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You can’t force someone to respect you, but you can refuse to be disrespected. Date: 7th April, 2022 Thursday Respect is something which we all demand and cherish for. A simple thing that can make a huge impact on our personalities. A glorious career gets the pie on the cake with a respectful salute. A salute that summaries the importance of your services in any specific place. That respect is the final showdown for you. Respect is the thing which is never judged by age but the person and his gestures. Sometimes a little guy deserve massive respect but an older one doesn’t. There must be some reasons and you cannot deny it. You can’t force someone to respect you. Respect doesn’t come from hands or legs which you can force. It comes from heart. So before getting your desired respect, you need to respect others. Beside this, you need to be careful about your own respect which is known as self respect. You can stop people for continuing disrespecting you. You know what, maybe I should talk about the topic. How about that? **Topic: You can’t force someone to respect you, but you can refuse to be disrespected.** Hello readers, my family, good to see you back here. It's Thursday & I think, this day can be perfect for some life motivational speeches. Ok, I'm kidding but the topic which I'm going to talk about is definitely serious in my point of view.
Respect is a feelings, a method, a discipline that is must in human's life. No matter who we are, what we are or from we are, we all have the special identities. We seek love, we need care & most of all, we deserve respect. That is must for human beings. Respect earns respect as the older ones say & this is absolutely true. When you give someone respect, in return you have the same. People know about it and follow it. But there is always an another part of it. The part where we feel disrespected. A part where we see a reverse view of character. A point comes when you feel that you are not getting what you actually deserve. The respect, yes of course. Self respect is everything. If you don't get what you deserve, then it’s completely ok to talk against it. In the end, we all want the appreciation but if people continuously disrespect you, you have the right to make the things upside down. This can be happened in any place. You should speak about it. No one has the right to make your worth down. You are having your own foods, you are working with your own abilities, you are receiving your own earned bread, so no one has the right to talk about it. For example, we face the disrespectable attitude of people at work. They criticize us. Well, no human is up than error. They do fail in submitting anything but that doesn’t matter someone has the authority to speak in odd language. People shout at work and make it odd for us. Colleagues look at us and enjoy the humiliating situation. If you don't raise your voice at that time, they will do it again and again. This is not worthy. Another example we can see in a relationship. Maybe the boy or the girl has showed his/her ultimate respect to another one. Maybe they have forbidden something to do. But the opposite one totally deny that fact and continue arguing. This is the disrespectful act for the relationship. You can handle it once or twice but not everyday. You must speak up. One has no power to demolish your love like that way. The world is not empty, you will definitely find someone who will respect your feelings. But no more embarrassment in relationship. The person don't deserve you. Respect is must in a beautiful relationship which is very rare nowadays.
Respect is earned by giving it or showing the same nature. It cannot be forcefully earned or snatched. You must speak when people disrespect you. It is you who has the right to do it. You can refuse the disrespectful acts, you must. All the pictures including the lead one are used from unsplash.com My heartiest thanks to @itsmeCguro and @Itsfarah for showing their care for me. Honoured. Thanks for being with me. ©Lucifer01
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Yes we can refuse to be disrespected and we can leave the person who dare to disrespect for no reason.
Just walk away from them. They don’t deserve us.
I really appreciate that headline, being respected by other people is a just. I agree with you we can't refuse disrespect cause it not appropriate for us to receive such bad traits.
Exactly. No way to tolerate that.
Giving and receiving respect in return is a bare minimum. To be disrespected is unacceptable.
I just can't handle it. It hurts.
Exactly Luci. No one can ever force someone to respect him/her but can force them to disrespect him by different means just like I mentioned I my last article about self-respect maybe you can check it out.
I read that one.
Definitely uncle, we can always speak up when someone disrespect us. I don't know why there are people who don't know how to show respect to others.
Bad manners dear. They stopped learning.
Everyone is born equal. Respect is reciprocal, what we give out is what we take back. And once we del the world is giving us back what we did tube out by disrespecting us, they can choose to avoid it for something better or for someone who values and respect us
Oh yes! Never allowed others down you :)
Respect is earned and it is given to deserving individuals though all of us deserve to be respected.
I agree luci. We can't force someone to respect us. We don't have a right by doing that. It's their life. We are the outside. Yes luci I agree too but we can't refuse. We have a right to voice out those people who disrespect us. We are in a right shoe to defend ourselves.
We deserve to be respected. But we are not to force anyone to respect us because they have their own will to do that mate.
Exactly! We cannot beg people to respect us but we can show our respect to others accordingly. Sometimes a person can't get the respect that he/she thought he/she deserve as sometimes the problem was with them. A person will respect to one another if they know to show respect and they know how to respect their selves too. Some people are demanding and yet insensitive with their actions. Respect each other, respect yourself but don't allow any of them to disrespect your respectful act.
You had good points on why we should be respected and why we should respect others. Yeah, it should be given to all, but if they disrespected you. Hmm. That's another talk.
If you feel like you're being disrespected, face them and defend yourself. That's what I do oftentimes.
I use to be disrespected before but I stand and defend myself.No one has the right to disrespect other human being
Thank you for whatever God that created my brain but I never used to acccept the disrespect shown towards my way.. My policy is simple, am a mirror, I will reflect what you show me.. as simple as that... the only person that I would tolerate disrespecting me is my Mom, because you know brown Moms, they got no chill lol
Dear Lucifer, I completely agree with you, the condition for a lasting relationship is mutual respect. If one of the parties doesn't find it necessary to respect us, this relationship is definitely no longer worth continuing, and by staying in that relationship we will definitely humiliate ourselves.
You have spoken my deep words. Thanks dear.
It's true respect comes from heart, and it is deeply connected with our behaviour towards others. But we shouldn't let others to degrade us in any way.
Never let anyone to do that. Perhaps they have no rights to do so.
Indeed! Respect begets respect. It doesn't matter what age.
Well said. That's true.
Amen. You reap what you sow!
It’s like harvesting own behaviours.
we can't really force someone to respect us because respect is something to be earned. Love this write up luci!
Thanks Jeni. Good to see here.
Respect one another. That's a simple instruction but some could not follow. Remain respectful even others are not.
Only then we could earn something best.
Yep, respect begets respect. You get what you actually deserve 😉
I agree.
We earn respect through our actions not by asking for it.
Indeed.
We cannot beg for respect or love, time or dedication. It is better to offer the best of ourselves to the world and the world will return you in blessings, perhaps bringing you some good friends who truly love and respect you.
Precious words from you. Well said.
I follow only a single rule: Give respect, take respect
That's the key rule here.
We want to be respected and respected by others. Respect deserving people get more and there are some exceptions. Good manners make a person respectable to others. And gets respect. But respect is not obtained by force. Creation of beautiful relationship between the big and the small of the society through respect and affection.
Good manners are important. You can’t just go & disrespect someone & then want respect.
Respect is reciprocal. Sometimes, until we respect ourselves, no one else would respect us
Totally agree with it. We need to do it
Agree, resoect should start within us, even people will not reapect us then it's okay the important is you respect yourself to the point that you won't be affected nor disrespected by people around you.
Self respect is important. Agreed with it.
Respect can't be bought but we can get it by giving respect to others, then they will respect us too.
It’s all about give & take. Well said.
Respect is the foundation of all healthy relationships. Sadly, there are so many people out there who don't know to treat others woth respect.
That hurts the most. I knew it.
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