Why do I keep dreaming someone again and again?
January 31, 2022
New Monday!
Hello everyone! How's your month of January? This is last day of the said month. Yohoooo First achievement of 2022 by breaking this month.
There were lots happening in this January and it feels like a not so good to start the 2022. I been through all the uncertaintes which lead me to break down but then I'm happy that I overcome all the crashing things inside of my head😉 ( I already wrote an article about it so, feel free to check out my piece)
It is inevitable that we dream to someone and this someone might involved in relationship or someone we hurt.
We have initial thought about these dreams is that we miss a person or we are longing to see a person even in a dreams.
Why do I keep dreaming someone repeatedly in successive nights?
I'm too blankspace as well when I found out that this someone always appeared on my dreams. I asked some of my collegue and they said that someone who always appearing in your dreams is missing you so much! I don't think so that it might that the real answer but as what that someone related to me was a bit complicated relationship because I did something a not so good goodbye which is I did ghosting to someone.
Don't judge me I deserve to have an explanation about it Haha
So, I research all the things that might serve as fact and evidence:
According to Chyann:
Jun 28, 2020
Dreams are fantastic. There are many kinds of dreams. Some have a special message, while others are just the fragments of your thoughts that you see during your sleep. There’s a possibility that you dream about the same person again and again.
Your subconscious knows you are missing this quality, so it searches for someone who does have those qualities and brings them into your dreams, or manufacturers someone with those qualities and brings them into your dreams.
Way back before when I was high school, I have a boy best friend. He is my ultimate companion as we have the same year of school, same birth year, same classroom and same level definitely. He is my childhood friends also as we were neighborhood. Those days we don't have any complicated situation as he is just a friend of mine. Even our family always teasing us we really don't mind about it because we don't see each other as a couple and as well as love doesn't exist for both of us.
When the time that they broke his girlfriend, our closeness again went back. He even always visiting me in our house just he wanted to see me and wanted to talk random things. Our closeness has no any intention at the first place but as time keep running it changes. He treated me something that it wasn't used before, he always with me, he always chatting with me and he even concerned with me. He is indeed a different for being a bestfriend because seems like he treat me more than a friend. Actually, I have crush on him before and unexpectedly he knows it. Right after that he knows it he eventually truly care with me.
Everything went well as what the things like a mutual understanding. It's time for him to travel the city because they were living there for good but still our communication is active. When I found out that he will go home here, It makes me bothered. I don't know why I feel different towards him maybe because I am thinking out that maybe he likes me just because I have crush on him. I overthink! I feel hate him! I want to run away from him!
Yeah! I block him on messenger and lost from his life. Months had passed! I feel the conscience because I left the person in a sudden without telling a goodbye.
I dream about him! One thing that he keeps telling me in my dreams.....
He is waiting in vain.
After all the sudden, he appeared repeatedly on my dreams. I am bothered because why he keeps on walking in my mind?
Not just three days but successively days.
I looked up what it maybe meant and it says ,
A recurring person who keeps showing up in your dreams could reflect a feeling or desire that has not been successfully resolved in your waking “real” life. Unresolved feelings are uncomfortable and we tend to replay them in our subconscious minds.
Therefore, guilty conscious I've been through in this scenario of dreams.
Dreams to someone that keep occuring can represent our desire to see someone we haven't seen in a long time.
Dreams about someone is somewhat a representation of our emotions or feelings in someone. In real life we often to suppress our feelings and pretend like nothing happen.
My recent dream:
Actually, I was dreaming again and again to my boyfriend. I'm happy that even in dreams I am with someone that l loved. I even smile and feel love it's because even in just a dreams I am with him, I can hug him and hold him. Honestly, I am eager to hug him because I never done it in reality with this man I love.
I found out that it's already three days he keeps appearing on my dreams. Unexpectedly, all of the moment of my dreams was all the things that I wanted to happen for both of us like dating , hold him in the street and be with him the rest of the day. It is proven that my feelings or emotion is representing to my dreams. I do miss him because it's been 3 years that I wasn't saw him personally.
To conclude that this dreams represents "missing someone in real life".
Recurring dreams is somewhat gives us realization sometime that if this someone is missing you or longing with you.
Recurring dreams are dreams about the same person which keep recurring again and again.
Above all hoping for:
Have a sweet dreams🤗
You're dreaming of a certain person then it is clear that maybe you're missing him or feeling guilty for your unexpected deed, I think you should had to tell him before blocking him. You can't change it so make yourself feel guilty and move on.