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Trust issues: Nowadays I doubt my own shadow Date: 11th April, 2022 Monday Hello cute family. I hope you all are doing well in your daily life. I'm also. It is a great honour to be with you all amazing writers. You people write on different topics and help us a lot. I admire it. Well, I'm trying my best to provide something new. But today, this is not about something new. It’s about a old issue which is rising day by day. The lack of trust. Yes, my today’s topic is based on trust. It’s in an alarming stage. How far we have advanced in the world but the trust issues are still there. The lack of confidence over people is ruining a peaceful life. Whom to blame? Topic: Trust issues We are now in supersonic mode. Everything around in this world is changing and it’s happening faster. Day by day we are upgrading our life styles. This is fine but the fact is we are dwelling in fear too. No, not about apocalypse or zombie attack. We are in fear about trustable persons around. Whom to trust and how to depend on them? Each day the news portals, newspapers or journals are showing us the ugly face of this so called highly educated society. People are not safe and lack of commitment is the reason. They are fearing their own shadows now.
For example, an old couple lost their all savings from their house when their own nephew stole them. The person whom they believed, became the reason of their sadness. I have seen them crying on the floor madly because they put that savings for their upcoming odd days. Their only daughter who is married now is living foreign country with her husband. The nephew of the old uncle stayed with them as he was looking for a job for two months. Once he found the stored money, he didn’t hesitate to destroy their hopes. In this case, the old man is betrayed by his own blood. Where is the trust? We are not safe in any place. In roads, food shops, offices, we are not feeling safe. If you ask me, I would say that I don’t trust anyone. Let me explain this. If you are travelling and you have a companion with you, the mind state that we are safe. That's ok but the problem starts when the passenger with us, inject some medicine sedate us and takes away our things, that's a worrying issue. Tell me, aren’t we witnessing such things nowadays? You feel safe when you journey with someone else whom you don't know? Even you have risk while sitting beside the window seat. Someone may snatch away your phone or jewellery from you within a second. You don’t feel safe.
In office, yes, I'm telling that too. Your opportunity may be snatched by your office colleague. Come on, I'm pretty sure many of you have faced it. They are jealous of your rise in office. Probably they often look for an opportunity to put you down. But you are totally unaware of it. Maybe you have explained some ideas about improvement of any project. They shamelessly use that ideas on their names and proclaim them as their own. Just imagine the situation. I had this one recently in my new job. Someone used my ideas and claimed as their own. I just kept my anger down. I trusted them and answered them but they outplayed me from the situation. Now, I blame myself to trust them. The lesson is learnt. The trust is broken. Now we all know how the world is full with people like that. Every steps count now. We need to ensure our privacy is safe with us. We need to console ourselves that we are dealing a good life. Here we fail. Why, just why? We are breaking others trust and others are doing the same. The circle of life is giving us back what we are passing others. Trust is the moral key for our happy society where we may live in peace. Are we good enough to bring that back or grow the trustworthy relationship? It is necessary because now my friend, I doubt my own shadow. All the pictures including the lead one are used from unsplash.com My heartiest thanks to my cute friend and inspiration @Talecharm for showing the faith on me. Follow me: **Hive** **-** **Twitter** **-** **Telegram** https://hive.blog/@deviliclucifer https://mobile.twitter.com/Lucifer01Devil https://t.me/DevilLucifer01
Thanks for being with me. ©Lucifer01
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Trust is sensitive, easy to lose and difficult to gain. Take a lots of time to gain, sometimes a lifetime is not enough for it.
Agreed dear. Even I think have started losing faith on people.
Once a trust is broken, fixing it to its original form is impossible. It takes us to the moment of losing trust and this issue will be always there every time we encounter such that needed our trust.
That's why trust issue has become a important phase of our life.
When you trust no one, your life would be easier. It's a sad reality
But the fact is we cannot live alone.
When you're opportune to find a trustable person, you're one of the luckiest people there is in the world. It is very important but it is getting difficult to gain with each passing day. Like a paper, once crumpled cannot be regained to its original plainness
Day by day its getting harder to find a lucky one whom we can trust.
.... and it's something we've got to live with no matter how much we wish it isn't that way
I think trust can be bestow to everyone as long as you've make significant contribution our help. But trust also tend to be deliberately vanish when someone gets mistakes and make that over and over again.
It’s a very sensitive thing. We all know that.
Trust may broken when we are getting fools by someone. Playing emotions seems to have a great impact to us. For some reasons our feelings are sensitive. We must learn to dodge those people who play our emotions.
That's the only way dear. No sympathy for them.
The iasue of trust has caused a lot of issues this day, even though the relationship between myself and my aunt is very strong, he still doubt my words when I told her that I don't smoke. The way that people are greedy to have things these days makes it difficult to trust.
That's why we are losing faith. Whom to blame?
Trust is expensive and cannot be given to just about anybody. I feel sorry for those couple who lost their savings to their own nephew.
I cannot explain my feelings for them. Still remember their sad faces.
What probably hurt them most is that their own did such an act against them.
What I hate about trusting people is when they have made something that really broke my trust. I hate it as it brings so much pain in my heart.
Big hug dear. I can connect with that feelings.
I easily trust people but now I realized trusting someone is not an easily thing after all.
Don’t do that silly mistake again. Judge before you trust.
It's hard to teust someone but it's even harder to gain the trust of others. So we should always value the trust they've given to us because one wrong move, it will never be the same again.
Breaking trust is easier than gaining it. Well said dear.
People are just wicked, the old uncle accommodated him so that he can get Job and live a comfortable life, they helped him, but he ended up putting them in sorrow by stealing their hard-earned money. I don't think we still have to trust people.
We cannot anymore. The society is becoming more toxic.
It's not easy to find someone to trust these days. This is why we have to be extra careful of ourselves and be attentive wherever we go as we might get ourselves hurt.
Everywhere people are having this issues. Own relatives betray.
This post just made me realise that at this point, I trust no one and this kinda makes me feel human. That's the world we live on now, it's better to lick your own wounds than have someone come and add more salt to it.
People add pepper too. Such people should be avoided. Ask me, simple answer. Avoid them.
... By all means possible
There is a special place in hell for those people who steal from vulnerable people like elders and kids... they cannot even defend themselves.. the world we live in is hecked up
Just imagine the situation and their sad faces. How could someone do that thing to them!
It's difficult to invest trust to anyone,because even your closest can betray you afterwards. Trusted people are rare,we may make a lot of friends in social media but with a person we can trust ,I always had a doubt.
Close ones betray too. I have trust issues. Can't depend on anyone now.
I have experienced trust issues in the office as well, my dear cousin. I am sorry to hear that someone broke your trust in your new work. Better keep your plans to yourself and just surprise them.
I'm thinking so. I will never disclose the matter to anyone.
I doubt my own shadow at times as well.. But if the world doesn't trust us, what we can only do is trust ourselves
That's the last thing for us. We have faith only on us.
To go with this 5 letter word we need faith in ourselves. Its really difficult to believe whome to trust whom not.
We made mistake there. Who is friend and who is foe? Hard to detect.
Trust issue became a trend nowadays. Maybe because people seem to be more aggressive and insensitive towards others.
Completely agree with this.
Trust is a five lettered word, but it's really deep and hard to put it all in someone, even ones family can't even be trusted. As I am presently, I literally don't trust anyone, but my family. In this case of the story you wrote. It was their own family/blood that betrayed them. It is well. I'm just clueless, trust is really deeper than it's pronounced.
That's why I said that I doubt my own shadow now. I hope that you may never have that odd experience.
It's almost impossible to trust anyone today, but still we need to have a person we can trust fully
Those are rare now. You have to be accurate selecting them.
Dear Lucifer, I completely agree with what you said. Every day in the news and among those around us, we see so much news of people being deceived and betrayed by those around them, that we finally come to the conclusion that the wisest thing to do is not to trust anyone...
You wrote a very valuable word with faith. Faith is the foundation of any relationship. If one is deceived into believing, then it is not easy to trust another.
That hurts dear. We lost faith totally.
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