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@King_Gozie

I Have Absolutely Zero Friends Don't get me wrong but I simply recognise that even though one should be secure within themselves and be comfortable being alone and be comfortable doing by themselves, we're in this earth with people for a reason. If you where meant to spend your entirety alone other people won't exist, I wouldn't have friends here to share my content with, I would have other people share my experiences with, I wouldn't have people to uplift me when I'm at my lowest points and I wouldn't be where I am today. So while you make friends, maybe quality friends.. friends that will elevate in your life. If you feel like you have trouble approaching people one thing you have to do and you can do is to be yourself..you will be surrounded by a bunch is people that you don't click with and there's nothing worse than being with a lot of people that make you feel lonely when you"re with them. That is the worst feeling, its much better for me to be alone than to be around people that make me feel lonely. Just because I'm alone dosent mean I have to feel lonely but when I feel isolated is one of the worst feeling ever.. I have to learn to be confident is who I am and the principle that I at and for and not that I'm trying to enforce my principle upon every one else but at the same you and I have to be secure within who we are and at the same time maintaining an open mind. I've had some of the most intellectual conversation with my friends and naturally don't even feel compelled to talk to them if I were discriminating based on that but when I put all of that aside I can find authentic connection.. Focus more on the connection with the people you have around you, coz at the end of the day all we really want in friendship is to be understood and that's why we are social by nature.. we need some interactions to maintain our sanity and avoid going crazy sometimes. People need to feel understood and having a validation and so we desire to be around someone.. I was bluffing from the start, I do have friends and I have very few amazing people that I can solidly call my friends.. even right here on read.cash. Put all those internal self obstacles away, your friends will love you just the way you are.. All under the assumption that you didn't do something toxic, but there are times when people need to be cut off and not you being a and friend but you've got to work on yourself to discover what the problem is.. But those kind of people do not belong in your life and when people leave your life is when the universe gives room for more people in your life.. You can have just one friend who means the world to you, that's the prettiest thing ever make sure you keep that person.. I guess I pretty much made a click bait.. I'm going to give you a very good indicator that somebody no longer belong in your life and it's time to cut somebody off.. when all your conversion revolves about your past, then next is when you don't benefit from that person any more and there's no conversion to be built anymore. You're not obligated to put your energy on anybody that don't value you, save it for people that matter.. I had to place some people in my life in some category, people I don’t talk to anymore like from my high school won’t be what I stress on everyday.. Another indicator should be when you’re always the one asking about the person and you’re not even called when bad things happens to you. The love should be reciprocated and not one sided… I’m grateful for what this community has done and has created for over a year… The friendships built and the trust as well… So I don’t have zero friends, I have 390+ friends.. Thank you for reading, Have a lovely Tuesday… and thanks to everyone that renewed your sponsorship, it means a lot to me. ***December 28th 2021***

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