The question is “Should you love more?” I got to really break down the instances when you should love differently because when we see a man or a woman truly loving that means that you’re too faithful and we are used to seeing relationships where either parties cheat. You’d see an instance where a woman tells another woman that your man should love you more than you love him or a man says that to a woman it kind of mean that this person should love you enough to be 200percent faithful to you, love you and cherish you..
So I was asking my friend about that and she said that’s just too much today and it’s crazy.. because obviously you aren’t seeing all those fancy stuff happen and you’d see people in this form of an internal war that being someone good is not just me, and being someone who would show the desired love and cherish and also respect my partner that’s just not going to work.. Can you be a keeper, like literally bringing life into the relationship and respect individuality between you both, you see that as something impossible..
Like you know if there isn’t control men are often times called the weak link and everybody wants you to be who you’re not.. What if you go against that and respect your women’s minds. You’d see homes that have devised a wrong tactics and often times too hot for each party to bear.. loosen up a bit and do not conform to what the world says but how you want to show love and understanding.
If anyone’s saying something different to you please block that person completely because that person wants you to fail in that relationship… Do not make friends with people that wants your downfall, you may see it as pride and authority but you don’t know how you hurt your partner by depriving that person to shine just like you do.. he or she shouldn’t be your experiment to practice what you haven’t in your lifetime..
You can’t always practice what the world neglects you on into your home coz every one in their decent mind still see you as the problem, self reflection is important..
“Was this my intention while going through with it..How do I get through with it? I’m I doing what is right?” I can’t keep on doing this. We need people like the real you, who is compassionate, loving, peaceful and kindhearted..
Allow love flow and be at peace with yourself for doing that… the harsh reality is those people who want this don’t even show the love back and they all be wanting care and faithfulness… “Initially what was your love built on, how did you become so close and what made you so close?” If that is dealt with in no time you should see that return..
Listen, if I’m not who you want me to be do not judge me as a friend or whatsoever it is.. this is my life I want to be different… I could cook for my partner if want to, I could do things differently if I want to… I could buy you flowers a hundred times if I want to, it’s me and not you.. Showing love to the fullest doesn’t make you weak, so my own direct advice is to love…
It takes the heart of two to make it work, it must be in alignment.. when you love, love for real don’t pretend to have attributes that isn’t yours. You can’t come to a realization of your fault when the union or the relationship is called off. If you happen to be my close friend, I will tell you the truth..
Thanks to all my readers for always staying with me… I really appreciate everything and also your beautiful comments..
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November 2021
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Everyone has their own way of showing love and because it doesn't align with your own way doesn't mean the person isn't doing it right or not been treated right