I Fell Inlove With My Bestfriend
Friends or having a bestfriend is one of the precious gift that we can have in life. To have someone who can be with us through ups and down, and that someone who knows how to value and listen every stories, even your stress, unconditionally.
But, have you seen or heard some romantic relationship, or a couple who broke up just because of the reason that one of them prefer to choose their bestfriend than their partner?
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2 days ago when I saw a video on Tiktok about a boy, who shared the screenshot of his conversation with his girlfriend. In their convo, the girl is begging for him to leave his girl bestfriend, she's telling to her boyfriend that he can have many friends as he wants as long as it's a boy but not a girl. Actually the message of the girl, is not that she's angry but begging for his boyfriend to chose her and she even said "Please. I can do whatever she can. Looove I can"
On the other hand, maybe the boy post it thinking that the netizen will support him, but he got a reaction about the viewers who are angry and disappointed on him. Other comments are;
"Seems like your gf have a trauma in her past relationship. Hope you didn't enter in that relationship if you can't choose her"
"You're concerned about what will be the feelings of your girl bestfriend than your girlfriend. Hope you don't have girlfriend"
"It's too easy to say 'You' bro"
"'You don't need to say more', brooo don't tell that to your girlfriend. She have trust in you but for sure she see that there's something wrong... It's you who said that you're in LDR, so focus on her... Based on your reply, you're one sided, you're choosing your girl bestfriend which is red flag"
Why I shared this because I want to remind every woman that they are precious, and for every man to please value your woman. I am deeply hurt about the girlfriend's situation, I really hate seeing a women begging for a man just to choose her. I really feel pity for every women who do everything for their man, but at the end only hurt them.
It's true that when it comes to the point that you have a partner, you must limit your interaction with your opposite sex bestfriend, especially when that person is not close to your partner. I once had a boyfriend and my boy bestfriends knows their limit, same thing as me when I knew that my boy bestfriends have girlfriend, I also limit myself.
Hopefully this can be an eye opening for those who are unconsciously hurting their partner just because they are more close, more open, more happy being with their bestfriend. I want to end this with this message which I have seen in a video;
"I lost her, because I failed to understand the reason of her silence. She was not moody or full of attitude. She was deeply hurt. That's the reason most of the man don't understand and loses their loved one."
To change the mood of this sharing. If you're inlove with your friend or bestfriend, I want to share one of my favorite love song: I Fell Inve With My Bestfriend by Jason Chen.
Ps. I am sorry everyone if I wasn't able to visit your articles because I am really busy and I need to set priorities, but then I still want to say thank you for those who always read, upvote and comment in my article; and also to those who mentioned me. Thank you once again, GOD Bless!
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May 31, 2022
-Ling
Grabe this is one of the most difficult thing, to fell in love with your best friend and madami akong mga nakikitang sa internet na nasira yung friendship dahil diyan.