If you change Nothing, nothing will Change!
Date: 3rd May, 2022
Tuesday
Hello guys. Beautiful day to start a new phase of day. I'm the one who is trying to wake you up now. Come on, get up. Roll out of your bed and enjoy the sun ray, clean air, awesome nature and gorgeous weather outside. I'm feeling much better today. Breathing and still alive. Maybe this welcome note is different from my regular welcoming style. I agree. It is different and the reason is my mom. She changed the view, the point of the view of my eyesight. Not actual eyesight. I'm talking about vision, handling situations and perspective of life. Trust me, now I have a better view. So today, I'm going to tell you about the conversation that I had with my mom yesterday. It was so warming and genuine that I feel it from my deepest corner. I think this will help you too. So here we go.
It happened in the evening. I was in my room while closing my eyes and earbuds in my ears. Mom followed that I was not doing well in last few days. She felt like I was searching answers, the solve story, the meaning of unknown or else. She remained silent & let me figure it by myself. That's my mother's nature. She did that before and she has faith on me. She knows that her child will figure out the equation of life and unsolved mysteries. But when she found that this time I'm not searching answers but remaining silent, she hopped in.
She brought two cup of coffees and sat beside me. I didn’t notice that. Suddenly I felt a hand on my head, rubbing it gently. Mom was looking at me. I sat properly. I knew that she had understood something. She handed me the coffee and that’s how the conversation started. She never fails to impress me or anyone else with her words of humour. I like the way she talk and explain. When the conversation started I was little bit gloomy but when it ended I was smiling and had a clear vision. So what did she tell me? Well, it's about the start of everything that we want to do. A good start of change. How about telling you people about it in briefly. I know time is money and I don’t want any of you people's time get wasted. So allow me to tell the conversation in my style following the keywords from my mother. The headline of the conversation is ❝ If you change nothing, nothing will change. ❞ and I truly appreciate this one. Fits perfectly.
We always think that we will change ourselves and make a better one in public. People will be thinking us as a role model and we will figure out what we truly desire. But it doesn’t happen and if happens, it comes out lately. So where is the problem? The problem is in our mindset. We want to change our entire thing. Our life, our long maintained routine, our choice everything but we fail to change our mindset. We start everything late. We want to change but we remain idle.
If we truly want a change, we need to refocus on the problems. We need to change it and change it as early as possible. If we do not change nothing and remain there, waiting for someone to change the entire scenario, we have to wait for a long time. Nothing will change untill a right person comes. Now the question is, are we enough patient for that change for an unpredictable days to show up with it? The answer is no. Then there is no reason to wait for an uncertain time. Better we should bring the change. Think about the life and think that it is now or never situation. You will clearly see a comeback. You will see a new life, new hope.
This was the summary of her conversation. I liked it so much and I am pretty sure it is helpful to you too. Have a nice day folks. Keep smiling and change the world.
All the pictures here including the lead one are used from unsplash.com
Heartiest thanks to my two cute ones @emily2u and @Lhes for renewing the care for me.
I appreciate your mom a lot. I completely agree, that is a very instructive sentence. If we don't do something ourselves, nothing will change. We take the greatest responsibility in making our lives beautiful.