the passing score but when quarterly exams came I made sure that I got high scores so my grades won't be a failing one. During my first year, I was not that very competitive but I was recognize by our Mother sister because I was behave and an obedient student this time and I got an award "**BEST IN RELIGION**". On my third year, this was a blessed year for me. I was included on top 10 and I am so happy because I was also included in the honor list. I also got the chance to compete in quiz bees that was held in The sisters of Mary School boystown that was located in Minglanilla.
Weekdays
Every morning, when the bell rings we should immediately get up and go to the dining to do our morning prayer and after that we will take a bath. During Wednesday and Sunday morning we usually take a bath for 2 to 3 minutes only because we needed to go to the gym for the mass and no one should be late or else we will be receiving a punishment. Our breakfast everyday will be **bread** with spread like mayonnaise, margarine or peanut butter, then we also have our drinks like **coffee**, **Milo** or **fresh** **milk**, sometimes we also had **oatmeal** and **boiled egg** plus **banana**. Week days are spent mostly on our studies and we don't have much free time on these days.
Weekends
On Saturday we are having class in the morning and in the afternoon, it's up to our mother-sister what are schedule was. It's either we will clean the garden or wash our school uniforms.
On Sundays after having mass, we went back to our dormitories and have our breakfast them clean our area. At 8 in the morning, we should all go down to have a jogging around the oval and then do some aerobics after. After all those we will have our free time.
On Sunday afternoon, we spent it doing a general cleaning. Cleaning the shower room, Comfort room, corridors, bedroom, dining and fixing our clothes in the closet.
Disobedience
Obeying is a must in our school but sometimes we can't avoid it especially during my last year in school.
There was one close dormmate of mine who chose cooking as her course in TESDA. One day, there were making a carrot cake and they were given two slices of it as their share. Sleeping time came, no noise should be made and no one was allowed to eat too. As I was lying on my bed, my close friend whispered to me, "I have a carrot cake, we will eat this". Without any hesitation and without being afraid that our mother sister might caught us, we ate and finishes it all. Successful disobedience LOL.
Another time when we have our AutoCad subject. That subject was our last subject in the afternoon, we went to the computer lab to finished the 3D house we made from previous days. The computer lab has an internet connection and when our teacher leave and the student teacher was the only one assigned to us, we asked him to open the internet connection and as a kind student teacher he open it. That was the time that I made a friendster and I was able to chat my cousins and brother but we are also careful not to be caught my our principal.
Punishment
Punishment for being unorganized and for not performing the given task.
During our ROTC, we have our drill that time and every platoon should cooperate and do the what the platoon leader instruct to her members. We belong to the Bravo company but other members were not serious with that drill and as a result we are scolded by our ROTC teacher and what was worst, we clean and brushed the basketball court even if the sun was shining so bright.
One time, we are told by our mother-sister to clean and organized our dorm but what we did was just talking and making noise. When our mother-sister went to check on us, we were scolded because of disobeying and she let us put our slippers as our necklace and told us to go down barefooted and stay at the basketball court where all families can see us. We were ashamed and at the same time having fun as well.
Film showings
This was the most awaited times to relax our mind from studies. We usually have our film showing during Saturdays and Sundays nights and it last for 2 hours only. We can also watched after our periodical exams. The most favorite movie that I have watch is Eragon and we also watched Korean dramas like Jumong (this was my favorite drama too), Jewel in palace and Hello my Lady.
Sports
I am not fond of sports but all are required to play in our school. I have tried playing basketball with the nuns as our opponent but something happened. My ring finger was injured while I was trying to catch the ball.
I also tried playing volleyball but then again it seems that the ball doesn't like me, LOL. As I was trying to pass the ball, it was supposed to be pass to the opponent but the ball that I hit landed on the face of my team mate. That was embarrassing, I said sorry to her many times even if she said it was okay because it's part of the game.
Celebrations
August 15 is the foundation day of our school. We spend this day playing games, eating and having some fun with other students. This day, we are all celebrating our birthday. We receive some gifts from our mother-sister. The gifts are some chocolates, big Mr. Chips or Chippy, undergarments, T-shirt and candies.
**Visiting day**
Visiting day only happens once a year and it will be held on the first Sunday of September. It is the time when we are visited by our love ones.
My first year visitor- *my grandmother and my brother***. My brother just got home from Manila and I'm so happy to see him again because when I went here at our school I haven't had the chance to see him because that time he was already in Bulacan.**
My second year visitor- ***my sister and my grandmother.***
My third year visitor- *my grandmother and my step-mom***. I was expecting my father to visit me but he hasn't come because he has fever that time but I'm still thankful that I have my visitor because other student haven't got any visitor.**
My fourth year and last year here in the school- *my grandmother, my brother and his live-in partner visited me.* **They brought roasted chicken but when we are about to eat the chicken fall to the ground.Lol**
To our mother-sisters:
It's nice to see you all smiling in this picture. I'm so glad that I became part of your lives. Thank you for guiding us through out our stay in the school. Thank you for teaching us some values that we can treasure for the rest of our lives. Thank you for being our mothers who supported us in our everyday lives, comfort us when things go down, encourage us to be better, scolded us when we made mistakes and most of all thank you for always putting a smile on our faces.
I will never forget all of you and those memories that we made will be treasured and cherished forever.
Time flies so fast, it is as if I was graduated yesterday. All the memories that we've made are still fresh on our mind. I wanted to visit there and bring my children to let them see how beautiful and wonderful that school is, how you spread positivity to all and how you showed gratefulness in things you do.
You are forever our mother, teacher and bestfriend in our hearts.
I love you and I miss you.
I am Fr. Al's miracle
To our beloved Fr. Al,
Thank you so much for the opportunity you have shared to the less fortunate children and I'm happy that I'm one of those privileged ones. I'm forever grateful to you.
"The glory of God is manfully alive". This was the motto of the school. This means that we have to do our best in everything we do and develop our talents that the Lord has made to us.
Thanks for reading
-LHES
If Not Me, Then Who?
Hello everyone! I'm back again with a new article but before I start this let me thank my very first sponsor @Marinov . Thank you so much!!!
**People have limitations but it doesn't mean that we will limit ourselves from discovering things and exploring our life. Remember that we are born to create the life of our own.**
*In my life I have experienced being told so many hurtful words, insulted by others, others abused my kindness, I have stumbled many times but even so, I do not let those defeat myself. I fought and moved on for my life and my family.*
**If I drown myself in grief, who will help me? Nobody knows what I'm feeling inside. Nobody knows how deep my wounds are. Nobody knows what I'm battling inside. Nobody knows how terribly hurt I am. Only I myself knows what really happens to me and I'm the only one who can save myself from those silent battles I'm facing.**
**If I don't act now, who will do it for me? how can I improve my life? Creating and becoming my life better is up to me. I am the one who knows what I really want. I alone knows what I want it to be. If I want to be successful I need to work hard to achieve it. I need to act today and change myself for the better. No one can make myself better except me. No one can make my life better except me. No one can write my story better except me. If I won't act today nothing will happen to me and to my life because other people can't do it for me.**
**If I let those fear and negative thoughts control myself, will something happen? Letting fear and negative emotions enter my mind and heart will destroy myself. It will definitely grow and take over my life. Those negative feelings will never boast my confidence and it will surely make my self-esteem grow down. It will only cause failures on the things that I will do. Believing in myself is the key to control these negative emotions. Believing in myself when no one does. Believing that I can do better from what they expect me to be. Failure and rejection may happen along the way but those happenings are one way for me to improve myself for the better and it will lead me to another opportunity that awaits for me.**
**There were times that we are down by many, we are told some discouraging words saying that we don't have the talent or capabilities to do something in life or saying that we will fail in that aspect and sometimes they make any means to pull us down. If we let those words affect us, we will be defeated. Never ever let those words affect ourselves, believe that we can do it and we should prove to them that they are wrong with what they believe towards us. Others opinions don't matter because at the end of the day we only have ourselves with us, we only have ourselves when things go down, we only have ourselves when difficulties happened. We are the one who is running and ruling our life, don't let others take control of that. Life is meant to be created by us and it is up to us what we want it to be. Your life is your life, my life is my life and their life is theirs. Whatever happen to us, it depends on the decisions we made.**
Are you familiar with the movie "IT 2017"? It is a horror movie that will teach us something about fear. " *****We should face our fears and overcome it because if not we will be living our life with it*****."
****DECIDE, CREATE AND WORK HARD!****
`The most important things that one should do:`
Believe in yourself
**Even if others think that you can't, just ignore those. Always remember that if you believe in yourself all things will be possible**
Respect yourself
***You teach people how to treat you by deciding what you will and won't accept. Show to them that you are worthy to be respected.***
Value yourself/know your worth
***Don't waste your time proving your worth, if they don't recognize you for who you are then leave. You don't need to level yourself to other people as long as you know your value.***
***Be hard as a coin but choose your value as a bill***.
Love yourself
***Love yourself enough to set boundaries and limitations. Your time and energy are so precious. Never let them use you for their benefit. Never let them abuse you and never let them destroy yourself.***
Motivate yourself
***When no one is there for you, motivate yourself and be inspired to do better. Look on your past failures and rejections and learn from it.***
Before I end this I wanna say thank you once again to all my upvoters. I will never get tired of saying thank you to all of you. You always made my days happy and blessed.
Here are the list of the articles that I published in a month of being here.
My big wins in life
How I spend my leisure time as a Mom
My 6 Months journey in Noise.Cash
The Hurtful Past that I let go
The three words "Who am I"
Unfair treatment from others
A letter for my mother
Answered Prayer
What Kills Ones dreams
Top three books that I love
The world we live in
Thanks for reading and have a blessed day to all.
-LHES
Everytime I published an article, I wasn't expecting that someone would upvote my work
@Marinov thank you so much. You made my day so blessed and happy today.
The World We Live In
Hello beautiful people around the world. What's up? I'm so happy today because I'm an active user for a month already. I haven't made a post everyday but I always take time to read some articles from other users. And today I wanted to take this opportunity to thank the users who showed support in my one month journey here, @Lawa1988 , @Princessbusayo, @Pichi28 , @Cineholic , @Marinov and @Mictorrani . A million thanks to all of you and I really do appreciate it so much. God bless you more in life and have blessed Sunday!
*Our life is like a weather. Sometimes okay and sometimes not. There are many things that puzzled our mind and we are confused on what to do.*
Have you ever asked yourself if you are happy with what your life now. You know when I'm alone, sometimes I talk to myself. I asked this question too on myself and I would say that I'm happy with what I have today but sometimes it's unavoidable to be sad especially when there are too many problems that I face. There are things that happened unexpectedly and no one can control that. They say that even if we can't control the things that happened around us but we can still choose on how to react to it but sometimes when I'm in a difficult situation I can't control my emotions. No matter how much I tried to convince myself to be strong and be happy, there are still times when I cry because I’m hurt and tired. I'm just a person with some weaknesses inside.
**Problems are unstoppable and at times I wanted to forget this reality. I wanted to free myself from it for just a day and just be happy but I asked myself that if I would run away from this problem, will the problem be solved? The answer will always be no. So I have no other choice but to face it and think of ways to solve it.**
`Just plant it in our heart that life is really like this, full of problems, hardships and difficulties to test us on how far can we go and fight for it. Disappointments and doubt will disturb our mind but we should never let those defeat us. Don’t think that we are alone in this fight. Don't think that we alone have this dark times, others out there experience this too. We are not the only one suffering and we're not the only one crying. This pain we had will come to an end, we just had to keep fighting and never give up. We can do it and we can surpass it.`
The world is a scary place to live but looking on the other side this world is so beautiful to live in. This world is full of hopes and we just had to discover the marvelous things that God has created. Instead of focusing on the negative things that happened to the world why not focus on the things that can make our life better. Focusing on the negative happenings will also brings negativity to our self.
Focus on our blessings not on our misfortunes
Focus on our strength not on our weaknesses
Focus on the positive ones not on the negative ones
Focus on our problems not on others
Focus on our life than on others
Happiness is a choice. It is always our choice and pretending to be okay is not necessary. When you can't hold the heavy feelings you have inside, then let it go. It's either you will cry, you will shout or do the things that can lessen the bad feelings you had. Crying doesn't mean you are weak, sometimes it's the only way to let go of the things that can't be said. Being silent and alone doesn't mean that you don't want others to be there for you, there are times that we really need to be alone to have at peace and so we can think more properly.
Thanks for reading and have a wonderful day to all!
-LHES
@Mictorrani thanks for sharing your blessing
God bless you more and have nice day.
Top Three Books That I Love
Reading is one of my hobby. As the pandemic start my husband decided to buy some books online so we can have something to read when we are not busy. Mostly of the books that he purchased tackled something about life but not all of it touched my heart, only a few. Here I wanted to share the top three books that I super love.
This book is all about Mitch Albom "the author" and his professor. Actually we haven't bought this one and we are shocked to see this in the parcel that we picked up at LBC. We message the seller about this and she told us that it is our freebie since we purchased 6 books that time. My partner doesnt like this at first glance because he thought that it was just like the fiction book that he bought at the national book store last time. But I was curious about this, and I tried to open a page and on the next days I read it when I'm free. This books has many lessons that one could learn.
***Forgiveness***
Forgive first our self so it would be easy for us to forgive others. Forgive before it's too late because not all are lucky enough to have the time to forgive and to be forgiven.
***Marriage***
Dont get rush on getting married. Before entering into another phase of your life, you need to know more about each other's belief, likes and dislikes and know what personality has each one of you has.
*****"If you don't respect the other person, you're gonna have a lot of trouble. If you don't know how to compromise, you're gonna have a lot of trouble. If you can't talk openly about what goes on between you, you're gonna have a lot of trouble. And if you don't have a common set of values in life, you're gonna have a lot of trouble. Your values must be alike*****."
`The biggest one of those values is your belief in the importance of your marriage.`
***Culture***
Be compassionate, this is what we need today. No matter where we came from, what beliefs we had, what race and tribe we are in, we should take responsibility for each other. If we learn about this important lesson about life, then this world will be at peace and this world will be a better place to live in.
***Money***
Status doesn't matter in life, having a kind heart for everyone is what truly matters. Doing the kind of things that come from the heart is what gives us satisfaction. We won't be envy nor jealous to others and we will never be longing for someone else things and attention.
We need to devote our self in loving others, to the people around and devoting our self in creating something that gives our life meaningful.
**Money and luxury life will be forgotten by people but the good deeds that we have made or showed to them will be tresured for the rest of their lives.**
This book is full of philosophies and I really do love this. I also learned so many things while reading this one.
**And here's a quoted part of the book that says** "***When each day is the same as the next, it's because the people fail to recognize the good things that happen in their lives every day that the sun shines"***
-We may have the same daily routine everyday but having a grateful heart makes each day wonderful. Look for the beauty in everything we do and see the good things that life offers us each day. Appreciate what each day has and practice being grateful as each day begins.
"***The secret of happiness is to see all the marvels and never to forget the drops of oil on the spoon"***
-As we go along the journey of our life, we should appreciate the things that we see and we have in our life and we should never forget our true purpose why we are born here in this world, never to forget our true worth and never to forget our own happiness too.
If we wanted to be happy, focus on where we are and what we have today. Never dwell on past and never worry about our future.
In the middle of the book, I read something about love and I was motivated to write few words about love.
`LOVE THE UNIVERSAL LANGUAGE OF THE WORLD`
`Love knows no bounds and no limits`
`Love knows no gender or what race you are from`
`Love can sometimes break us but also it makes us whole`
`Love has no shapes and no forms`
`Love comes in our lives unexpectedly`
`Loves is in our heart, mind and soul`
`Love is universal, love is everywhere`
`Love is what binds us all`
-Follow what is in your heart and make a way to achieve it-
This book was my hubby's favorite and he encouraged me to read this one and later on I was addicted with this. I read this two times already.
Here's a few lines from the book that we can get a lesson and apply it in our every day lives:
****"There will never be enough time to do everything you have to do"****
Succeeding in life needs a lot of hardwork. There isn't time for everything but there is a perfect time to get started and that is now. If we wanted to have a better tomorrow, we have to work harder today, we have to make a change today and we have to start doing it now.
****"Do what you can, with what you have, where you are"****
What needs to be done and accomplished today, we should do and finish it. Don't wait for tomorrow to finish it. Set aside those unimportant things and focus on those important ones.
-`Get more of the important things done today`-
****Everyone of us has its own path to follow and that is what we called our personal calling. A calling that the Lord has made for every one of us. As we search for this purpose of our life, there will be many obstacles in the way, many hardships to encounter, many problems to be solve, many situations that will test us if how far we can go and what we are able to do in order to achieve our dreams. We may lost on our way but don't be bothered by it. Losing sometimes lead us to our passion. Losing sometimes on our way will let us discover something in life and maybe that something is what we are looking for in life. Don't be afraid of losing because part of winning is losing sometimes.****
Thanks for reading until the end!😊
Have a good day beautiful ones
-LHES
What Kills Ones Dream
Hello beautiful ones! How are you today? Hope everyone is doing good. Here's my short article for today:
To dream is to think of the things that we wanted in life. In order to achieve our dreams we need to work hard for it to become reality. But there are so many things that hinder or stop us from dreaming. There are so many things that kills our dreams.
**Poverty**
*Poverty is one of the hindrance to fulfill ones dreams. It is the most common situation where one does not continue or pursue his/her dream because of their problem financially. Many younger generation today choose to work hard than to study at school because of the need for food, clothing and shelter. As what Catriona said during Ms. Universe 2018 that it is not the lack of child support that kills the dream of the children, it's poverty.*
**Fear**
*This is one of the reason why someone can't make a dream come true. There are so many what if's in ones mind. What if I fail? What if I can't do it? What if I will not succeed? That are just few questions on your mind. You haven't started things yet but you are already consume by the fear you have inside. We let the fear rule over us.*
**Wasting of time on unimportant things**
Time is so precious but once we wasted it, it will never comes back. Sometimes we were so busy doing the things that don't really matter in life and we forget to do the things we wanted in life. And later on we regret for not doing it. Sometimes we also have this habit that keep on saying "Later". "I will just do it later", "I will finish it later" and then there's tendency that we will forget to do it and as a result we haven't finish a thing on that very day. There were also times when we are waiting for the perfect time to do things but there's no perfect time to do some things in the future. If one wanted to achieve or one wanted to make a change the perfect time is always today.
**Lack of determination**
*You really wanted to succeed in life but the problem is that you are not so determine to fulfill those dreams. You are not eager enough to start it.*
**Lack of support from our love ones**
*Family and friends' support are very important. Having someone who will support you in everything you do can inspire you to do better and achieve the things you wanted. But there were circumstances in your life that your family is the very first one to discourage you with your dream. Sometimes they would say that it is not good for you or even said that it is not appropriate for you. They will sometimes oppose your decisions in life.*
**Letting other people words discourage you**
*Having toxic people and the negativity in this world will test someone if how strong and determine he/she is in life. Some will pull you down and some will discourage for you not to succeed in life. In reaching your dreams, many voices will kept on telling you many things that can kill your confidence. They would say that you don't have the capabilities of doing it, you are not as talented as the others and many more. Giving in to their negative thoughts about you will surely kill your dreams.*
*****My Dream before and my dream today*****
***When I was at my early age, we experience some difficulties in life. We even experience a day or two without no food to fill on our stomach and that time I promise to myself that someday I will not let my family experience it.***
***When I was on my elementary years I always wanted to be someone who is successful in life but things don't turn out the way I want it to be.***
***I was once a teenager who dream to finish my school with degrees but I don't make it happen because of poverty that we experience and also the lack of determination that time.***
***Today as a mother I wanted to give the life that my kids deserve. I don't want them to experience the hardships that I have before. I don't want them to feel the pain that I encounter before. As long as I am still given the chance to live, I will dream not just for myself but for my family especially for my kids. My kids dream is also my dream today. I may not be as successful as the people around but I will try my best to let my kids achieve their dream.***
*****Dreaming isn't bad as long as you are not stepping anyone in your life. Dream as long as you can and work hard to achieve and make it become a reality. Dreaming takes a lot of determination, courage, perseverance, hardwork and most of all pray for the guidance of the Lord. No matter how big or small your dream is, fulfill it and be proud of it.*****
Thanks for reading until the end
-LHES
Answered Prayer🙏
Hello everyone! I'm back again with new article. This is just a short article but I hope you enjoy reading.
**Last two months ago, my husband started working far away from us. This was the very first time that he had been away from us and accepting this work brought a lot of worries and stress not only to my husband but also to me. He accepted this because he thought that his salary in this work could add up to our savings but sadly this work was the reason why our savings was gone.**
***At first the contractor was so good in giving the salary to them, but later on my husband found it hard to get their salary. They have finished their work after 1 and a half months but after finishing it, the remaining salary was not given. My husband always called the contractor because we needed the money especially that we have basic needs too. It's been three weeks that my husband ask for the salary but every time he asked for it, the contractor had so many alibis. The first one is when he went to Manila to buy something so we just understand his reason. The second one is when he went to Cagayan de Oro to get something together with the mayor in their place. Now on the third one, he said that he haven't got the money from the mayor.*** (*By the way my husband's work was a government project*). ***Then last Monday, my husband called the contractor again but he was told by the contractor's son that he's father was at the hospital in Iligan City because he's grandfather is sick. This time we almost lost our patience and I almost came to the point where I lose hope and I'm really afraid that my husband's hard work will end up to nothing. I saw my husband experiencing difficulties in sleeping at night because he was to worried because of the things that happened to us. He was also stressed because our savings were gone because that was what we use to buy some needs at home. We save that money for almost a year but in just a month it was gone because it was also what he used to pay for his labors because those men needs money too. Every day I prayed to God that He will help us get through this situation.***
Last Friday night, my husband went to the house of the contractor but he was not there. He said on the phone that he will give the salary that time but he wasn't there. So at 9 pm my husband just went home, stress was written all over his face. I'm too worried about him and before I slept that time, I really prayed many times that God will help us because this time we don't have money anymore. And when morning came he went back to the contractor's house and thankfully his salary was given. God answered my prayer. I'm so happy yesterday and my mind is at peace too. I was able to sleep peacefully and I see it on my husband's eyes that his happy because indeed his hardwork is now paid off.
***God May not answer our prayer by the time we asked Him but soon He will. We just had to wait patiently. Always remember that God always hears our prayers and He knows what we have been through in life. If we have encounter some difficulties and hardships in life, don't hesitate to call for His name. He will be there for us every minute of our lives.***
The end
Have a wonderful day guys!
-LHES
@Pichi28 thanks for the upvote
God bless you more
A letter to my Mama
Hello everyone, how are you all today? Hope everyone is okay. By the way, a million thanks to all readers who take time to read my articles even if it's not so entertaining and catchy as well.
**Ever since when I was a kid, I wanted to experience having a mother who will be there with me. I want a mother who will be proud of my little achievements whether at school or at home. I wanted a mother who will encourage me everytime I feel down. I envy those children who still have a mother on their side. I grew up having my siblings, uncles, aunts, cousins and grandmothers with me but there is still a part of me longing for a motherly love. My parents are not with us. My mother died when I was two years old while our youngest was 2 months old. I saw my mother only in pictures. My father worked in the city and he just visited us when he have time, as far as I can remember, he went home twice a year.**
*****I am writing this letter to tell my Mama the things that I wanted to say and share to her.*****
Dear Mama,
*Hi Ma! It's been a long while that I haven't visited your tomb. If I'm not mistaken, I visited you last 2016 but don't you worry Ma, I will surely visit you when I go back in our hometown.*
*Ma, thank you. This was always the first thing that I wanted to say to you. I may not feel and see you today but I'm still grateful for the life I have today. Thank you for letting me experience and see the beauty of this world. I may not see what you did a long time ago for our family, but hearing all those stories from the people who have been with you ever since makes me so proud for having a great mother like you. I may not feel your hugs and kisses but I'm still so thankful for the sacrifices you did for us. You're always my hero who sacrifices a lot of things, you're always our queen in our hearts and we will also be your princes and princesses.*
*Ma, I'm already a mother of four. I may not be a perfect mother for them but I will always made sure that they will be happy and will always feel the love that I have for them. My oldest son Aeron is already 9 years old and will be turning 10 next month. You have the same birth month with him. I was told many stories about you being a good cook and you know what Ma, Aeron loves to cook too. He wants to be a chef someday and hoping he will be a successful one someday. I also had my twins Ma, their names are Alexander and Alexandrea and they are turning 8 next month. They also have the same birth month as yours. My twins loves to draw and write some things but My Xander is like me who easily cries when being teased. Xander is a hard-headed boy but has a sensitive heart while my Xandra is a messy one. She don't like to comb her hair, if she combs her hair that is when we told her to do so or sometimes I will be the one to do it for her. She also don't like to arrange her things and I always remind her of the things that should be done. And lastly, my little Adam, this little guy is the naughtiest of them all but the sweetest and most clingy. He is also a sweet talker, he always says I love you Ma and if I'm sad he always hug and kiss me. I'm so proud and blessed having kids like them and I know Ma that you are happy and proud of us.*
***Last night I saw your picture on Facebook, your older sister posted some old photos. I saved it on my gallery and let my husband see it, and he told me that I was your mini version. And I told him many things about you, the stories that I heard from your friends and family.***
`Next month is already your birthday Ma. Happy birthday in heaven and I love you so much. You are a great mom and I will always be proud of you.`
Love you and miss you Ma
**To all the people around the world, treasure your parents while they are still beside you. Not all people got the chance to be with their family but you are still lucky to have them with you. Show some care and let them feel the love you have for them. Let them know how they mean so much in your life.**
Thanks for reading,
-Lhes
Unfair Treatment from Others
**Back when I was young, I remember my grandmother always taught us to be always respectful and be polite to the people around us. Whenever we met someone on the road we should greet them. Whenever we visit to our relatives, we should always show some respect especially to the elders. We get their hands and put them on our forehead as a way of showing respect to them. Before entering a house, we should knock first and wait for the permission of the owner before we get inside. That is how we are taught and that is what I always bear on my mind.**
**"******When you are new to a place you must know how to get along with people. You also need to interact with them sometimes"****
*It feels so good if people would accept you no matter what your religion or no matter what your race is but it's so sad to think that we live in a place where other people think differently of us when we don't have the same faith with them. I thought we were okay with them but it's different when we turn our back. I thought they would accept us, but instead they look down on us. Whatever good we do for them, it can't change the way they think of us. I have high respect for them because if you look at them, they dress very conservatively and they always pray. They are helpful and considerate to their families to the extent that even if one of their family is doing wrong, they are still siding that person. They tolerate their bad doings. Even the younger ones don't know how to respect us. The younger ones are so expert on saying bad things.*
**I still remember last December we had a neighbor who was a drug addict, he went to our house to borrow a motorbike, I wonder why he borrowed a motorbike where in fact they have a car. It turned out that he was drunk and really wanted to go somewhere. And because my partner is very kind, he drove and accompanied him wherever he wanted to go because he might get injured and our motorbike would also break. And when they arrive on the place that he said to my partner, my partner didn't expect that he would buy "shabu' and the sad thing was that he took the 500 pesos from my partner. That money was a salary for my partner's workmate. My partner got angry and went home and complained to his brother-in-law. We fell asleep having the fear in our heart that the drug addict might cause trouble because my partner left him. The next morning, my partner's workmate went to our house and asked for his salary and so we told him to take it from the family of the drug addict because he took it last night and thankfully he got the money. They cause troubles many times, there was also a time when the drug addict fired a gun and fortunately the security outpost was near our house, they became alert with the situation and they went to the drug addict's house immediately but he escaped. On the night, there are some security and good neighbors guarding us to make sure we are safe. That incident, we informed the barangay captain and they said they would take action but that was not the case. We found out that they were relatives of the drug addict, so our accusations against our neighbor seemed doesn't matter anymore to them. When my partner went to the barangay because there was a relief donation, he talked to the barangay captain's brother and we found out that we were the ones who become bad because our neighbor reversed the story and they even told that my partner was a drug addict. My partner doesn't let himself be affected because he knew that he didn't do it and he even told the captain's brother that he is willing to to take a drug test and that he will also let our neighbor have a drug test. Then the captain's brother became silent. I knew that they are aware of the true story but they choose to believe the story of their relatives. That is very clear already to us that even if their relatives does wrong to others they will always be siding them. That's a painful reality in this place.**
By the way if you somehow followed me in noise.cash you will know where I am exactly in Mindanao.
***We were living here for almost four years and as what I observed to these people, their minds are closed with people like us. They see themselves as higher than us. They don't recognize someone as same as theirs especially if that someone is having different tribes or religion with them. My partner's father is really from here and has the same tribe with these people but my partner's mother was from Bicol region. That's why they don't recognize him as one of them.***
Let me share another experience we have:
One time my son was buying some snacks at the sari-sari store in one of our neighbor. As he went home, he was stop by two young men and they asked where his father was and he told them that his father is at work. My son is about to leave but suddenly there were two women who went to them and told my son something unpleasant. They told my son that I Am a "Aso!!Baboy!!". These words are bad words in their dialects. When my son told me about this I just ignored it because I know that they have resentment towards us. They hate us because of chili peppers only. (Later I will tell about that chili pepper story). I knew that they are just pretending to be nice to us when we are in front of them . They become good talkers especially when they want something from us. We have garden before with lots of vegetables. They will asked some vegetables and we didn't hesitate to give. They ask it for free but they will sell it to others. We have been so good to them but one situation change them and they showed their true colors. They are just being nice because they can benefit from us.
So here's the chili pepper story:
*(Let's give our neighbor a nickname, T is for the chubby one and B for her girl friend)*
One night while we were having a dinner, my partner told me that if ever T and B went to our house to asked for chili peppers, I should not give them. And I asked him why? Then he told me that he have small talks with them earlier but suddenly B told something not good to hear. She told my partner that my eldest son is crazy because my son doesn't talk to them. My child is not really a talkative one and he is not also familiar with the dialects that they speak, so he won't say or talk to them. Then at the morning T and B came to our house and asked for chili peppers and I told them that I won't give. Even if they insists to asked for small amount only but I still say no. I am really hurt for the words they said. As a mother, who wouldn't be! They came to our house as if nothing happens, as if they didn't say something wrong. We were so generous to them but just because my son doesn't talk to them they said something bad already.
These neighbor of ours have a mean attitude. I remember one time while I was cooking, I heard a locomotion on the road and I'm curious what was happening that time so I went outside and saw that they quarreled one of their friends. This friend of theirs was also close to me. I saw T bringing a "Saw" while B was following her and T's sister also had knife on her hands. They really catch others attention because of their loud mouth and T was shouting "You are a Christian!!!Christian!!! Baboy!! Aso!!!" She insulted her many times not minding that there are many people who are looking at them even the younger ones.
These situations in life has taught me many things.
First is no matter how kind, how approachable, how understanding you are, there will always be someone who wouldn't accept you, who would not appreciate you, who would judge you without knowing the real you. There will always be someone who will say something bad about you. That's the reality, people are so quick to judge someone even if they doesn't know the story. There will always be someone who just believe on one side of the story and they don't care if it's true or not.
Second, Don't be so kind to all. Put limitations to your kindness. Don't let people use you for their benefits. Learn to say no especially if you are wronged by them. Don't let people abuse your generosity.
Third, don't trust all. Many people nowadays are pretentious. Many became your friends because of benefits, some of them just became your friend so they can see some weaknesses that they will use for your downfalls. Some of them will only be their on your happiest times but they were gone when situations became worst. Some of them are not happy with what you have and they will do many things that can discourage you and will destroy your life.
They say Life is unfair but for me "Life is fair but the people around us are not." I always come to this thought because of the unfair treatment that this society showed to us. We want to be kind but how can we when people are always crossing the limits of our kindness. How can we be accepted if these people are close-minded ones.
But even if we experience this, we still believe that there were still some people out there who are an open-minded ones. We still choose to live our life as we want it to be. We choose to stay who we are despite these people did to us. We always prayed to God to enlighten the minds of these people. We prayed that someday the negative thoughts they have towards us will change.
***"In the eyes of God we are born and created equally but in this world, we are judged by many. We are judge by our looks, appearance, status and position in life but we should always put in mind that no matter what we do, God is always watching us. Believe that there is Good and Bad karma. No matter what we do, know that there will always be consequences of our actions."***
Thanks for reading!
-LHES
OMG!!! @Lawa1988 thank you so much for the blessing you have shared and thanks for taking time to read my article.
@Cineholic thank you so much for the upvote.
The Three Words "Who am I"
Who am I???
***These three words are always repeatting on my mind. Are you familiar with the song Who am I by Casting Crowns? Ever since I heard of that song when I was in high school, I always think about it and I ask myself. Who am I? Who am I as a person? Who am I as a daughter? Who am I as a mother? I even write 3 or 4 short poems about it in noise.cash. And here I will combine all the thoughts from my 4 short poems and I decided to add some words on it to make it longer***.
***Who am I***
**Who am I to judge you when I'm imperfect too**
**Who am I to laugh at your downfall when I also had miseries in life**
**Who am I to say you are not enough when I also had my shortcomings**
**Who am I to discriminate you when I also had my flaws in me**
**Who am I to insult your failures when I also commit mistakes**
*I am who I am, a woman with lots of imperfections and flaws*
*I am not a saint, I am a sinner but I can show compassion to the people around*
*I am my own greatest enemy*
*But I am the creator of my destiny, it's either I choose to take the right path or the wrong one*
*I am the best player of my life, it's either I will let myself lose or win the game that I choose to play*
*I am the greatest imbentor of my life, it's either I will make it miserable or not*
*I am the great hero of my life because I am the only one who can save my myself*
*I am the queen of my life and I'm the only one who can rule it*
*I am the author of my life story , no one can write it better except me*
I am just like everyone else in the world. I am just a creature with lots of emotions. I can feel the pain but I don't want to live with it all my life. I feel sad but I don't want myself to be drown on that ocean of sadness. I feel humiliated but I don't want it to stop me from reaching my dreams. I feel betrayed but I don't want to put resentment in my heart. I feel hurt but I don't want to be broken all the time. I feel depressed but I don't want to die with that feeling without fighting. I feel tired but I don't want it to be the reason for me to give up. I have a painful past but I don't want to be a prisoner of it. I free myself from it.
So many voices in my mind, so many voices I heard everywhere. They kept on telling me that I can't do it, I can't make my life better and I can't made it to the top. And I ask myself, who are they to decide for my future, who are they to tell me that I am not capable of doing things when I am the only one who can make my life better. I am the only one who knows my strength and my weakness. I am the only one who knows what I am capable of. It's only me, myself and I who can lead my life to the top. If I let those people stop me from doing better things for my life. Surely in the future I will blame myself for it. I will blame myself for listening to others opinion about me. I will blame myself because I let others distract my life. That's why today as I get older, I learn not to listen to others opinion. I kept telling myself that their opinions didn't matter anymore because I know that even if I did some beautiful things in front of them, there will always be someone who will say something bad about me. There will always be someone who will pull me down. There will always be someone who will discourage me. So I stop wasting my time giving attention to those people who aren't worth of my time and attention.
*****I look around me, I can see the beautiful nature where there are tall trees standing and swaying as wind blows them, the birds are chirping everywhere, the sun rises at the morning that can give everyone new hope that life will be better as each day passes by. Who am I to complain when all I see are the beautiful creations of God. Who am I not to appreciate it when all these things can make me better. Why do I let those negative thoughts clouded my mind when there are so many positive things to think about. Why do I let my eyes be blinded with the negative things that happen around me when there are so many positive things that can be shared to everyone.*****
**This famous line from ---Nightbirde--- "You can't wait until life isn't hard anymore before you decide to be happy" really inspires me. it always reminds me that I am the controller of my life, why would I let those hardships and struggles stop me from being happy. I am the one who decide for my life and I always choose to be happy. Life is so short to let those negative emotions dwell on us. Live life to fullest and don't forget the enjoyment in everything we do. They say that life is unfair but for me life is fair but the people around us are not. You know why, there are lots of pretentious people everywhere. Some are not happy with the success we have. Some are just pretending to be our friend but the truth is that they are just there spying in our life. Looking for our weaknesses that they can use for our downfall. So don't let them decide for our life. We are the ones who can create it and we are the ones who can choose who can stay with us.**
*Own your life, live with it and never let others decide for it. Your life is yours to enjoy. When life seems so hard, choose to stay positive. Don't let those misfortunes and negative emotions defeat you. Life has so much to offer to us. We just have to discover it on our own. Don't just believe on luck instead create your own luck. Miracles do happen only if you work hard and believe in yourself.*
We are who we are. We become what we think. Be the best version of yourself everyday. Don't just stay on one side and wait for a perfect time to get up. There isn't perfect time, you have to work now and make a difference. That is why we are born here in this world. To make a change and inspire others and to make our life meaningful together with the people we love.
**If you reach until the end reading this, then I will thank you for giving time reading it. It really means a lot to me.**
And I wanna say thank you to my 5 subscribers. Yesterday it was only 4 and now there's one added.
Have a nice day!!!!
-LHES
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