“How Does Loving Make You Look Weak?” We Need People Like You

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2 years ago

The question is “Should you love more?” I got to really break down the instances when you should love differently because when we see a man or a woman truly loving that means that you’re too faithful and we are used to seeing relationships where either parties cheat. You’d see an instance where a woman tells another woman that your man should love you more than you love him or a man says that to a woman it kind of mean that this person should love you enough to be 200percent faithful to you, love you and cherish you..

So I was asking my friend about that and she said that’s just too much today and it’s crazy.. because obviously you aren’t seeing all those fancy stuff happen and you’d see people in this form of an internal war that being someone good is not just me, and being someone who would show the desired love and cherish and also respect my partner that’s just not going to work.. Can you be a keeper, like literally bringing life into the relationship and respect individuality between you both, you see that as something impossible..

Like you know if there isn’t control men are often times called the weak link and everybody wants you to be who you’re not.. What if you go against that and respect your women’s minds. You’d see homes that have devised a wrong tactics and often times too hot for each party to bear.. loosen up a bit and do not conform to what the world says but how you want to show love and understanding.

If anyone’s saying something different to you please block that person completely because that person wants you to fail in that relationship… Do not make friends with people that wants your downfall, you may see it as pride and authority but you don’t know how you hurt your partner by depriving that person to shine just like you do.. he or she shouldn’t be your experiment to practice what you haven’t in your lifetime..

You can’t always practice what the world neglects you on into your home coz every one in their decent mind still see you as the problem, self reflection is important..

“Was this my intention while going through with it..How do I get through with it? I’m I doing what is right?” I can’t keep on doing this. We need people like the real you, who is compassionate, loving, peaceful and kindhearted..

Allow love flow and be at peace with yourself for doing that… the harsh reality is those people who want this don’t even show the love back and they all be wanting care and faithfulness… “Initially what was your love built on, how did you become so close and what made you so close?” If that is dealt with in no time you should see that return..

Listen, if I’m not who you want me to be do not judge me as a friend or whatsoever it is.. this is my life I want to be different… I could cook for my partner if want to, I could do things differently if I want to… I could buy you flowers a hundred times if I want to, it’s me and not you.. Showing love to the fullest doesn’t make you weak, so my own direct advice is to love…

It takes the heart of two to make it work, it must be in alignment.. when you love, love for real don’t pretend to have attributes that isn’t yours. You can’t come to a realization of your fault when the union or the relationship is called off. If you happen to be my close friend, I will tell you the truth..

Thanks to all my readers for always staying with me… I really appreciate everything and also your beautiful comments..

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Everyone has their own way of showing love and because it doesn't align with your own way doesn't mean the person isn't doing it right or not been treated right

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2 years ago

We can be sure that we love, but we can never be sure that we are loved. It's nice when it comes to love without expecting anything in return. Most people are hypocrites when it comes to love and interfering with others. Sentences beginning with if I were you can go on forever. But it's not you, every personality is different and every person's decision, the way of love they will show is different. We just don't understand this difference.

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2 years ago

They debate over your life right there in your presence… seriously this is my life and not yours, I think our response should change towards those that have bad intentions and we could clearly see it… thank for this

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2 years ago

Men and women today base their relationship on the what they are being told or what they see their friends doing. People need to understand that you can't be someone else that you aren't, going into a relationship or else it will collapse. You just have to be yourself and real, be open and be respectful to your partner.

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2 years ago

Very true, it should love and nothing else from nobody… we shouldn’t even give room for others to tell us what love is… if love makes you weak then be the weakest person on earth

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2 years ago

Love is the complement between the couple, there must be mutual understanding and respect. It is not a competition to see who has more power, it is a union, to highlight the strengths of each one.

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2 years ago

Very well said… there need to be mutual respect, each person do have separate needs as well… thank you

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2 years ago

I totally agree with you, relationship needs two hearts who both shows the love genuinely. Give love because you wanted to and when you give love it must be a real one 😊

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2 years ago

Exactly true.. it must real and genuine with no compromise whatsoever

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2 years ago

You have set the eyes of love and reality ablaze. Well drafted and pinned. We live in a society where people nurse how to treat others based on their own experiences. So, when you seek an advise from a friend, remember that this person you are dating is a bundle of uniqueness and your friends' opinion may be far from being an option.

Since love just happens. We should inreturn just love. Because what has been pivoting your affairs towards laughter and love isn't stupidity. It's the fact that there is a balanced ideological personality and it's working for you. I'm glad I came by. Your words are arrows of wonderful thoughts. Thank you.

If you want to be a boss over your woman, get a job and employ a woman to boss over. It's a relationship not a business venture.

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2 years ago

I love your write up,really touched all areas.. we just have it in mind that the person you’re with is human being and unique too just like you said… so if at all we want to practice control and command we can get someone else to place that on… but when it comes to relationships it must be based off of love..

Thank you Tyelev

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2 years ago

Love is for the people who have a mutual feelings to each other. It should be real. It is the greatest emotion that we can give to the people who are especial in our hearts.

It is between the two that giving and sharing the love, the real love with the partners. The scintillate love that we can share to our love ones.

God bless you sir Gozie.🙏😇

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2 years ago

The love is basically between two people and there shouldn’t be a third wheel telling you what to do… I love your opinion God bless you dear

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2 years ago

Yes having a third wheel is a biggest mistake sir. We should avoided that. Thank you so much sir Gozie.

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2 years ago

Well it depends on the kind of love for romantic love why people say it makes you weak is because it seem like you can never fault this person you love whatever they do is right by you and so you discover that sometimes they might treat you wrong but you still stay with them because you love them

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2 years ago

Well written, this matter of love ehn, if person no trade with caution, it will end in tears and that person involved will still be hiding under love.. thanks Levi

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2 years ago

Thanks for the write up boss

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2 years ago

You’re welcome brother

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2 years ago

Those who lives the way they are not, or beyond their worth are said to be facing life😁

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2 years ago

You don't need to hide the love you have for someone. If you don't love kindly let the person know

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2 years ago

Exactly, we can’t be hot and cold at the same time.. thank you

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2 years ago

Love & it's explanations will never end. We know that in the end we smile on happy ending but never care those broken ones who failed.

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2 years ago

This hits deep, it’s all in caring too in our little way… thank you

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2 years ago

The spirit of love is useless if it is not aligned as one. To love is to be love for me . It's not cool to pretend that you love someone even if you don't . You're just torturing the souls of the person.. To love someone is to be real.

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2 years ago

Very true, there must be a realization.. if you love then show love if it’s then the other way then leave the relationship… we must not or people dictate what we feel or not

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2 years ago

Yeah, love is for the two people who love each other. It will last if you really love each other and not pretending to love each other. It's not love anymore, it better to break that relationship if you felt that way.

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2 years ago

If you love, then don’t let anyone tell you when and how to,.. it’s a relationship between two people and not three… better to go separate ways when love isn’t present anymore

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2 years ago

That's the right decision. That's why God gave only one heart to us to choose only the love of our life. And the brain is higher than the heart for us to know what is the right decision we made. So it's best to know how the true meaning of love by heart and think the right decision by using our left and right brain.☺☺

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2 years ago

Show them the real you and love them without changing yourself or changing them. Pretending to do things that they like is not love anymore. Show them what you can do and let the love grow report despite being imperfect but is still doing your best for your love.

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2 years ago

I really love where you wrote doing our best for love… no one should ever tell us when or not to love.. at the end pretending will Make us loose out

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2 years ago

I am still confuse if terms and conditions are really needed in a relationship. I mean if you know your limits, you don't have to be reminded about everything

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2 years ago

That’s the fact, but a lot still don’t get this..

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2 years ago

If everyone loved truly, this world would be a better place. That's the greatest commandment is on loving. There's so that love can accommodate. So I say, love genuinely

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2 years ago

Preach!!! Thank you for this..

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2 years ago

See love is strange I don't understand it sef, It can make the weakest person strong and a strongest person weak. Sometimes, in love people do not want to lose the love and so they keep on agreeing with all the terms and conditions of their partner and this is what makes them weak.

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2 years ago

You have written well brother, the fact that periods agree literally when the are not even happy with it.. is truly what I can’t explain… there should be understanding between two parties…

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2 years ago

This love and relationship stuff... Some would say "go for someone that loves you more than you do" while some would say "go for someone you loves more". But the truth is that, if the hearts are not compatible it can't work. Whether the love is much from one sided.

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2 years ago

‘Compatibility’ I just realized this word from you today, how important it is.. if both Parties hearts aren’t aligned then it wouldn’t last..

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2 years ago

Love is the power, it's the strength we need. But as you said, people take love for granted and do something for the sake of it what they are not supposed to. Like emotional manipulation. Also, people think love makes us weak which I never believe. It was a good read.

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2 years ago

You’d see spot on reference that love is for the weak, to hell with anybody who says that to you and I… show love the way you want to, in the most beautiful way

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2 years ago

I wanna know what goes in your brain to think about such complexities in a simple way and write about it :))) I love your thought process

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2 years ago

Thank you Bhargi.. you’re a gem.. and thank you for always coming through and supporting as well.. God bless you dear 💛

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2 years ago

Exactly, relationship was made by the two hearts who loves each other and shows the same affection.

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2 years ago

Both sides have to show and reciprocate same love… we must understand what there is to a relationship before diving into it..

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2 years ago

That is true sir, not showing love to the fullest doesn't mean love has ended. Only if you could be patient. I only needed time in my own case

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2 years ago

I agree but if that little love left could be used then it would go as far as restoring homes again… thank you..

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2 years ago

I agree with you king! We should not pretend the love that we give to others. We should give love what comes from our heart genuinely.

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2 years ago

That’s very true… we shouldn’t comply to peoples words, rather when it is right it’s always right and the best path to follow… we must live differently and show love.. thank Kleah

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2 years ago

Absolutely, if we wanted the real love we should exchange that true love as well.

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2 years ago

You always have so much insight when it comes to matters of the heart. I love your emphasis on being real and true to yourself. If you pretend to love someone, on the long run you end up hurting the person and hurting yourself also

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2 years ago

That’s true… love should be based on two and not just one, it shouldn’t be one sided coz that’s how you tell if it’s long term.

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2 years ago