Do they Love you or the Mask you put on? Date: 26th March, 2022 Saturday I'm still at bed. I haven’t slept at night. Endless, not boring night. A simple but shaking thought was playing mind games deep in my brain. I'm justifying it. I'm going through it and possibly each and everyone of you had gone that way. People around you are enjoying your life and nature. But do they know who you are? Maybe it’s too hard to handle the pressure. Well, let me reverse the question. Do you know the people whom you love & care? Their true identity? Though we love or being loved by others. But we all know that there is a story behind every story, a face behind every face. The public is demanding your presence but with which face? Yesterday was a holiday here and I utilized it's every single moment. Well, I narrated in my previous what I would do and I did exactly what I said. In the end of that list, I mentioned that I would watch movies. I did and that was crime drama series. I was really enjoying untill a chapter unveiled the story of a mask man. A man who is quite familiar with everyone but becomes a psychopath at night. His dual face mentalism pushed me to write this article. Let me clear one thing at first. I quoted mask but that was actually not the typical mask that we wear. It's a metaphor. We all have mask. A face behind our genuine face. An identity behind our identity. The actual nature behind of your build up, fake nature. This is what I'm going to explain.
We live in such a place where people now justify our status by our outer shape and assets. We are used to it. We think this is the world we desire. But the fact is we are letting them judge us by our 2nd identity. Let us agree on this point. You, me, we all have put a mask on our faces. We are showing a fake identity to the world and people are accepting us with it. The are getting habituated with the nature you show to them. For example, you have anger issues but people know you as a man of peace. Your violence disorder and angry face get covered by your smiling nature and laughing face. You feel sad for people’s mistakes and help them. But in home, you show your true colour when you beat down your wife and children. The face that is popular in public, suddenly turn heel. This is the mask what I'm talking about. I highly recommend not to do this. Because there is a huge problem behind it. A tensed mind is always there who looks after your two different faces. You had to manage it. Your fake mask can never be there for a long time. One day, people will know your true face and the day will come for sure. The image value, the character you built for a such long time will suddenly collapse and there will be millions of pieces. Are you able to collect all of them and glu them one after one to rebuild it? No one could, no one can and no one will. Better you should speak out the truth and stop pretending to be a two faced guy. Always remember, your mask is only a shield which will be removed once. You have no idea about the world whether it will accept you after it or not.
People see what you want to show them. If you hide your true colours and show them the rainbow, they will accept the 7 colours. But when the clouds will end and you have nothing but few colours in hand, the people will reject you. It’s a metaphor. Well my friend, choose wisely. Either live with pride for who you are or be prepared for the day you will be upset. The face behind your mask may be or may not be accepted. Choice is yours. ***All the pictures including the lead one are used from unsplash.com*** Thanks for being with me. ©Lucifer01
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Agree with you Luci, now a days people keep wearing mask, not the mask thats disposable 😁✌ but the attitude behind them, sometimes people just good to us if they think they can benefit to us, and its makes me sad like what i mention in my previous article too 😔😔😔
I hope the reveal the true face. So that would be helpful for us
I won't deny I have another mask but not in that way, I use that mask when people treat me like that. I don't think much about the fake things, I just act what I feel in social media, home or anywhere. Probably till below age 20 I had that attitude to show only my good side whenever possible but things changed. It's a pain in the ass to go with that facade.
Depends on us. How we handle people, that matters a lot.
It said how people only respect those who appear rich or pretend to be rich, it common when you go to the store or super market, the attendants will defiantly look at your appearance before they offer help, that's why you see people dress expensive just to get little things at the store. People don't really look at quality again but quantity
Yes dear. You have spoken the truth.
Sometimes people wear masks as a defence mechanism, say to mask pain or for fear of rejection. But that can be terribly exhausting too. I think authenticity is always best, live as yourself, and those who will love you for you will come.
I was like that before but now I learned how to voice out my true emotions. I tend to value others' opinions and avoid conflict before than being mindful about my mental health.
That's good that you utilised the every single moment of your holiday. Its true everyone here is wearing mask to hide their inner self, which not right.
We shouldn’t be concerned about that because things may come out that can hurt us badly. So better giving unconditional love and stop expecting any return from others.
I guess I'm wearing one too. Although I'm a bad person inside out I keep giving empathy to other people to show that I care..sometimes I also want to be fragile but I guess I have no right o be in that state lol!! And people keep using masks to tell the world that they can have this duality
It’s very good to live for who and how we are so we don’t get too upset or get depressed when people criticize. At some times we all have to put in the mask and hide our inner self so that we can escape some grudges.
At least we should speak the truth. That's what I want.
I am what I am, even if you will like me or not at least I am being true to myself and to others.
That's the true words from you.
I usuallu use my mask to hide my emotion within.
A true one will understand your feelings.
I love the way you deliver you thoughts, it's a metaphoric idea. Yes I agree with that we should not hide our true colors or else we will be upset if someone force us to reveal our true color.
I want truth and true face. No more hide and seek.
The mask that everyone's wearing is the attitude. Trying to hide the fake self and be good to others. I say that I sometimes do that, but one thing i have learned is that i dont meed a mask anymore, i am what i am, i do what i want and act the way i want, if you dont like me, then i won't ask for your likes
This is the truth that we all need to reveal. Well said.
That's true be comfortable with your identity rather than trying to impress everyone with your mask.
I'm done with that. Now people need to know me.
Not all but some people only accept when they saw how colorful a person is, but whe they saw the gloomy and dark clouds they will instantly leave you without regret. Sometimes it's better to show the real us and see who among them appreciate the real me.
I prefer the truth dear.
We all have dark sides we cant deny that. We just have to be true and not surpress it. It is our humane nature not to be all perfect.
100% true dear.
We should be wise in choosing who see the real us for there are those who will not understand. We still need to learn to get along :D
True identity will be revealed if they put off the mask. We will understand them more.
True brother. We as human being are covered with masks in some sort of degree. We should be true self. We should reveal our true picture cause one day it will be revealed itself. And that day we will be nothing
I agree with you.
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True colors will reveal. Everyone has its own mask but it depend how a person real or show his self to everyone. No matter how he/she will hide time will come his/her personality will come up and burst.
Accepting someone's odd days are hard. But that's how a strong bonds created.
This is all true Luci. Just like in a product, QUALITY than QUANTITY.
Thanks dear. Glad to know that.
To me real things always nice to get in life. Yeah i got something special.
That's my pleasure brother. Thanks.
A very thought provoking article and I agree to your conclusion at the end.. That was wise of you to advise some good to people.. I'm the same way, I made more enemies including my own blood family members in my life than friends just because I cannot mask myself, whatever feelings I have, I have always vent it out, loud and clear...
I know about your mentality. At least, you have the guts to speak the truth on face.
We usually do not show the real us to the world but to the few chosen people that we trusted so much. Just as the song goes, "And I see your true colors shining through...So don't be afraid to let them show your true colors"...If others will appreciate your true colors, they are worthy of you, if not, then let go.
Exactly. That would be easy for us.
I guess we are all wearing a mask though not all in a bad way. It depends on our peers , where we are and the situation is. Yet most of the time, the REAL us is when we are with the people we trusted.
I agree dear. We shouldn’t hide our truth.
You know, my friend , who doesn't have all these masks? Kids! Adults need to learn from them. Children are openness and kindness, they don't wear falsehoods, they don't "keep a stone" behind their backs just in case. And adults cannot exist without masks, so much so that they have grown attached to their faces.
Such precious words from you! I agree.
This is what keeps leading to choas. The wearers of the masks and the seers of the masks. The masked man fears to reveal himself to people for fear of what they will think, in some cases the seers do not care to look beyond.
That's not good for anyone. Truth remained hidden.
I hope still you're sleepiness well and you will get recharge you're body again because sleep it's most common fector for our life that why I think mostly people wearing mask in some way
Read the article again
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