Perks of Being Single

Just because a girl is single or not in a relationship, doesn't mean she's not happy in her life. As a girl, I am often ask to why I am enjoying my life even without a man. But I also ask, are you happy in your relationship?

Not all things should be rushed. Success doesn't even happen overnight. Actors and models work and sweat a lot before they gain fame. Same thing goes with your relationship. You don't always have to rush it. When the time is right, the right one comes.

Here are the perks of being single:

MORE TIME IN FAMILY AND SELF

Since you don't exactly care about a certain someone, you have a lot of time to bond with your family and have self-care. It is so much important to build a relationship within your circle because it reflects your attitude towards other people. Ever since my father cheated, I had trust issues. I never trust anyone, including my closest friends. But I enjoy the bond within them and my family.

YOU CAN BE LAZY OR CLEAN OR BOTH

Since time is all yours and yours alone, you don't have to worry about how you look, what to wear most of the time and if you want to clean your room or not. Well, maybe somehow you can be clean if you want to impress someone. But I'm clean because it hurts my eye seeing a bunch of things scattered on the floor.

NO EMOTIONAL ROLLERCOASTERS

You don't have to deal with some psych in your phone. You may have problems but not as weird as a romantic type. More on your problems will upgrade who you are as a person in your career and path and not upgrade as a girl or boy towards another person.

FRIENDS WITH ANOTHER OPPOSITE SEX

I have seen my girls who often gets worried about their man. Like sis, if he really loves you, he'll not go around with another woman. Because if he do, he doesn't love you the way you think he is. As a single human being in terms of relationship or romance, I can easily be friends with another guy without worrying about someone. Well, not exceeding my fence, just friends.

INDEPENDENCE

I always love this word. I can wear what I want. I can go wherever I want to. I can eat whatever my taste buds want. I can do anything. Do all those things with responsibilities. You can eat in a restaurant or watch the newest movies in the cinema all by yourself. It is not always bad being alone. Sometimes it helps you find yourself and understand how you deal with the world when you are alone.

I'm not judging the couples who are in a relationship right now. But if you ask a single on why she is happy without romance in her life, that's too offensive. Somehow, think twice. It's not always about kisses and roses to wake that romantic side of yours. There are more things in life that you can do. You can actually travel the world by yourself.

And what's the advantage of that?

Everything.