@King_Gozie
Love And Logic Don’t Mix I do think that we need to set the mindset straight and recently I was in a conversation with a friend and he was like the people around me aren’t high value and he immediately placed a label on every lady… and I’m sure most ladies would do the same when it comes to listening to their own perspective generally… but it’s fine to want to chase anything good but when it’s a good thing it also has its overall downside… For me personally I was very very future oriented as a child and I feel like even though that could be a good thing hence me ending up where I am in such a young age, I also feel like it could be detrimental to your overall life experience. Something like talking to women, you not really going to get anything out if that other than the experience itself but I do feel the experience is what we need sometimes… Love and Logic is a serious bargain and at end of the day we have this life right here to experience and you have one chance to be you and live this exact life which you need to make the most of it thereby balance comes into play… Me personally I’m single, I’m focusing on myself and my career but at the same time I am open to the possibility of being in a relationship when I meet the right girl but if you have the close mindset on focusing only what’s in front of you or can’t have an open mind or be in a relationship or have time for one, if you keep telling yourself that; you may miss out on that person that may take your career into the next phase, that just mean limiting your success.. Do not pitch your life into one category because you can also be limiting your success if you do so… it’s fine to have a pattern but is it a fulfilled or fulfilling path to take and does it let you have the most efficient and rewarding fulfillment when you look back over your life completely.. I’m going to need everyone’s dilemma on this, figure out your why? If you have a much deeper why you will persist through the tough times… One thing about this journey is finding passion through what you do don’t chase everyone around you away, the chances is that you don’t trust yourself to be in a relationship but it happens whereby it turned out to be toxic because both partners feel forced into it… This isn’t an advice to be in a hurry to jump into what you aren’t prepared for but allowing yourself a chance at love and don’t cast out demons who are clearly not… You apply logic at the clear moment when you need to replace that with love and let that into every emotion… and at the same time don’t apply love when it’s supposed to be your time to shine.. it’s your story to tell and when you feel it’s the right time go for it.. There was a previous publication of mine explaining in detail being single and taking things slow, not to contradict every thing said but the grace in acceptance.. 100 percent you can deal with it differently it’s you and I can’t change that neither can anyone, most importantly your happiness mean a lot to me… Lastly when you don’t love yourself you feel people don’t love you as much but I feel you should be able to allow people in so the more you adore yourself the more you allow people show love to you, one thing is you aren’t comfortable with it but when you do it changes everything… **so not all women or men are evil people!!!!** Have a nice day dear friends and if I’ve missed a lot please accept my apology…. Love you all and stay safe… *****February 15th, 2022*****
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Why? Why? Why? We also need to differentiate between love and lost or mere like
That’s true… there’s a huge gap between both
That's the reason for always has to love yourself first, then other look at you 👌
what if someone is being used and they realised it little lately, won't it hurt the heart of that person? Maybe he won't become cold after that but it is one possibility, no??
Most times we are affected by what we see and we believe that everyone is like that, like a place where 90% of the girls are after money, we will feel like all girls are like that.
This is exactly how my logic was, easy to conclude that something is what it is without even calming down…. Once bad everything becomes bad as well, critical aspect that needs urgency
Sometimes they don't connect. Love from heart and logic from brain, they never connects but if do, that creates a great thing in relation.
That’s right Luci… I would allow that cause it plays an important aspect, inasmuch as we try to make room we must apply logic
RELATIONSHIP born of "let's try" often result to an unwelcome condition. It should be well analysed before venturing into a relationship, certain things need to be checked and put in place first.
At times irlts bound to happen to us as humans that we would have to feel that way. But that never meant us to conclude to the fact that all men and woman are the same. Just that they might not be of your kind. They are surely someone favourite. That's just life. Great write from you sir
Thank you so much Yusuf… the path that needs urgency is tagging everyone same just because of what we hear or how much we feel about a particular thing, it’s very bad…. It’s good to be very careful but as well let people in
Yeah. What a fatherly advice from you sir
This is one thing but I am very sensitive about. Sometimes there might be this fear that when one totally falls for someone's else, that person might dissappoint him or her in the near future. So , some people might only focus on a career path, business or "hustle" so that not to lost at both ends
This is just me. I find it hard to believe that someone can love me unconditionally because I always look for flaws within me.
I was curious about your topic but the explanation put things in perspective. You can bring in logic at the point it is needed and vice versa
The fear of losing all senses has restricted us from truly falling in love, we are usually scared not just about falling for the wrong person, but that we'd be a fool in love
Nice piece... Love sacrifice but logic rationalised.. #Peace #OkanlaDavid
Right words David thank you so much…
I have seen in my life wih my eyes of people losing oppurtunities because they applied love in the place of logic... these are the small things we do not usually think about, but damn.. what an eye opener.. Also, missed you King. Hope you are doing okay
I’ve been away for some time but I’m trying to catch up fast… I miss you too.. the tow should be given a distance and we should know when to apply it individually and also at the same time, a lot get stuck in this kind of situation… Have a lovely Wednesday
Have a wonderful day to you too
Thank you
Love is love and logic and logic. It's okay to apply logically but be sure it's proper and in a right way.
Vey true dear thank you
Very true King! Love and logic will be applied in different situation.
We should try to know the right time to apply then both or individually it helps a lot
Turns out they do mix and we have to apply both. That's loud and clear :)