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Not every scar heals with sorry.

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Written by   537
2 months ago
Date: 29th May, 2022
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Healing is the best gift from the Almighty. It allows us to regain our energy. It makes us feel strong. That's the difference between human race and robotic world. They cannot heal themselves. They need human beings to fix it. Well, I'm not here to argue on a matter like robot vs human. I'm here to redefine something else. Yeah, it is connected with the option healing. Something is really needed to be focused and talked about. It’s human behaviours. I am going to talk about some wounds which may never heal. We all have those scars. We all have that pain. We hide it and do not want it to show the people around us. Because it is deep and it will never heal. So buckle up my fellow friends. The discussion will go on the floor on 5, 4, 3... Ok, let's start.

People around us are connected with each other. You, me, your relatives, my friends everyone are connected somehow. That's why we are called social beings. While living together side by side, we definitely make an impact on someone else's life. Willingly or maybe unwillingly we have that impacts on them. Sometimes it is good but sometimes it feels uncomfortable. When we feel uncomfortable or get hurt by someone, we discuss about it, talk about it. But sometimes this conversation ends with envy, jealous, rage and sad feelings. We talk trash about each other and hurt someone so bad that it becomes impossible to heal. No dear, it never heals.

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Some words, some behaviours make us unworthy to introduce ourselves as human beings. We need to understand that but we failed every time. We only think about our own profits, own beliefs and no matter what happens, we never feel awkward for what we are doing all around. There is and always will be some problems to be created by us. Our behaviors will make people suffer. Wrong attitude and not accepting your faults will notify others that you are dwelling with some bad influences. This will harm your name, fame and reputation. Do you have any solution for that?

You might say sorry to fix things. Well, ding dong, knocking at your door, here is a message for you. ❝ Sorry ❞ doesn’t ensure to heal every mess you had done. No, dear. Not every scar can be healed by saying a simple sorry. It only makes it more awful. Because you make them feel that way. Because you make them believe that you have a little sympathy for them. For what you have done to them, a single sorry will not make them feel comfortable. That will not heal their wounds. I truly believe that.

If you are guilty and you feel it deep in your heart, you need to do something better to reclaim their trust or their forgiveness. Your single sorry word will be a piece of stone in a skyscraper. That will never be in the count. If you do it, do it with manners and proper way. Every scar has a healing way. You need to find that way and apply. If you fail to find out, then walk away from them. If you cannot heal someone's pain, you have no rights to make it more awful. Right mate?

In this long running business of humanity, we live with moral values. But some moral values make us weak because they terminates other moral values too. Not every time you will feel lucky among in your societies. One day, someone will talk trash with you and make you feel it that way. What if they say only sorry to you after demolishing your dreams or reputation, huh? Time has kept everything and I believe in karma. It hits and when it hits my brother, it hurts. So better we all be careful about our behaviours. Because we are civilians with common senses and moral values. Treat each other with respect. That's the bottom line of this content. Now, let's hope for a new start.

Thanks for being with me.

©Lucifer01

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I usually think about other people's feelings before I tell them something. But the wound that can never heal is the quarrel I had with my dad before his death because now I can’t say “sorry” to him.

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2 months ago

Big hug dear. Calm down dear. Sorry for that. No one knows the future.

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2 months ago

It's hard to forget but we may seem gracious to forgive. How can you forgive and forget if the person will do the things that trigger the past pain over and over you? I somehow understand that sorry will be a useless word if sincerity and change weren't there.

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2 months ago

This is so true. Not everything will be fix by saying sorry. Some broken things will never go back to its original form anymore once it is broken.

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2 months ago

Not everyone accepts sorry when they get hurt by someone, and that is wrong no one is above mistakes, so to say sorry is not a crime.

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2 months ago

That's deep but legit, not every scar heals with apology, people sometimes think that saying sorry is enough but for some it isn't, sorry are just words that can be said to someone wheter they are sincere or not, as for me forgiving is a difficult vocabulary in my own diction, sorry doesn't mean anything if it didn't put it in action.

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2 months ago

Not every scar heals with sorry, yeah true. But where is the place of forgiveness?

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2 months ago

Indeed, mate. We should be careful before hurting anyone. Keep it up, broother. Good to see you brother.

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2 months ago

The tongue has no bones. so it is difficult to control it. The bullet wound heals, but the tongue wound does not. bleeds when remembered

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2 months ago

I agree with you, we are busy with our thoughts now. I have forgotten the good and bad of others. These should not be.

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2 months ago

I agree, their times that sorry isn't enough. There are still pain inside our heart. I think we could consider the scars in our inner thoughts as an infinite. It will not be erase cause it is already put in a long term memory.

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2 months ago

To forgive is to forget but sometimes even the sweetest sorry could still hurt but its always up to us how to handle the pain and how to forgive that person

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2 months ago

This is true. There are mistakes that a single sorry cannot heal.

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2 months ago

they say you can always forgive but forgetting is another part and you can't blame a person if he ever can't forget the pain of the memories

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2 months ago

That scar will always be there no matter how sorry we are in leaving it on someone. We can't undo what's done so as much as possible, let's be careful in doing such acts. Let's be kind.

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2 months ago

Living in this world is like walking on eggshells for those who care too much about hurting others. Other people just go about recklessly doing things regardless of the effect it may have. Before we do anything, we should always remember that we only see the initial reaction of people to our words or actions, but never the impact, that's something we cannot see.

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2 months ago

You are such a good writer. I'm just loving your article more and more everyday. Thanks for this. I needed it

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2 months ago

That's true, not everyone who is sorry will heal the scar left, it can be forgiven but the damaged can never be restored

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2 months ago

Yeah a broken glass always a broken.. It can't be undone

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2 months ago

The word sorry can't really heal any scar, maybe they can forgive but they can't forget

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2 months ago

Yes absolutely not every scar heal with sorry sometimes behavior hurts very deeply interact to soul and didn't recover with sorry

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2 months ago

It is absolutely wrong to treat people as trash and want to be upheld. There's a saying that what goes around comes around. There are levels to what you can do to someone and just say sorry, without knowing that sorry does not change the past. Thank you for this piece 😊 😊😊😊

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2 months ago

For me Sorry is always a formal world. It always can't fix things.

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