What To Do After School
Out of every point in your life at least up to the age of 21 that period between high school and when most people will go to college is the most confusing period in people’s life and the reason why is because when you are much younger mentally you are still a child but you may feel like an adult… You really don’t know what the outside world looks like because you still rely on your parents for so many things, so you may be confused on what success means.. So it transcends to what you want to become after college, the options and the acceptance. The responsibility out there can be so much and in our heads right now we just want to have anything close to Good..
For example you have a dream of being a musician and it’s possible that you had gone through series of learning but you end up being a music teacher for an elementary school there by being around music and teaching to students who are passionate about music while some other people will desire the stardom, the tour and other things like that.. Do you want to be a teacher at a school or football coach or an athlete or any other thing these are broad terms but you have to figure out what you want for your life and be really honest..
I’m used to being reliant on my parent for advice, for mentoring, or grooming but I have to grow and if I don’t have the power to do that or have an answer to my questions then it’s time to give myself space to do that.. The course I’m doing at the moment as my major has to deal with so many expansion of learning from all areas and it widens the opportunity, it feels like there are several options to choose from at the end of the year but at the same time I feel a bit confused.. so throughly I haven’t settled for anything asides from getting out of here and just doing what I’m doing presently..
My point is don’t do what I did, don’t do what I did a little back counting the monday’s till I’m out but after maybe 4 to 5 years things will be different… You will notice the huge mistake of not accepting that your future starts now and how well we seize the moment.. Pick up something that’s not related and figure out that drift but if you feel that your dedication dwells on what you’re doing then so be it, it’s your aspiration and I can’t say anything more or less to that.. But when you choose the other route and it works well for you, it’s the best..
So for each advancement it gets tough and it feels so confusing trying to decide what to do and what not.. you are no more a child so people are trying to know what exactly you do or whether you have a plan and you must have the confidence to pursue a suitable path that you love so much.. If you want to be anything please do that thing and make a living out of it.. I’m passionate about what I love and even though it hasn’t gotten to where I want it to be, it will be there soon and then I would look back over the past years and be thankful I chose this..
Happy Wednesday, have a lovely day… this is your time to think for yourself, learning doesn't stop but you have to start right now with the feeling of what’s important either in your field or outside your field…
February 9th, 2022
I'm 24 now and still so confused about what I want to be in the future although I have plans for myself. It's just that I am not sure how to get there. Thank you for reminding me to start today and choose what's best for me and what can make myself happy.