Don't let the Ugly in others kill the Beauty in you

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Date: 26th April, 2022
Tuesday

Hello friends. Better morning for everyone. Some of you are awaken already while some others are in deep sleep. It’s ok as the notification icon will remind you that I posted something for you. You can have it whenever you come back. Well for now, I have you people who are listening me. So allow me, the host of you to welcome to another topic to discuss. It actually clarifies that today's topic is based on human behaviours. You, me and everyone else, we all have a decent behaviour that glorify our personality. That describe the nature of you, the person you are. Sounds good? We, the human beings always feel motivated from different kinds of things. Those inspirations do make an impact on us. It helps us a lot. But sometimes bad influence also affect us. Then we start to change and the ugly side of us comes out. We should avoid that influence must. Otherwise our characters will be judged. If we need to find out the problem, we need to dig deeper. So here we go with today’s valuable topic.

Topic: Adopt good things from others, not bad.

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We always like to copy. We mimic things around us. Maybe knowingly or unknowingly but we do. We take lessons, inspirations & motivations from the things around us. For make you understand, let me talk about taking lessons from humans. So obviously when we talk with someone or pass a minimum time with someone, we follow everything about the person. The way that person talk, the way he/she walks around you, the process of working, the personality, everything. Sometimes those behaviours directly shows impact on us. We start adapting their personalities and behaviour. Maybe not 100% but some of it, at least some portions.

Now if you adopt something good from that person then it’s absolutely worthy. For example, we learn from our teachers and elders who teach us something great. Or maybe from a motivational speaker who helps you to solve out your doubts & worrying things. Your friends can teach you something good. See, I have no problem with that and it's completely ok.

The problem starts when you start adopting bad things from others. Their influences, their bad behaviours corrupt you from inside and your pure soul is contaminated with the darkness. There is no particular thing to describe but I always point out to each and every thing that makes you feel bad. You start hurting yourself and others too. People will mark you as a bad person which will definitely hurt you in life. They will start avoiding you which will push you more to the negativity. This is not good my friend. This will end your legacy and the beautiful moments of your life. Just imagine, after 10 years, people remind you as a bad guy! Will you be happy with that? Definitely not, right? Now, you need to do something for it.

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At first, point out those persons who already submerged themselves in those bad behaviours. If possible try to change them too. If that is impossible then try to stay away from them. If you have already adopted something bad which is affecting you, try to abstain from it. Do not think that it is late to change your life. No dear, it is not late. There always remains a second chance. All you need a good call from inside which will change the negative shade of you.

Let your soul purify itself. You have a beautiful soul which is maybe covered with some dust of negativity. Just clear it. Maybe it will take time but in the end it will bring the light to everyone. People will recognize you as one of the best guy who changed himself to spread the fragrance of his/her beautiful soul.

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As I said earlier, do not let those ugly behaviours dull your inner beauties. You have more moral deeds than you can imagine. Serve it for humanity and be the one to be followed by others too. Set the example of your stats. From you, people will learn that adopting good vibes from others nourishes our souls and make it worthy.

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You will see negative mentility people around of you . But i like to be positive with my own attitude.

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2 years ago

It is difficult to fight those negativities but through will power and the courage of good friends, one can really surpass the challenge. I admit that an old friend has been negatively affecting my behavior and I am trying to stop and change for the better.

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2 years ago

Hey pure soul, you can change anything.

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2 years ago

Better t copy good things and eradicate the bad things and ignore following it...thank you for this mate

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2 years ago

It will help us. Negative influence is always bad.

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2 years ago

Negative people are always inferior, so we should not listen to them because they know we have some potential they don't see in themselves and that is the reason why they are trying to drag us down to their level.

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2 years ago

Absolutely right dear. I agree with it.

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2 years ago

Good traits can be acquired from others as long as it is for the improvement of oneself. Dealing with others and their attitude could be beneficial to differentiate good from the bad, and it's up to the person now to choose which is the best for him/her to absorb.

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2 years ago

"They say take the good with the bad, I take it without" -Drake

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2 years ago

It reminds me about life. Our personality is unique. We should choose over those people which is good in nature and personality.

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2 years ago

Dear Lucifer, how beautiful you said. I totally agree with you my friend. Associating with people makes a great impression on our personality, so we should always choose those who we know are honest people with a pure spirit. A person who goes astray can easily distract us. Let's try to be the good person, pursue the good, and be the good effect that makes the world beautiful under our influence ‌.

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2 years ago

I think now people are loosing the originality in their personalities everyone wants to become a swagy person

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2 years ago

That's why they are failing.

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2 years ago

This reminds me something my Mom say "when people abuse you emotionally, it means you are way up there in the place that they could never reach and that is why they try to bring you to their level and fight with you.. never react to those people if you wanna stay up there"

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2 years ago

Amma is absolutely right. They feel jealous of our happiness. I think you have vast experiences about it.

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2 years ago

Yeah, it's best to be authentic. You don't have to be influenced by other people's actions. You can great regardless

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2 years ago

The rate of copying in the world now is something else. People who copy the bad are way more than those who copy good things.

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2 years ago

That's why i used to neglect bad once, i will never let myself lower my level because of those who wants to abuse me, the thing is i remain good

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2 years ago

You are an inexhaustible source of inspiration, your topics are always so good.😊 We should not adopt negativity and bad things because it really covers us with dust that we have to clean from time to time if we want to shine and be happy.

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2 years ago

And you are the source of cuteness. Thanks dear.

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2 years ago

We should adopt the things from others, which are worthwhile, not the ones which turn us into something bad.

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2 years ago

True dear. It will be worthy.

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2 years ago

You're right luci tend to mimic some of the traits of notorious people. I think when you said that we should limit what we imitate ; like we choose the right thing instead of bad.

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2 years ago

Guilty of your title, and I already learn that I have my beauty that was within.

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2 years ago

That's true, and we should always bring our our beauty from the inside... " adapt to what is useful and discard the useless"

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2 years ago

Its hard sometimes as a human being. Sometimes we become ugly just because of toxic people around us busy poking us.

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2 years ago

That's the reason we need to be a positive thinker. Choose the right way.

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2 years ago

Yes luci we must adapt the good things only from others not the bad one. It's not good if we adapt which is not good for us because it will affects our self and life. It will ruin us. We must choose the good things only.

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2 years ago

The last black-and-white photo in front of a fishbowl is a nice shot. The light and shade create a unique ambiance.

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2 years ago

This is why we have to be intentional with who we let in our circle. We need to choose the people who only practice great things. However, we are not perfect. We cannot avoid that a person has a bad side. Therefore, we should be mindful and adapt only to the things that are only beneficial to us

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2 years ago

I'm just ok friend, you're right not to let dull and also really bad things.

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2 years ago

Indeed the bad things attract us quickly but we must be conscious enough to don't let those things being part of us

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2 years ago