Date: October 31, 2021
Sunday
Hey dear family, is everything all ok there? Let me say sorry at first. I deeply apologise as I was unable to visit your posts and answer them. I was too much busy in my office works. After returning home, I did some household works too and then had rest. Nothing to worry. I am back here with my own experience. So what's that? Well, reading the title you can understand my today's topic. It's about bullying. I am pretty sure that each & everyone of you faced this thing in your life. Even me too. I personally hate this. This not only breaks one's heart but also responsible for bad future. Bullied person carries out the incident life long time and never feels comfortable with that memory. You, me actually no one can understand how it haunts him/her. We must take action against them. This is not good for the future generation as they may feel mental depressions. Yesterday I faced such an incident and I spoke against bullying. Let me tell you that.
You guys know that I work in an educational institution. Yes, I am a teacher. So, yesterday it was a regular day for me. I entered into the class. I called the roll numbers, checked the attendance and other things before starting to teach them. The thing which I noticed at first that the students are not comfortable. Something was bothering them. I silently wanted to understand that but it didn't help me much. Soon I saw some students whispering about it in a low voice. ❝What will we do now? Will he do the thing that he promised to do? Shall we tell our teacher?.....❞ I heard these voices. I understood that something were wrong. I asked directly. After asking for couple of times, one of the student stood and told me the entire story. Hearing that I was so furious.
Raju is a student of class 10. He is a brilliant and intelligent boy. But he is just short in size comparing with other students of class 10. It’s ok for him. But some students of his class regularly bullied him. He never said anything and remain silent. That day, few students bullied him for his height issue. They mocked him too. Raju had enough. Out of anger & too much insult, he pushed one of them. Those students beat him down while others remained silently there. They even warned that if anyone spoke about that incident, they would do the same thing. Raju went home in pain. He was crying and had torn dress.
I had enough to be angry. My face turned red in anger. You know that I have less control in anger & even they knew that too. Immediately I asked those boys to stand up. They stood up with a pale face. No, that didn’t help them to gain mercy. I called the principal & told him everything. I sent one of the office staff to Raju's home to bring him & his parents immediately. I was losing my control. I took a seat & requested the principal to handle the situation and give Raju justice. I told him to take them away from my eye sight or I would do something out of my control. The principal assured me about it. The principal called their parents. Those students got red notices, had to pay for Raju's new dress and then they were ordered to seek forgiveness from him.
In this time, I controlled my anger as I was in the garden. I needed something to distract me and flower was the best answer of that. I returned in the office and saw that Raju got justice. I then called them. I was calm then. I made them understand that bullying anyone is not good. This only divides us. I made them hug each other. That's how it ended.
Bullying anyone is a great sin. It directly hits our inner thoughts. Handling this is not everyone's cup of tea. And how do we expect someone of little age handling that with proper justifications? It should be stopped. The elders must be aware of it. They should be careful about their children if they are bullied or become bullies because in the long run of life they will face problems.
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Yes it is difficult to see your son being bullied, I experienced it with my son. My son is fat and most of his classmates are small and medium built, I don't know if they just playing because they constantly pinch him and later on one of his seatmate bite him. Even little kids know how to bully and its alarming. 😒