10 signs of Maturity

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In the middle of twenties it already sense that the real world started at this age. Life has many challenges to take. Full of responsibility that sometimes people forgot to enjoy life.

We have this called maturity. From this word it urge us to become one. Unknowingly, there are signs that we already possessed and it considered our growth and be matured on it.


✨ 10 Signs of Maturity✨

  1. Small talk no longer excite you.

Exactly, one of the sign that you are already matured. You even ignore those small talk that tend you hear. You even don't care those things that might waste your time. It is exactly a waste of time. You already knew how to deal those talks especially you are no longer incur or benefited on it. You just ignore how this talks trying to tempt you but then when maturity holds you, definitely you are no longer excite and spend your time wholely on it.

  1. Sleep is better than a friday night out

Trueeeeeee. Definitely true! Time will come you are already choose this kind of options and think more about which is better than of this two. You are no longer hesitate to choose of that two, I guess. Sleep is better than a friday night out indeed. Sleep is your priority or should we say "our priority" than spending time by going out or attending parties.

Maturity really hook us by considering of what are the best for ourselves and for our living. Sleeping is better for us in order to rest well.

  1. You forgive more

I agree this sign of maturity. This sign is about how you deal forgiveness to anyone else. You even don't care at all your pride because all you wanted is forgive others and you won't hold any grudges against to someone to bringing it up.

You wanted peace of mind and peace of living. You don't like anymore to hold your hatred and hold that anger longer. Forgiveness is your priority already.

  1. You become more open minded

You started to become more open to yourself. You become more open minded of all things and started to open up that everything is accepted. You are no longer easily judge instead you are open into it.

Opening your mind is somewhat you are opening an opportunity to take action into your life. In addition, become an open minded is also widen your mind.

  1. You respect differences

Exactly. Since maturity already hold us, we are very considerate of anything.

We highly respect the differences of individual because we already accepted it through the openness of our mind. Respecting each other is our ability to maintain the goodness of our personality too.

  1. You don't force love

Self love is okay at this stage. You don't even care at all the love of others because you already set yourself contentment of love coming from your own self.

You matured already by not forcing others to love you because love within yourself is already enough to be inlove.

  1. You accept heartaches

Instead of easing that pain inside of you, you already accept it with learning. You will train your mind to see the good in every heartaches. Definitely, you are trying to be more optimistic in every heartbreaks you've encountered.

It's hard but optimistically you will stand again with bravery.

  1. You don't judge easily

This time you are already truly matured in a way that you don't care at all the life of others. You are too open already with that by not judging easily. Instead, you let yourself put in their situation or shoes and perceive in a particular way.

You don't judge easily because you already knew how it feels and considerate of what they've felt.

  1. You sometimes prefer to be silent than to engage in a nonsense fight

Maturity and it's finest!

It's already a tiresome by involving yourself in a nonsense fight instead you preferred to keep silent. You don't like anymore by engaging yourself those things that wouldn't help your growth. You better shut your mouth and live life peacefully.

  1. Your happiness don't depend on people but on your inner self

One hundred percent true! You already look upon yourself of where your happiness. You will going to settle yourself by not depending your happiness to others. Your inner self is enough.

Manifesting happiness within yourself is already fulfillment.


These are the signs of being matured or hitting the maturity. As we grasp this kind of thing we are already manifested the goodness of being in the adult stage.

Maturity open us to consider the goodness of ourselve and keeping up to be wise and be at peace. We all know it's hard but we can learn a lot.

How about you did you already cope up these signs of maturity?

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Maturity is when you started losing friends because of your different views in life. And you learned to understand them than to hate them , And one of the good thing about maturity is when you embraced the fact that it gives you peace of mind and love yourself more.

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2 years ago

Well said sis! We are able to see the reality of what are the most important thing in this world.

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2 years ago

I’ll be turning 21 next month and I’m happy that I already feel those signs. I’m prioritizing and investing more time with myself especially to have peace of mind

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2 years ago

Good to know that dear. Self love is the most important thing to keep going in life.

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2 years ago

This just shows that a lot of people are old enough to be matured but there are really matured because they lack most of these signs you talked about in this article. I have most of these signs and I believe as a person grows older and have lots of experience in life, they will become more matured

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2 years ago

Yesss kushy I agree with you too. These signs are just common. There are also signs pf maturity that base on their experience or sometging like we don't know. All in all maturity comes from their experience.

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2 years ago

I guess I'm not that matured hehe, coz there are things that I need to work out.

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2 years ago

Ohhh its okay sis. Its a proces nmn. D nmn tayo perfect pra ma possess lahat. Mararamdam mo nlng yan na d mo namamalayan.

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2 years ago

Wala na talaga akong time sa night out² na yan sissy, dati oo pero ngayon, gusto ko nalang matulog lagi. Haha

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2 years ago

Hahhahah same here sis. Adulthood is so hard kaya mas mabuti tlga na itulog nlng.

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2 years ago

Ahh, pansin ko nga ngayon mas tumanda na ako, mas naproprocess ko ng mabuti yung feelings ko. Nung teenager ako, di ko care kung sino masasaktan kasi nga di pa developed yung brain ko for feelings. Now that I am matured and still learning, mas nahahandle ko ang feelings ko ng mabuti.

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Yesss sisss yan yun eh. You are in the process kasi alam mo muna ung difference. Mas more responsible kana ngayon how you approach or anong nasabi mo sa ibang tao.

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2 years ago

the last one is sooo trueee. As we grow older, mas ma prioritize na nato atong kaugalingong happiness.

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2 years ago

Vtww tinuod jd mem. We are more reaponsible to our own happiness.

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2 years ago

we have so many things to think of so we don't like a lot of drama..haha

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2 years ago

Hahhaha thats true😂

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2 years ago

I feel like I am still half matured, that's better than being a brat. Sense of maturity can easily relax you from taking unnecessary stress.

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2 years ago

You are on a half way there later on you will realize that all of the sign its already done by yourself.

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2 years ago

When adulting happens, we are very conscious and we felt like time is very important. We tend to dismiss and ignore nonsensical things. Instead we focus on our development and how we can earn more.

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2 years ago

Well said my friend! We were really om that stages already by focusing where we can gain more.

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2 years ago

As you grow older you'll definitely get on with this stages, I guess past experiences in life will also help us on becoming mature, kaya yung iba bata pa lang mature na mag isip kasi nahubog na ng panahon at mga pagsubok.

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2 years ago

Totoo yan sis. Yung panahon at mga experience tlga ang maghubog ng isang tao pra maging mature sa buhay.

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2 years ago

I agree kleh. If we are matured already we prefer to be in silence than to engage of fight. It's a waste of time and it's not helpful. We are more on realizations if we are matured already. Yes kleh I mostly prefer to sleep than always going outside.

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2 years ago

We really preferred those things that give us more into reality J. We prefered not to engage non sense things because we realized that nothing can be important than having peace of find.

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2 years ago

Being an adult at an age does have a rather big responsibility compared to being a teenager, because there are many things that we have to pursue and don't think anymore according to being a minor. the future will be recorded in the purpose of life because we have to think about life to get married and so on.

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2 years ago

I agree with that. We are able to vibe the time and situation of how far we've come .Definitely, adulting is hard.

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2 years ago

While reading this, I just realize that I'm a bit matured na ate because sometimes I can't deny na nakakapag judge pa din ako easily haha. But I believe that I'm still on the process of learning about adulthood ☺️

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2 years ago

Yesss you are in that way na. A little by little you will realize na you are already on that track by possessing all those maturity signs.

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2 years ago

Big check on all of that. I have been practicing all those things so I guess I'm old lol! Maturity really depends from person to person no matter the age.

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2 years ago

Heheh we are belong in that track i guess. Wooo adulting strike.

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2 years ago

Being matured is a thing that is inevitable. We tend to suspend our pleasure and choose our priorities. Being mature is changing our personalities and attitude.

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2 years ago

Thats true! We are able to change our personality and always prioritize those things that will help us to grow.

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2 years ago

That's the evidence that we are getting matured enough to the things that are appropriate.

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2 years ago

By relieving my age which is 23 years old, I guess I am really in a mature stage sissy based on the things you have mentioned above. As the days gone by, I can see in myself that I am improving to become one.

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2 years ago

Yes sis. We are in this track by having those signs of maturity. We can say that, we already possess all those.

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2 years ago

I just turned 20 last February and I have so many realizations as I reached this age. My self is really improving and I am happy about it.

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2 years ago

Awe Belated Happy birthday syd. Time really make you realized. Happy for you with that syd.

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2 years ago

Maturity brings lots of changes to us physically and mentally, something no longer matters to us when we are matured and your points say it all. Being matured has nothing to do with age.

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2 years ago

Well said george! Maturity bring us more in reality.

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