Not every scar heals with sorry.
Date: 29th May, 2022 Sunday
Healing is the best gift from the Almighty. It allows us to regain our energy. It makes us feel strong. That's the difference between human race and robotic world. They cannot heal themselves. They need human beings to fix it. Well, I'm not here to argue on a matter like robot vs human. I'm here to redefine something else. Yeah, it is connected with the option healing. Something is really needed to be focused and talked about. It’s human behaviours. I am going to talk about some wounds which may never heal. We all have those scars. We all have that pain. We hide it and do not want it to show the people around us. Because it is deep and it will never heal. So buckle up my fellow friends. The discussion will go on the floor on 5, 4, 3... Ok, let's start.
People around us are connected with each other. You, me, your relatives, my friends everyone are connected somehow. That's why we are called social beings. While living together side by side, we definitely make an impact on someone else's life. Willingly or maybe unwillingly we have that impacts on them. Sometimes it is good but sometimes it feels uncomfortable. When we feel uncomfortable or get hurt by someone, we discuss about it, talk about it. But sometimes this conversation ends with envy, jealous, rage and sad feelings. We talk trash about each other and hurt someone so bad that it becomes impossible to heal. No dear, it never heals.
Some words, some behaviours make us unworthy to introduce ourselves as human beings. We need to understand that but we failed every time. We only think about our own profits, own beliefs and no matter what happens, we never feel awkward for what we are doing all around. There is and always will be some problems to be created by us. Our behaviors will make people suffer. Wrong attitude and not accepting your faults will notify others that you are dwelling with some bad influences. This will harm your name, fame and reputation. Do you have any solution for that?
You might say sorry to fix things. Well, ding dong, knocking at your door, here is a message for you. ❝ Sorry ❞ doesn’t ensure to heal every mess you had done. No, dear. Not every scar can be healed by saying a simple sorry. It only makes it more awful. Because you make them feel that way. Because you make them believe that you have a little sympathy for them. For what you have done to them, a single sorry will not make them feel comfortable. That will not heal their wounds. I truly believe that.
If you are guilty and you feel it deep in your heart, you need to do something better to reclaim their trust or their forgiveness. Your single sorry word will be a piece of stone in a skyscraper. That will never be in the count. If you do it, do it with manners and proper way. Every scar has a healing way. You need to find that way and apply. If you fail to find out, then walk away from them. If you cannot heal someone's pain, you have no rights to make it more awful. Right mate?
In this long running business of humanity, we live with moral values. But some moral values make us weak because they terminates other moral values too. Not every time you will feel lucky among in your societies. One day, someone will talk trash with you and make you feel it that way. What if they say only sorry to you after demolishing your dreams or reputation, huh? Time has kept everything and I believe in karma. It hits and when it hits my brother, it hurts. So better we all be careful about our behaviours. Because we are civilians with common senses and moral values. Treat each other with respect. That's the bottom line of this content. Now, let's hope for a new start.
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I usually think about other people's feelings before I tell them something. But the wound that can never heal is the quarrel I had with my dad before his death because now I can’t say “sorry” to him.